Originally posted by: kaasshh
hiii evryone....am just tooo much devastated by krishna's recent cndition..... according to me....KRISHNA'S FAULTS ISNT SOO MUCH THAT HE CNT BE FORGIVEN......especially wen he had understood his mistake and punished himself for slapping his wife.....
We're still not sure if he has realized his mistake and if tht's the reason behind him cutting his hand.Best to wait and watch till that scene comes.And if he really feels bad for what he did by now he would've told everyone the truth that Pratigya wasn't the one at fault and that he was the one who lied to them all.And I think that assaulting someone physically is almost like a crime which does not deserve to be forgiven.The minute he raised his hand on Pratigya,he had already lost it.Now after all the suffering and pain which Krishna himself caused it's up to Pratigya to decide whether she wants to forgive him or not but my personal opinion is that those who take up to physical violence should never ever be forgiven.
let me tell u one thng...am a vry sensitive person...i see other shows too....and feel vry bad for the sufferring women...vry bad....bt i dnt know why...here...i dnt thnk at all that for pratigya's sufferings,krishna is the sole person responsible.......coz HE IS NOT....... she is a suffere,no doubt.....bt she CNT make krishna responsible for that......NVR...... didnt she know previously that how the THAKUR khandan was????? didnt she know it how they do not have any respect for human beings let alone women? didnt she witness how they used to behave wen they used to come to their house? if then also she cn take this decision to get married in such a household,then she shud have the GUTS to CARRY OUT HER DECISION.......
It wasn't like she was the one who was jumping around to get married to Krishna.We all very well know the circumstances under which she agreed to get married to him.She did that to try and save whatever little respect which was left for her family's sake.And remember,even Krishna was partly responsible for tarnishing her's and her family's reputation.And anyway,whether you want to feel bad or not for her is completely your choice and most of us here know how much you love Krishna so perhaps that's why your not able to see how much Pratigya is suffering and aren't able to feel bad for her but lol it's not necessary for us to feel bad for any particular character always.
people ask me----huh!!!! wat r u saying have u evr imagined urself in pratigya's shoes?
to answer them------yes...i hve.....i wudnt have evr MARRIED HIM ON THE FRST STEP......
i wud hve told him on that day(the day my bro and he were having a fight)-----krishna i want to meet u and talk to u.....
then i wud have said straight on his face--------I DNT LOVE U.... then i wud hve surely faced the consequences instead of being an ESCAPIST..........
Well Kaash,here the situation was not all that easy coz Pratigya thought that Krishna was the one who kidnapped her.So to try and save the reputation of her family which had already been tarnished a lot thanks to Angad kidnapping her she agreed to marry Krishna since she thought that he was the one who kidnapped her.And knowing the kind of guy Krishna is I really doubt if he would've ever taken her feelings into consideration even if she had said no to him.
marrying the man u hate....is the most insensitive step one cn take.......are u r giving that person a chnace to thnk that u love him...u r giving that person false dreams......false wishes and making him to build his castle in air..........why shud u do it? as like noone has the right to play with UR feelings...u shudnt have that RYT TOO.....
Well she had to marry him since there was no other option according to the track of the story line.Here maybe you think that she was playing with his feelings but the truth is that he was playing with her life and her's and her family's self respect.He had turned her life into a living nightmare where he did play a major role in tarnishing her's and her family's respect in such a way that they couldn't see face to face with the existing and harsh society.
evryone listen to this carefully..krishna had gone to her house bt saxena ji drove him and his father out.. then he said-----aab hum intezaar karenge....ke kab rishta aapke taraf se aye.....
bas.....he did nt take ANY step after that.......
now put light on the thngs wich happened after this-----
angad kidnapped pratigya and blamed krishna...adarsh went to kill krishna and pratigya agreed to the marriage to save her brother......
WAT IS KRISHNA'S FAULT HERE? let me ask to guys agen....WAT HAS KRISHNA TO DO WITH THIS? WHY HE SUFFERED THE CONSEQUENCES? WHY HE?
Well it's not like the kidnapping is Pratigya's fault either.Anagd was the one whose the reason behind all this.And due to the kidnapping,Pratigya was the one who suffered the most.Not Krishna.
evn after his wife told him that she hates him......he cntinued to guard her frm his junglee family....cntinue to shower his love on her...... WITH ABSOLUTELY NO RETURN......NT EVN A SWEET THANKS FRM HER SIDE.......
Well it's not like she asked him to help her.Infact if you remember the scene clearly,it was Amma who egged him on to say something otherwise I doubt if he would've done anything.
wat he did in the honeymoon was WRONG...WRONG WRONG WRONG......bt if u people noticed...... wen prats went to the toilet to escape frm krishna...she thot of those incidents wich krishna HAD NT DONE....she thot abt the writing on the wall---whu did that? angad...she thot abt nitin's cnditin...whu did that? angad.....she thot of her kidnapping...whu did that? angad.......
WAT DID KRISHNA DO?????????????????
i dnt blame prats.......how wud she know...poor grl,she was herself suffering frm severe cnsequences..........
Precisely,she didn't even know that it was Angad who was behind all this and not Krishna.Even now when I think of that incident I feel like killing Krishna for physically assaulting Pratigya like that😡😡😡
bt wat struck me was her wrds------tum dhongi ho......jhut dhong kar rahe the.....
tell me one thng...wen krishna got hurt by the knife for saving aarushi's dignity and honour....did he go and tell prats that----DEKHO HUMNE TUMRE BEHEN KE LIYE KA KIYA....????
no...he dint...he dint....... well IF HE WAS A DHONGI...THEN HE WUD HVE SURELY SAID THAT TO ACQUIRE SYMPATHY FOR HIMSELF........
Well he might not be a dhongi but the way he expresses his love for her is surely wrong but then again it's becasue of his upbringing so you can't really blame him for that.
my thoughts abt prats changed frm that day itself...i got to see the caring part of her wich her hatred had buried somewhere deep down inside her heart......we saw her in a vry sweet avatar that day.....i loved her that day...especially wen he dabbed his forehead with her anchal......how she was crying.......and all.....
Yup,she was pretty shocked to see him in such a state and hence took care of him out of sheer humanity.
i nvr blamed prats for the thngs wich happened in her life.....except for one thng-----marrying krishna and giving him false hopes was totally WRONG ON HER SIDE...... otherwise til now she had done nothng wrong......
Well there again it's not like she was willing to get married to him.The point is that she had to get married to him or rather she was forced into it.
bt.....................................
A BIG BUT................................
she is nt doing ryt now....SHE IS NOT.....am nt saying her to go back to the jungle with krishna...bt she cn tell him directly that she wants her honour back? wats wrong in that? he is her husband...she cn demand frm him all ryt......
Well what kind of honour are you talking about?Pls specify.And anyway,Krishna doesn't even know how to respect human beings leave alone women.
bt wat pinched my heart is to see how she behaved with him wen he came to take her away.....
she dint evn talk to him?huh? wat type of behavior is this? no good grl with a good background cn show this kind of behavior......NVR....watevr u may have suffered......
Sorry to say,but no sensible woman would talk with respect to the guy who slapped her,ill treated her and insulted her infront of everyone for no fault of her's.And to top it of he put the entire blame on her by telling everyone in his parivaar that Pratigya was lying when it was actually he who lied.Instead of telling everyone the truth,like a coward he's lieing even more now saying that she was the one who lied.😡😡😡
i had heard somewhere---------
maaf kar dene se koi chota ya bada nhi hota aur jo maaf karta hain uska dil bht bada hota hain.......
Shayad,par kuch harkatein aisi hoti hai jo maafi ke bhi layak nahi hoti hai like insulting her and assaulting physically,emotionally and threatening her time and again.
guys am a bengali.....theres a famous bangladeshi song...its believed to be a suicide note of a man whuse wife left him..... i wanted to share this with all of u...i hve translated it...so that u all cn understand the intensity of HIS LAST SPOKEN WRDS........
amar bhitor o bahire antore antore acho tumi hridoy jure
(u r there inside and outside,evrywhere,u fill all corners of my heart)
pushe rakhe jemon jhinuk
(the way these shells hide)
kholosher aborone muktar sukh
(protect the happiness of a pearl)
temni tomar nibir chola
(the way u walk,the way u smile)
hridoyer nil bondore
(i will always cherish those memories in the ocean of my heart)
bhalo achi bhalo theko....
(am well,u stay well)
akasher thikanay chithi likho.....
(write letters to me in my ADDRESS IN THE SKY)
diyo tomar malakhani,bauler ei montare
(give ur garland....once.....around my neck)
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GOD THIS IS HEART-WRENCHING......
listen to this song here.....,u may nt understand the lyrics...if u arent a bengali.....bt u cn feel the intensity for sure........
Man,this is sad considering the fact that it's a suicide note😔
lastly i wud just say---------pratigya plzzzzzzzz forgive him......watevr he is......HE LOVES U.......CNT LIVE WITHOUT U......plzzzzzzzzzz
u wnt regret ur decision.......see....just once.....forgive him....plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......
Well mate,we'll just have to wait and watch to see that😊.