TOI: Small screens abusive hubby for hit shows-Shashank

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Small screen's abusive hubbies make for a hit' story

Shruti Jambhekar,TNN | Dec 2, 2013, 12.00 AM IST
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Small screen's abusive hubbies make for a hit' story
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon? 2: Shlok (Avinash Sachdev) married Astha to wreck havoc on her life and is set to make her miserable
Forget monster MILs! Small screen's bahu brigade has a new nemesis to deal with, one who's making them shed glycerine induced tears during their 20 minute screen time on weeknights " their significant other. Fiercely dominating, aggressive, chauvinistic male protagonists have reduced their wives to tearjerking beings with their regressive thought and abusive behaviour.

Some are plain insecure of their wives' success (RK played by Vivian Dsena of Madhubala...) some physically abusive (Parmeet played by Gaurav Chaudhary in Bani " Ishq Da Kalma and Pramad played by Aanshul Trivedi in Saraswatichandra) some mentally and even physically torture their wives (Mrityunjay played by Viraf Feroze Patel in Ek Boond Ishq, Shaurya played by Rohit Khurrana in Sasural Simar Ka and Anshuman played by Iqbal Khan in Tumhari Pakhi) and some are married for revenge, (Shlok played by Avinash Sachdev in Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon? Ek Baar Phir ) " but they are united by a common strain, their abusive treatment of their better halves which could include verbal abuse, mental torture, or actual physical trauma, depending on now negative the character is meant to be.

Evidently, there's a clear sadist streak in soap-addicts who seem to love these kind of traumatic tracks where the women have to battle for her self-respect against her own spouse! Producer Yash Patnaik explains, "We can't take away the fact that India is a male-dominated country. That's why we have female protagonists who fight against abuse of any form because it's a story everyone understands. However, we try and show both sides of the story and maintain a neutral stand." Producer Sudhir Sharma says, "All these 'abusive' characters are inspired by real life people. These characters also make the storyline dramatic and the audience likes the battle of the good vs evil."

While the abusive protagonist does grab a lot of attention and becomes the most hated personality in a show, not too many actors willingly slip into such roles. Shashank Vyas who had briefly played an abusive husband in Balika Vadhu says, "A lot of Indian women have to cope with abusive and aggressive spouses, that's why such characters strike an instant connect with the audience." Aanshul Trivedi, who plays Pramad in Saraswatichandra, shares, "Every positive or negative character has a story to tell."

In the soap-studded small screen, the amount of tears shed by the harmless bahu often adds to the number of viewers. And if in the process the hero turns 'grey' then it's only for a reel purpose.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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But i think shows more than showing reality here are mostly doing it for masalas . Characters are butchered in nonsense way Not needed at all but they do it then they themselves are confused what to do with their protagonist

BV butchered Jagya's character going against their theme There was no need of it I must say reporters are going too far Calling him abusive husband is a lot harsh He was not an abusive husband like Shlok , RK and many more so placing him here with these cruel abusive husbands is wrong He should not be here




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They make a character a Saint only for trps
n den defame him again for trps
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Jagya character butchering done to accept anandi first, shiv later. All the while jagya/Shashank took the burn for making others accepted and Giving high trps.
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tfs..

all these only for trps...lo...
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I am a fan of J-A-Gauri love triangle days and I think personally, Shanky did a smashing job in the grey shaded role he had - perfectly performed J 👏 he could make us hate him, cringe, feel bad for A, feel sorry too for him when he went from a bad to worse state
I cant imagine anyone else convincing performing J now...
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I think abusive husband is a strong term to describe Jagya.
He was more of confused and weak character who did not know what he wanted from life and in the process of trying to figure out what he wanted from life he ended up hurting a lot of people for whom he meant the world and he was adamant about accepting that his actions hurt people around him and took a long time to realise that he indeed hurt people.

Shashank did a fabulous job of bringing out all those emotions that ruled Jagya so well.






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Producers should stop barking that whatever they are showing is reality or that's how society is! 😡 They literally justify bad behaviour of men or "allow them to change" or have woman change them whereas the woman must be ideal no matter what.

All husbands aren't like RKs, Parmeets or Pramads!

Clear cut negative character that is shamed by everyone is still okay. Worse is the bad ones who are often projected as "childlike" or "just passionate/intense" heroes! 🤢 I can't believe female audiences like them and have so much fandom dedicated to these men.

Jagya was emotionally abusive, not physically. And in many ways he can be kept away from comparisons with other cruel male leads because he was a product of child marriage. Things happened at a very young age for him.

Otherwise those who behave like jerks even with education, proper upbringing and age are not excusable.

Crazy and cruel men should be left by women as shown in Ganga's case and now finally in Saraswatichandra. Continuing relationship with abusive men and tolerating their hateful behaviour as passion as shown in some romantic serials is despicable.

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