provided sagai hone k baad lunch ho toh..else agr usk phele ho raha hai no use f neg stuff also I guess though I never saw dat...generally sangeet wale din hoti hai sagai toh no idea about sagai day bt den word cn b used according to me..nt a big deal...rasam is imp n nt the nameOriginally posted by: surbhimathur
Agreed.
And btw i forgot to mention...this happens at both engagement and marriage time. If both are kept on different days, so yes it is obvious for bride's family to offer manuhaar to groom side in the name sajjanghot.