What could be a possible solution?

The recent track of Shiv's real identity and the difficulties being faced by all Shekhars on knowing the reality makes me wonder what could be the possible solution for Shekhar family. What should Shiv or others do to live life as normal?

I personally feel Shiv should take his identity after his real father Anoop and get himself identified as Anoop-Meenu's son. In the long-term I feel that would be a practical and secured solution for all.

I say this because;

Shiv now has more soft-corner for Meenu than he ever had, and this may irk Ira consciously or sub-consciously.

Meenu has been longing to embrace her elder son with all her rights and after the revelation she is finding it hard to hold herself.

Ira, in her own fear and insecurity wants to distance herself from Shiv anyways.

Anoop (Pasha) may eventually join the family and may want Shiv to be identified as his son.

And finally Saanchi will not leave any stone un-turned to bring rifts, so instead it would be better that Shiv gets his rightful place with everyone's consent, rather than Shekhars getting into bitter feelings towards each other.

Emotionally and environmentally there might not be much difference in their bonds, as they all will still stay in the same family and look after each other as before. But when it comes to rights on each other; Shiv, Ira and Meenu will not have to constantly worry about pleasing each other or being sensitive about each other's emotions.

What should be Shiv's take? How can Shekhars calm the storm?

Please share your thoughts.

Esha 🤗 Nice to see you after a long time.

I agree he should take Meenu-Anoop's name. That is more practical. But, it is difficult right now keeping Ira's current mindset.. It is difficult for Ira as a mother that her rights have been taken away now. It is heart-breaking for any mother. That will put her more into depression or bitterness. Till Ira does not come to terms with this and accept Shiv as Meenu's son and remove the pride and ego from her system the Shekhars will contine to suffer.

Now both Shiv and Meenu have given her assurances that Shiv is still her son and the emotions and love will not change no matter what. Although she is hurt I think Ira should be the one to step up now and assure CM and Shiv too like the way they did. Ofcourse she needs time for this to happen. Like Ira said her wound is fresh and CM-Alok had 30 yrs to deal with this sorrow.

Originally posted by: dixie123

Esha 🤗 Nice to see you after a long time.

I agree he should take Meenu-Anoop's name. That is more practical. But, it is difficult right now keeping Ira's current mindset.. It is difficult for Ira as a mother that her rights have been taken away now. It is heart-breaking for any mother. That will put her more into depression or bitterness. Till Ira does not come to terms with this and accept Shiv as Meenu's son and remove the pride and ego from her system the Shekhars will contine to suffer.

Now both Shiv and Meenu have given her assurances that Shiv is still her son and the emotions and love will not change no matter what. Although she is hurt I think Ira should be the one to step up now and assure CM and Shiv too like the way they did. Ofcourse she needs time for this to happen. Like Ira said her wound is fresh and CM-Alok had 30 yrs to deal with this sorrow.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

I would say sanchi is the main problem, ira needs a distance from sanchi screwing with her head. No one can heal as long as sanchi is twisting the knife. Daddu needs to take control of his household, trying to take everyone's mind off the actual problem with jokes and stuff is not gonna solve it, he needs to take action this is not gonna repair on its own.