hiii evryone....am just tooo much devastated by krishna's recent cndition..... according to me....KRISHNA'S FAULTS ISNT SOO MUCH THAT HE CNT BE FORGIVEN......especially wen he had understood his mistake and punished himself for slapping his wife.....
let me tell u one thng...am a vry sensitive person...i see other shows too....and feel vry bad for the sufferring women...vry bad....bt i dnt know why...here...i dnt thnk at all that for pratigya's sufferings,krishna is the sole person responsible.......coz HE IS NOT....... she is a suffere,no doubt.....bt she CNT make krishna responsible for that......NVR...... didnt she know previously that how the THAKUR khandan was????? didnt she know it how they do not have any respect for human beings let alone women? didnt she witness how they used to behave wen they used to come to their house? if then also she cn take this decision to get married in such a household,then she shud have the GUTS to CARRY OUT HER DECISION.......
people ask me----huh!!!! wat r u saying have u evr imagined urself in pratigya's shoes?
to answer them------yes...i hve.....i wudnt have evr MARRIED HIM ON THE FRST STEP......
i wud hve told him on that day(the day my bro and he were having a fight)-----krishna i want to meet u and talk to u.....
then i wud have said straight on his face--------I DNT LOVE U.... then i wud hve surely faced the consequences instead of being an ESCAPIST..........
marrying the man u hate....is the most insensitive step one cn take.......are u r giving that person a chnace to thnk that u love him...u r giving that person false dreams......false wishes and making him to build his castle in air..........why shud u do it? as like noone has the right to play with UR feelings...u shudnt have that RYT TOO.....
evryone listen to this carefully..krishna had gone to her house bt saxena ji drove him and his father out.. then he said-----aab hum intezaar karenge....ke kab rishta aapke taraf se aye.....
bas.....he did nt take ANY step after that.......
now put light on the thngs wich happened after this-----
angad kidnapped pratigya and blamed krishna...adarsh went to kill krishna and pratigya agreed to the marriage to save her brother......
WAT IS KRISHNA'S FAULT HERE? let me ask to guys agen....WAT HAS KRISHNA TO DO WITH THIS? WHY HE SUFFERED THE CONSEQUENCES? WHY HE?
evn after his wife told him that she hates him......he cntinued to guard her frm his junglee family....cntinue to shower his love on her...... WITH ABSOLUTELY NO RETURN......NT EVN A SWEET THANKS FRM HER SIDE.......
wat he did in the honeymoon was WRONG...WRONG WRONG WRONG......bt if u people noticed...... wen prats went to the toilet to escape frm krishna...she thot of those incidents wich krishna HAD NT DONE....she thot abt the writing on the wall---whu did that? angad...she thot abt nitin's cnditin...whu did that? angad.....she thot of her kidnapping...whu did that? angad.......
WAT DID KRISHNA DO?????????????????
i dnt blame prats.......how wud she know...poor grl,she was herself suffering frm severe cnsequences..........
bt wat struck me was her wrds------tum dhongi ho......jhut dhong kar rahe the.....
tell me one thng...wen krishna got hurt by the knife for saving aarushi's dignity and honour....did he go and tell prats that----DEKHO HUMNE TUMRE BEHEN KE LIYE KA KIYA....????
no...he dint...he dint....... well IF HE WAS A DHONGI...THEN HE WUD HVE SURELY SAID THAT TO ACQUIRE SYMPATHY FOR HIMSELF........
my thoughts abt prats changed frm that day itself...i got to see the caring part of her wich her hatred had buried somewhere deep down inside her heart......we saw her in a vry sweet avatar that day.....i loved her that day...especially wen he dabbed his forehead with her anchal......how she was crying.......and all.....
i nvr blamed prats for the thngs wich happened in her life.....except for one thng-----marrying krishna and giving him false hopes was totally WRONG ON HER SIDE...... otherwise til now she had done nothng wrong......
bt.....................................
A BIG BUT................................
she is nt doing ryt now....SHE IS NOT.....am nt saying her to go back to the jungle with krishna...bt she cn tell him directly that she wants her honour back? wats wrong in that? he is her husband...she cn demand frm him all ryt......
bt wat pinched my heart is to see how she behaved with him wen he came to take her away.....
she dint evn talk to him?huh? wat type of behavior is this? no good grl with a good background cn show this kind of behavior......NVR....watevr u may have suffered......
i had heard somewhere---------
maaf kar dene se koi chota ya bada nhi hota aur jo maaf karta hain uska dil bht bada hota hain.......
guys am a bengali.....theres a famous bangladeshi song...its believed to be a suicide note of a man whuse wife left him..... i wanted to share this with all of u...i hve translated it...so that u all cn understand the intensity of HIS LAST SPOKEN WRDS........
amar bhitor o bahire antore antore acho tumi hridoy jure
(u r there inside and outside,evrywhere,u fill all corners of my heart)
pushe rakhe jemon jhinuk
(the way these shells hide)
kholosher aborone muktar sukh
(protect the happiness of a pearl)
temni tomar nibir chola
(the way u walk,the way u smile)
hridoyer nil bondore
(i will always cherish those memories in the ocean of my heart)
bhalo achi bhalo theko....
(am well,u stay well)
akasher thikanay chithi likho.....
(write letters to me in my ADDRESS IN THE SKY)
diyo tomar malakhani,bauler ei montare
(give ur garland....once.....around my neck)
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GOD THIS IS HEART-WRENCHING......
listen to this song here.....,u may nt understand the lyrics...if u arent a bengali.....bt u cn feel the intensity for sure........
lastly i wud just say---------pratigya plzzzzzzzz forgive him......watevr he is......HE LOVES U.......CNT LIVE WITHOUT U......plzzzzzzzzzz
u wnt regret ur decision.......see....just once.....forgive him....plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......
Edited by kaasshh - 15 years ago