The Secure & The Insecure: Nov 5 - Page 10

Originally posted by: bheegi

<font color="#3300cc">That's why I don't trust Ayaan and fully expect him to fall for Zoya😕or at least get infatuated by her</font>

Originally posted by: bheegi

The Secure & The Insecure: Nov 5

The secure: Asad & Zoya

True, unconditional love gives us the strength to be secure in our relationships. Often, no words are needed when one feels secure in a relationship. Yesterday's showdown at the SM has empowered both Asad and Zoya with that security that no matter what, no one can ever break the love and trust they have for each other. That's probably the reason they didn't have a long drawn conversation after arriving at the KV. Things were back to square one- their banter, her mess, his OCD, her shayari and their own style of romance (song and dance.) The kiss was a welcome addition and why am I not surprised that Zoya took the initiative to make their life a bit more thrilling'?

I know we all expected a heart to heart chat. Asad did talk about not running away from the nikaah but his statement -- main ab kabhie haar nahin maanunga"was the biggest lesson Asad has learnt through these recent tumultuous times. We all know Asad and Zoya will face many more hurdles but their new resolution to not bow down to muqaddar' and not let anyone defeat their mohabbat' is what's going to carry them forward through all the coming tides.

Exactly.. The statement main ab kabhe haar nahin manoonga.. has lot of weightage.. That only shows that this couple has much more challenges to face before they unite together as a married couple.. but each time they tell that nothing will come between them, they have gone through lot of pain.. .. We may or may not get a physical seperation track again but definately there will be much more emotional issues to be tackled..

Couples have unique ways of communicating. Some communicate with words, others with romance, others with banter, others with fights and others with pure physical pleasure. I won't say one is better than the other as long as they understand, trust and love each other. Asad & Zoya have their unique way too- let them decide how and when they want to communicate. Who are we to judge them?

Yes each couple have unique way to communicate.. I feel Zoya started having feelings for Asad from when he saved her from the goondas in the railway station.. He has always been her protector.. She infact told it verbally to him once that whenever something goes wrong she always have a feeling that Mr.Khan will set things right.. and during the scene in the backyard after the photo shoot when he was cooking something with the griller, she did mention about how he had saved her and the killer looks he give to people opposite etc.. that only gave an insight how she has become his fan.. just like a hero worship.. She was thrilled to see him walking in to SM and claim her.. She does not need any sort of explanation now from his side.. His actions proved that he loves her uncoditionally.. and her declaration in front of everybody that she loves him is sufficient for him... 😊

The secure: Dilshaad & kids

Dilshaad is one unique mother who has always supported her kids, taught them to do the right thing and always kept the lines of communication open with them. No wonder, she has always advised them to follow their heart and be good to others. It was heartening to see her rejoice at Asad's ability to claim his love in front of everyone. Her advise to Najma was heartwarming and very appropriate for any loving mother who is secure about herself and her relationships in life.

Yes .. Dilshad is a very good mother who supports her children and teaches them right values.. I loved the parallel scene between the 2 mother-daughter duo..

The secure?: Najma & Imran

Yes, there is a question mark there. While, Najma was stunned by Imran's revelation, she has decided to give Imran a second chance because she loves him dearly. His apology did sound genuine and because Najma has learnt to forgive and forget in her life, she has accepted Imran's apology. Her words: please never give me a chance to mistrust you again ring ominous to me. Why do I feel Imran will break her trust again? Imran got off way too easily and that's why I feel he hasn't learnt his lesson the hard way. People seldom change unless they get a life changing lesson from life. No wonder, Asad and Zoya have changed so much because they have gone through hell. Imran hasn't, so I expect rough times ahead for this couple.

I also seriously feel that Imran may get into another issue..

The secure: Nikhat & Najma

So far, they have been the best of friends and best of sister in laws/sisters. They trust and love each other but why do I feel, Shireen's curse will backfire again. Nikhat's wedding will be under threat. Haseena will play divide and rule. Will Nikhat and Najma's relationship get affected in future?

The Insecure: Shireen

The award for the most insecure person goes to Shireen. A woman who has been guilty of snatching someone else's love has been insecure all her life. All her decisions, her actions and words stem from this deep rooted insecurity. She will create more problems in coming weeks. Her insecurities are bound to multiply after Rashid's illness and Zoya's exit.

Did she really start loving Zoya? What a joke!

Shireen, please introspect on why your children are really suffering and Dilshaad's are not??

Shireen can not love anybody else other than her children.. If we recollect, she was not bothered about Humeira's love towards Ayaan during the first sagai attempt of Ayaan and Humeira..though Humeira has stayed with Shireen her entire life.. She does not have the brain to analyze.. Her thoughts get clouded by Razia's words...

Quick observations: Rashid is developing a spine just in time to get a heart attack.

Did he say Ayaan told him that Zoya wanted to leave? Did Ayaan ever say, even he wanted freedom from that nikaah? Did Ayaan tell him that he wanted to marry Humeira? So, it sounds like even Ayaan is suggesting that if Zoya had wanted to stay, he would have accepted the nikaah???

Yes this is one mystery which needs to unfold to the audience.. Did Ayaan start having feelings for Zoya ?? He asked her why she wanted to stay back inspite of getting many opportunities for Zoya to go back.. Well time will tell us ..

Originally posted by: euphoric

Loved reading your analysis Sangita... Great post👏

-Sonia

Originally posted by: bheegi

<font color="#3300cc">I think everyone is entitled to their opinion. For me, AsYa still have sizzling chemistry- would love to see some more variety in their romance though</font>

Originally posted by: VashH

just wanted to share my latest vm http://youtu.be/nid5yW1iAQU