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Posted: 11 years ago
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But i think u guys r forgetting tht Arjun and Ovi were best friends before the whole ordeal. And she had loved arjun too once upon a time. i thought the head massage was a bit awkward too, bu it was understandable in a way cuz of their past history
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: samarth300

But i think u guys r forgetting tht Arjun and Ovi were best friends before the whole ordeal. And she had loved arjun too once upon a time. i thought the head massage was a bit awkward too, bu it was understandable in a way cuz of their past history



Not only that..But Arjun is having strange headaches and due to the clot he looked as if he was having one so Ovi was trying to massage..Not that she wants to get intimate with him.

She could have surely made advances if that was the case..

But if someone wants to think otherwise all power to them.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Varsha , the way they showed that scene was a little strange .But you are probably right and it was nothing just a friendly gesture ..
Maybe I am thinking too much ..
Ovi and Arjun are good friends and she is there for him in this difficult time ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23



Not only that..But Arjun is having strange headaches and due to the clot he looked as if he was having one so Ovi was trying to massage..Not that she wants to get intimate with him.

She could have surely made advances if that was the case..

But if someone wants to think otherwise all power to them.



absolutely right u here...Ovi gave head massage to Arjun bcs he hv klot in his head...there is nothing wrong...yes m also dislike that scene too much bcs m also think Ovi never help Arjun like jerk n spineless man...he is not worthy of true friendship relation...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Im sorry I love Ovi but she is providing Arjun with undeserved attention and care. The head massage thing was not done with any sleazy intention but still I question- y do these people not understand limits? Ovi is caring for Arjun like a wife. Why? I know she considers him a friend (idk y?) but I feel like what she is doing- taking care of his health, comforting him, putting up with his consistent and insistent whining, offering to tc of the office. y? what has he ever given you? he pretends as if Ovi is a random friend and Pia is HER not THEIR daughter. for arguments sake, lets say she's doing all this with the intention of hurting Purvi, what the HELL does she stand to gain?!? arjun will barely remember her if he lives, if he dies, he's dead! the most she could've done as a friend was help him with the Purvi situation- somehow get these two people together and leave! drive off to your own sunset! let purvi tc of him! she at least stands to gain SOMETHING from this man! if he lives- she gets recognition for herself and her child! and if he dies at least she gets his extremely scarce love. but if ovi gets more involved, she will literally lose even Pia somehow. Thats what Arjun does to her- strips her bare. and speaking of limits, so much purvi bhakti but forever willing to take up any comfort Ovi can provide. If Ovi massaged his head, he also leaned in. Don't get me wrong, I don't think theres anything sleazy or wrong with either of their actions but familiarity is addictive. and given their history of emotional abuse, I expected Ovi at least to maintain some level of firm distance with him- help him not indulge him. they are both love starved children who fixate and can clearly do anything for the object of their fixation. whether its on a friend level or a lover level they can do anything for the person's happiness or what they believe to be the other's happiness.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very good post, I completely agree.😊 Arjun has never even shown one bit of care for Pia whatsoever. He definitely cares much more for Pari then Pia which isn't fair at all, he shud treat them equally. Ovi has been very caring for Arjun in the time of need but Arjun has just taken Ovi and his friendship with Ovi for granted, all the time, she wants Arjun-Purvi to reunite but since Arjun and Purvi themselves are not willing to unite that is their own fault, but Arjun is very indifferent to Pia, still probably Pia is not disrespectful to him because Ovi wud never teach pia to dislike her father
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Posted: 11 years ago
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About Ovi massaging Arjun, I think she did it because she really cares for him a lot as Arjun was having a really bad headache, but I wish that Arjun shud be more appreciative toward Ovi, he takes everything she does for him for granted.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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so what if she massaged his head , has she come there leaving Australia and her life for just looking pretty and flitting around

no

she has come there to be with him in a very very serious sickness

its a decision

a humanatarian decision

is he married

no

divorced

staying single

so is she betraying any wife

no

precisely coz he has no family she came

she knows him even before wig wearing Purvi

from childhood

then she was married to him

had 2 kids by him

can one imagine the bond

it goes beyond sexual , legal everything

Purvi can make him sleep in her hotel room when she purposefully got him drunk by wiggling and jiggling with a kid although she believed he was married but Ovi cannot massage his head when she KNOWS he has a tumor or clot , bad headaches , perhaps only 2 months to live and full knowledge he has NO ONE

really ? Each head massage is not sexual , imagine the sickness that requires a brain surgery

imagine the head aches

in Rajesh Khanna's last stage of sickness both Dimple Kapadia and Anju Mahendru took turns in being at his side and nursing him

they were both women in his life once with whom he had serious relationship

whether she ought to do this to the undeserving jerk who only did Purvi jaap and gave her pain is another issue

point is she was human enough to put her personal pain aside and come to him when he called her to say he needed her

HE called her , he always turns to her in real need , like most men he runs after the woman who plays hard to get , is useless and selfish but turns to the woman whom he takes for granted when he is in misery

so yeah , if she massages his head , feet or wipes his vomit i understand . She came over only for that purpose .







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Posted: 11 years ago
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I completely agree Kool Di, it was very nice of Ovi to massage Arjun and be taking care of him in his time of need. Wish Arjun wud acknowledge this more because Ovi has always been the one with him in his good and bad times, unlike Purvi who has never been there for him but left Arjun. Ovi put everything aside, all her pain just to help Arjun. Ovi and Arjun's friendship has always been a one way friendship because Ovi is always caring for Arjun, doing things for him, being there for him but Arjun never reciprocated.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox

I completely agree Kool Di, it was very nice of Ovi to massage Arjun and be taking care of him in his time of need. Wish Arjun wud acknowledge this more because Ovi has always been the one with him in his good and bad times, unlike Purvi who has never been there for him but left Arjun. Ovi put everything aside, all her pain just to help Arjun. Ovi and Arjun's friendship has always been a one way friendship because Ovi is always caring for Arjun, doing things for him, being there for him but Arjun never reciprocated.



Couldn't agree more.

No matter what, all the credit goes to Purvi.

Ovi initiated the court to dismiss the charge on Onir and reinstated his licence, as a result of which he would get to help many in need. Who does he show his gratitude to? Purvi. Even when she had to be probed by Ovi to tell the truth that she in fact urged him to switch the baby. Ovi got no acknowledgement. Everyone is busy singing Purvi jaap. Ovi stood by Arjun and he doesn't even acknowledge her pain, it's always Purvi who is the great mahaan queen. It's funny if he didn't think so much with his second brain to realize who has stood with him through all those years versus a few months of sexy times.

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