Swabhimaan Vs Abhimaan:The Battle Begins!!

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riti4u

@riti4u

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Posted: 11 years ago

Random Ramblings - 18-Nov-2013

Hey Everyone..!!

How was the episode..😃..So we have our pakhi's first day with Anshuman as his wife..and battle of different idealogies is getting interesting... On one hand Anshuman is so over confident that he will get rid of pakhi and it will be cake walk for him.. He thinks that he can use pakhi ,a naive village girl for his own benefit..But here comes a twist..Our girl knows how to give it back ..She gives respect to everyone's belief but is firm on her own..

Yes She came back to her husband after 18 years but she came back only because he called her..and thats her self respect... He left her back 18years ago and he came again to take her back..with some truths .. She accepted his truths ..She accepted him...

A relation as strong and as important as husband -wife does need Self respect but there is no place of egos...or abhimaan in between...

There is thin line between being preachy and just being true to what you are and what values you hold... I hope CVs let pakhi remain a strong n sensible woman n not a preachy Lead which can be seen in number of shows across Television...

There is freshness in this character which somehow is making me connect with her...She is not sad if she didnt receive proper welcome at home...She understands..but then she is also not the one who cant answer back if one questions her intentions..She does have a mind of her own... Anshuman will slowly discover what is she made of...

Anshuman is over confident and has "Abhimaan" on himself ...n on his ways.. Only this will lead to his defeat ...while pakhi has her "Swabhimaan" with her .. which is going to answer back those who shall try to exploit her.

Do share your views on today's episode...!!

And Dont forget to watch tomorrow's episode😛

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Meera

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Posted: 11 years ago

thanks ritika fr pm

loved the epi frm srt to end..frm kya karron ram mujhko song..the fall of pakhi on anshioo was droolworthy..oved the way pakgi gave it bc.,waiting fr tmra..

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.S.A.

@.S.A.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Loved the line. Loved the punch. Maza agaya. SIL and BIL are going to have an amazing time with the lost siblings 😆

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malika

@_symphony

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Posted: 11 years ago

lovely post...😊

what i really liked about pakhi tonight is that she is so chilled out...doesnt start crying out of little things like the cliched telly bahus...i just LOVED that.As u said she understands and doesnt get upset over lil tings like anshumans sis not allowing her to touch her feet or anshuman asking her to have tea alone on dhaba...she didnt make faces. that is really nice, Looking forward to upcoming epis.

And anshuman is so hilarious 😆

Edited by Malika - 11 years ago

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pinkeye

@pinkeye

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Posted: 11 years ago

Lovely post Riti and thanks for posting. Love the title.

The episode was really good. I must say the makers are impressive so far.
Inka funda hain no nautanki, seedhi baat. Loved most of the scenes. Pakhi character is impressing me each day. The way she answered hhe lady with suitable example from her life experience-bravo girl. I am glad to see a girl with her clear cut mindset , her non preaching attitude and her calmness - bang on, like it very much. Hope her character stays like this.

Can I say I find Anshuman funny and amusing thanks to aiqbal's portrayal .the way he was walking with the dhoti, god laughed hard and his face hearing budha mil gaya song. Lol . I liked how he tried to help her in the car or later how he treats her in hotelroom. He is image concious, likes to remain aloof but he has that caring side for the people around him. Nice. He is not those abusive heroes who ill treats woman in his life if the situation does not suit him. Sober character I guess.

Two things which I did not like- the sister and her cribbing so fakely.
I did not like that girna samhalna scene too_ way too cliche and shown to death. Hope they show novelty in this type of scenes.

3 things looking forward to-

Interacton between Pakhi and that brother in law. I like the actor.
Anshuman and his halat on suhahrat.
How long Pakhi will be unaeare about Tanya?

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temperance12

@temperance12

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Posted: 11 years ago

Just finished seeing the show!!! A's really funny walking in Dhothi...

Both brother and sister are the typical city snobs who think anyone from the village is beneath them and classless. I hope they maintain to show P as a smart 21^st century woman and not turn her into Mother Teresa or some abla nari type!!! So far, P is the most interesting character introduced. The brother in law also seems interesting...

The confrontation by Mrs Rana was a bit unrealistic... If you actually disrupt an award function, in real life you get kicked out of the venue. Good thing, this isn't! Loved the swabhimaan vs abhimaan statement from P.

Interesting that they showed, a young girl from village has more sense than a mature city woman! Proving that with age, wisdom doesn't always come.

I really hope they don't stereotype "city" dwellers as Lavanya or Mr. Rana types! You can wear western cloths and still respect culture, traditions and be level headed...

Edited by temperance12 - 11 years ago

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Lady Zaib

@LadyZaib

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Posted: 11 years ago

i hope she doesnt turn into perfect pakhi though please keep her fresh

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onedirection9

@onedirection9

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Posted: 11 years ago

I'm just scared for when the time comes and Paakhi actually finds out about Tanya. She is going to be heartbroken but I hope Anshuman does some damage control and tells Paakhi that Tanya doesn't mean anything to him anymore! I also hope his 7 year old son makes a debut soon and I can so imagine him being close to Paakhi and Lavanya may not like this lol 😆

Edited by onedirection9 - 11 years ago