A leopard can't change it's spots!!

Yesterday, I was scared after watching Sattya's presentation in the episode. He was shown to be concerned about Antara's mom. He also listened to Raghu and sat in his car. Even in today's episode, he was listening to everyone and hovering around Rantara. I almost got a heart attack when he was sitting with Antara on the staircase and Antara was sharing her fear WITH HIM about her mother's never forgiving her. I was praying to God that please don't make him grey. He is a complete dark character and he should be like that only. People will love to hate him till his end. By making him positive will make people hate him even more and it won't make any sense at all. BUT, the moment he touched Antara's shoulder and started rubbing it forcefully like perfect creep, I got my breath back. I thanked to God that he listened to all of us who want the charm of this show to be intact. Sattya IS negative. He will never be able to understand other people's feeling even if he tries. His every fiber IS the epitome of selfishness and he is the one person who will never fail to make me surprised that how can a person stoop even lower than this. Because every time he breaks his own record.

Antara was devastated. She was alone and there was no one there(Though Raghu was there but we all know she won't cry in front of him now for some obvious reasons) to whom she could talk and share her fear about her mother. Being a gentle girl, she was thanking Sattya because he (and Raghu) took the initiative to take Mrs. Kaul in the hospital immediately. For one second, she thought that may be Sattya can become sympathetic for someone for change. But thanks to Sattya's self-centric super naturally selfish and unidirectional mind. He started touching a girl who was crying her heart's out and who was about to become orphan again this evening. The reason- Antara touched Raghu's finger in that ring game. Can someone shoot him?? How can a human being be so insensitive like that?? She was talking about her mother and he was rubbing her shoulder to get some dirty pleasure of defeating Raghu?? What the hell??

He didn't stop there. He started choogliyan of Raghu by saying that -Look I am a Mard!!! I can KILL my mother to please you. Isn't it a symbol of Mardangi?? And look at Raghu!! He is so champu!! He doesn't say a single word against the lady who gave him shelter, who is not even his real mother. He can NEVER KILL her for you. See, I am so sexy !!!

Then he started to bahaofy magarmach ki tears from his eyes to get Antara's sympathy for him (which he will never get). Suddenly he had some personality change disorder. He wiped his tears and started his over the top dramabaazi!!! If he was a kid, he would have won India's best dramabaaz award. He shouted his lung's out calling his mother's name as if Antara would be sooo impressed on him watching that scene. What a delusional guy!!! One of the reason behind Antara's love for Raghu was his respect to DM.But all these things won't enter in to Sattya's bheja , right??

Guys, I want to clear here that, all these above mentioned things made me very happy because I want Sattya in THIS way only. He is negative and he should DIE negative. Only then the purpose of his characters will be fulfilled. But one thing that is bothering me is- Sattya's hand on Antara. Today, it was needed to calm all of us down who were scared of the idea of his being positive yesterday. But I am not much fond of watching this touchy kind of scene again. Sattya is a loathsome, irritating,menacing character. Let's not make him touch our heroine again and again. He is negative, we got it!!! It's enough now.

Now, here comes the reason why I posted such a big post on Phattu!! Why did I give so much pain to my fingers because of him?? I am noticing that many young girls of our generation are falling for Sattya kind of characters in TV. When a man threats a woman of physical assault, when he puts her down to prove himself superior, when he tries to put his opinion down her throat forcefully-it's not at all hot or romantic. This is torture, manipulation, assassination of that girl's innocence. As conscious smart girls, I think we all should agree on one thing-a man doesn't get freedom of touching a woman, if he is married to her. She will be the ultimate decider if she wants him to touch her or not. If a man does that forcefully, I think he is not a man at all. Love and possession are not the same thing. Physical abuse and passion are far away from each other. I think I did not make feel offended anyone. I only want to say that, let's be careful about what we should appreciate and what not. What we should follow and what we should refuse. Please comment!!

Title credit goes to-Cationic_Cat

Originally posted by: richurachna

Dear I always love you and your post. Yes after reading ur post I am sure that sattu is only having negative character even he cant be grey

Originally posted by: Delena-cious

Amazing post jyo. you'v said everything so dont know what else i should add here. so i better just say keep up the good work and love your post?

thats not very nice. but yes, i hate when people think that satya can turn positive. he cant he can never. as you said a leapord can never change its spots. he will always be a manipulative psycho and can never change. he is a kind of person who strive for attention one way or the other. if he cant get something by force he use another cheap tactic. emotional atyachaar. haha. he always strike Antara when she is at her weakest.

and about your bold lines, i cant agree more here. i just hate it when people try to justify or glorify such people. like you said its not romantic or sexy. real life is cruel. its not just physical abuse but emotional abuse too. the trauma u have to go through is like hell. i hope people be aware of such. and not support it but raise your voice against it.