Post marriage, Anandi has been the most regressive character of the show. Sorry to say that as she was my favourite character during her J-A-G days but all down now.
She does not have any aim or motive in life. No zeal, no ambition. She is absolutely clueless about her life and no longer the person who could adapt to changing times and society. She just runs from one person's problem to another's.
First she was after J and BH problems, then focus shifted to Sa, then Shiv's identity and then sudden want to adopt a child.
Adopting a child is a good idea but there has to some connection. Not just sympathy and goodness.
In all this, CVs lost the strong built up of Anandi, they had once sketched. Anandi is no longer an epitome of strength or role model for anyone.
She is just a soft-hearted person with goodness at heart. period.