Disappointed with the writers and how they treat familial relations...

Why don't CV's get it? Arjun could have still been loyal to Purvi while raising Pia. I feel like the CV's are trying to portray Arjun's lack of parental responsibility towards Pia as a good, noble, sacrificial thing to do for Purvi. It's simply not. As long as Arjun didn't love anyone else (as they keep beating into our heads), he should be able to raise his daughter, even if she's not Purvi's. Pia's his responsibility. By not considering Pia as his daughter all these years, Arjun's not looking "mahaan" and loyal, he's looking like a irresponsible deadbeat, heartless, moody, good-for-nothing "man". WHY Ovi loved this moron I will never know.

Excellent thread!

I completely agree with what you have written.

The way fathers have been written on this show, particularly Manav and Arjun, is a disgrace.

A father's relationship and opinion of his children should NOT matter on who the mother is or what the mother thinks.

Arjun has no interest in Pia because she is Ovi's daugther and he didn't try hard enough to fight for Pari because I guess that appeases Purvi. He should have fought to stay in BOTH of his daughters life despite of what the mothers think or say.

I agree 100% with your post. He doesn't care about Pia at all - Ovi wasn't hiding from Arjun. Arjun had Ovi's contact information, she wasn't running away from him! But Arjun doesn't care about his responsibilities. He never cared about his responsibilities as Ovi's husband, nor his responsibilities for his stillborn and Pia. The only person he gave a damn about was Purvi and his love child Pari. He didn't even care about Pari that much before he realized that it was Purvi's child... he only loves Pari because of Purvi, not because it's his child.

I find it funny if we compare it to ArMaan. ArMaan only care about their adopted child Purvi, whereas they don't really care about their actual biological "love child" Ovi. They clearly don't care about Teju that much either.

On one hand, the love child, Ovi, gets no attention from her parent's, and on the other hand, the love child of Arjun is getting all the attention in the world, even though he has another child.

who told pia is arjun's daughter...she is ovi's daughter , so ovi hide about it to aejun

Other than that they treat marriage like a joke! Almost in all serials they like divorce/seperated a million times and then get reunited a million times. Its so hard sometimes to keep track of who married who!Forget other serials, in Pr itself it has happened.

I thought of the same thing but a stark realization then hit me.


YOU GUYS WE'VE BEEN WRONG!

See we don't understand true love when we criticize the amar premis Arjun-Purvi. Up till today, I didn't know what real love is, THANK YOU arvi for showing me the real meaning.

Long gazes, rain, a romantic track - all true love.

Neglecting your responsibilities towards others, being head-strong and not trusting each other - true love.

So next time you try to work at your relationship - STOP,,,just remember all you need are long gazes, rain, romantic songs NOT understanding, patience, and trust.

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

I thought of the same thing but a stark realization then hit me.


YOU GUYS WE'VE BEEN WRONG!

See we don't understand true love when we criticize the amar premis Arjun-Purvi. Up till today, I didn't know what real love is, THANK YOU arvi for showing me the real meaning.

Long gazes, rain, a romantic track - all true love.

Neglecting your responsibilities towards others, being head-strong and not trusting each other - true love.

So next time you try to work at your relationship - STOP,,,just remember all you need are long gazes, rain, romantic songs NOT understanding, patience, and trust.

Adding to this list make sure you have one amazingly steaming (Close encounter of the APs Kind) rendezvous in a shack-rainy night for him to never forget it & keep pining for you 😉. Oh how could I forget the infamouse "Chai" 😛

Seems like Ovi does not mind if Arjun does not talk to to Pia or not even ask about her, As she is happily helping him and even giving Arjun head massage ( well I wont give if some one treat like this to my daughter) any way if we can talk about Arjun, s behavior its more strange Ovi is still around Arjun.

Originally posted by: Ashi22

Seems like Ovi does not mind if Arjun does not talk to to Pia or not even ask about her, As she is happily helping him and even giving Arjun head massage ( well I wont give if some one treat like this to my daughter) any way if we can talk about Arjun, s behavior its more strange Ovi is still around Arjun.