What could be a possible solution? - Page 2

its going to be difficult either way.
all three will be conscious of not letting the other feel bad in any way. it really has changed the dynamics. at the moment ira just needs time and saanchi needs to be thrown in a bin!

I think Shekhars must accept all kids as common property of the family, a shared responsibility.

When Anup enters, regains his memory and learns all truth of last 37 years then also things will get more twisted.

Shiv will have to balance. He may call CM as CM only but what about his father? Or will Meenu and Shekhar clan lie to Anup again?

Kids have to balance. But responsibility is more on adults now. If they continue to behave like imbeciles then they'll make it worse for kids also.

I also don't think it's feasible for Shekhars to live like joint family anymore. Kids should move out. Or even if they all live in same house they rather live mostly in their own spaces like a housing society with different flats/areas or a hostel and avoid intruding much into each others' personal space.

Anyway if Ira was mature and gracious and she behaved a little more properly then issue wouldn't be this bad. But by behaving the way she did, she gave Sanchi also a loophole to exploit and now is spoiling more things by listening to Sanchi.

I hope Sanchi gets ideas by her friends about the glamour of living all by oneself away from family, so she moves out herself to get a job or do further studies. Or she gets pregnant and is forced to marry that Saurabh so she remains away.

For now all should give time and space to each other.

I hope Shiv is fair in his dealings with Anup till the latter recovers. It will be really bad if he keeps distance from him just so that Ira doesn't go bonkers!

Overdose of Ira-appeasement from day one has brought things to this level.

Shiv won't take Meenu and Anup's names. That Basant also left his father after briefly living with him at his own house and having him over at BH. Today no one even names Mahavir Singh. Shiv will remain with Ira-Alok only. He seems firm in his stand. Sorry to say but I didn't even find the affection which he usually had with his Choti Maa - when he talked to her in last episode in his room. That was more of a customary talk.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I think Shekhars must accept all kids as common property of the family, a shared responsibility.

When Anup enters, regains his memory and learns all truth of last 37 years then also things will get more twisted.

Shiv will have to balance. He may call CM as CM only but what about his father? Or will Meenu and Shekhar clan lie to Anup again?

Kids have to balance. But responsibility is more on adults now. If they continue to behave like imbeciles then they'll make it worse for kids also.

I also don't think it's feasible for Shekhars to live like joint family anymore. Kids should move out. Or even if they all live in same house they rather live mostly in their own spaces like a housing society with different flats/areas or a hostel and avoid intruding much into each others' personal space.

Anyway if Ira was mature and gracious and she behaved a little more properly then issue wouldn't be this bad. But by behaving the way she did, she gave Sanchi also a loophole to exploit and now is spoiling more things by listening to Sanchi.

I hope Sanchi gets ideas by her friends about the glamour of living all by oneself away from family, so she moves out herself to get a job or do further studies. Or she gets pregnant and is forced to marry that Saurabh so she remains away.

For now all should give time and space to each other.

I hope Shiv is fair in his dealings with Anup till the latter recovers. It will be really bad if he keeps distance from him just so that Ira doesn't go bonkers!

Overdose of Ira-appeasement from day one has brought things to this level.

Shiv won't take Meenu and Anup's names. That Basant also left his father after briefly living with him at his own house and having him over at BH. Today no one even names Mahavir Singh. Shiv will remain with Ira-Alok only. He seems firm in his stand. Sorry to say but I didn't even find the affection which he usually had with his Choti Maa - when he talked to her in last episode in his room. That was more of a customary talk.

Originally posted by: Missesha

I agree the turmoil ,may subside with time.

But what I am mainly referring to is rights one will have over another.

Until now whenever Meenu made some decisions for Shiv, Ira never objected or felt insecured. She was cool with it, but going forward if meenu cared for Shiv, then Ira may feel possessive or feel like disowning Shiv.

On the contrary Meenu and Shiv will hesitate to come close, just to ensure that Ira is not hurt.

It is quite a challenging situation, where either way there someone will be hurt.

If there was a psychiatrist for the stupid duo Ira-Alok 36 years ago and even for trio (Sanchi included) 7 years ago then they'd have less problems.

These shameless attention seekers spoiled it for everyone. I bet they'll make even rehabilitation and recovery of poor Anup also difficult. He'd start feeling maybe his life as a roaming vagabond was better than being caught in this asylum called Kesar Bagh.

I hope he is not lied to yet again about his son.

Shekhars turned out to be more twisted than pendu and less educated Singhs. Guess DS was too quick to dispose off Anandi. She saw only Shiv but didn't judge the family.

How Shiv turned out to be so good is beyond me. He's like lotus blooming in keechad. Poor man is in for even tougher days ahead.

Mahi is the only smart guy who mostly remains outside the house when family's around and is inside the house when whole family's out. Good strategy.

Shekhars indeed seem incapable of living as joint family. They got peace only as Anup was dead/away, kids were out in hostels for higher studies and it was quiet/controversy-free in their home.

Even now it'd be best if they go about their own work or everyone separates.

Ira's so useless that she started calling even getting salt as "ehsaan". I and my family were laughing at her BS dining table convo yesterday! 🤪

Sanchi the separatist has ample opportunities to exploit in front of her. Return of Anup, discovery of Mahi-Ashima relationship, panga if the basti men who oppose Anandi decide to attack KB, any controversy related to that Shiv look-alike Vikram, any problem in AnSh adopting the kid or problems in having their own child, tantrums if her drinking sprees and relation with new boy comes out through "paraye" Anandi or Mahi, return of Ratan Singh and his revenge on Anandi (Sanchi rani will use it to target both Anandi and Ganga then) besides her already cashing on rift between Ira and Alok-Meenu-Shiv. Ample opportunities for her to make bad things worse and worse things worst, and make Ira believe that Anandi or paraye people ruined their lives.

Every slap, glare and "shut up Sanchi" will be duly avenged by this girl who'll be all out to prove that those who scold her are no less flawed than she is.

Chances are that other Shekhars might be signing up for psychiatric treatment themselves, driven crazy by Sanchi and Ira.

BTW were Daddu and Alok also in army for sure? They are so lethargic. While Pasha can spring up from bed any time to hit and kick anyone. I feel they must be cooks and sabzi cheelne wale in army mess.

I'd like BV to show Shekhars' background properly. I can't fathom how Sanchi's so negative and how family was so careless about Anup that they didn't think of him before playing pass the parcel with his baby! And how's that Daddu so clueless that his family had guts to tell lies to him about huge matters.

Interesting replies everyone.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

He'd start feeling maybe his life as a roaming vagabond was better than being caught in this asylum called Kesar Bagh.

Guess DS was too quick to dispose off Anandi. She saw only Shiv but didn't judge the family.

Mahi is the only smart guy who mostly remains outside the house when family's around and is inside the house when whole family's out. Good strategy.

Shekhars indeed seem incapable of living as joint family. They got peace only as Anup was dead/away, kids were out in hostels for higher studies and it was quiet/controversy-free in their home.


BTW were Daddu and Alok also in army for sure? They are so lethargic. While Pasha can spring up from bed any time to hit and kick anyone. I feel they must be cooks and sabzi cheelne wale in army mess.