The Secure & The Insecure: Nov 5 - Page 9

Originally posted by: VashH

Hi all
Nice . Love the responses .
Anyway I have a personal question
What's with the hair?
Why is it a major problem ??
Asad has very refine cheekbones and the hair gives him a very hot masculine look. .In my neck of the woods . Guys with locks has to ward off women. They are the envy of every other man . And you would think men don't compete . For me I love the look. . Different and slick .

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

awesum post sangeeta ...ur posts r alwaz worth reading ...

Originally posted by: bheegi

<font color="#3300cc">I think most of us don't like the ponytail but I have accepted it as part of his rebellious character for now</font>

Originally posted by: mariyakhan2

awesome post as always👏😃 i really loved yes epi 😛finaaly asya are together and i am so happy to see them happy😛i dont no why some members r saying that they have no chemistry left😲khair it is their opinion nd i totally respect it 😃but for me they have great chemistry and woh kiss toh hayee masha allah even i like there dance also ,finally qabool hai is back and i am enjoying it to the core😳🥳I AM SO SO HAPPY😆

Originally posted by: bheegi

The Secure & The Insecure: Nov 5

The secure: Asad & Zoya

Like any two individuals. Asad and Zoya are not perfect. And they know that! They are also aware of the limitations of the other and complement it in their own way. Like Asad knew Zoya wouldn't be able to snap the bond and call it a quit from SM so he went there to do it for her and bring her back. And Zoya knew how to uplift Asad's mood and assure him that their future would be thrilling and good.

And that's what I think make Asya so sure of each other. They know and accept each other as they are. They have crossed so many barriers together and yet had each other as companions. Hardships have toughened their shell and determined their resolve of holding on to each other till the end of itme... like their parents couldn't do. Not to mention they have lived the consequences of broken relationships and have thus come to cherish each other all the more.

Though I felt the song was not much needed but guess it was also to cheer audiences on Diwali eve. But a small introspective convo... abt the Tanveer truth or Asad and Zoya apologizing for their mistakes would have been good.

The secure: Dilshaad & kids

Dilshad have always maintained her kids are her strength and while she was bringing them up single handedly, smiling through the turbulent times however she made sure she let no negativity mar their lives. Asad was the elder one walking side by side with her Ammi while she faced the hardships and so he had that bitterness towards life but never did he wish ill for anyone. When Dilshad was being taunted by the society about being a woman left by her man, Asad had seen it too. They ignored it then and they'll ignore it now... after all the society is only a spectator... they won't come to hold your hand when you trip or fail. They'll anyways always mock.

The secure?: Najma & Imran

Sadly, I think you are again on dot here. I don't trust Imran enough, not yet at least. He might not be bad but he's still a weak character. After Najma left him, he got fell in Tanveer's trap, got engaged at his mother's insistence and then didn't find the courage to stand up for his fiance... and then when Nikhat broke the alliance, he came back to Najma to fill that void in his life. I am not denying that he loves Najma, but he has come to become her weakness rather than her strength. She let him off the hook like Dilshad had once accepted Rashid back even when he came back with Ayaan. But has he really learnt his lesson... I am not too sure.

The secure: Nikhat & Najma

While Najma is not the one to be easily manipulated, Nikhat has a pure heart. But there are influences... Nikhat's past is Najma's husband. Shireen is trying to alter Nikhat's views and Haseena Bi is all set to play the divide and rule game. But they are both in the same house... victims to the evil tantrums of their Mother-in-law's ways. According to me they'll stay abound by this common grief and when the calamities befall... they'll be the rock beside the other. I hope so atleast... especially after Dilshad-Najma convo yest.

The Insecure: Shireen

This woman is born insecure. She lives for herself and the pretences she has built over the years around her family... the bubble of being a perfect household. But the truth is far from it... and I'm sure she herself knows it. Her own follies she's now projecting on Dilshad.

Quick observations: Rashid is developing a spine just in time to get a heart attack.

His anatomy reeled from shock 😆

Did he say Ayaan told him that Zoya wanted to leave? Did Ayaan ever say, even he wanted freedom from that nikaah? Did Ayaan tell him that he wanted to marry Humeira? So, it sounds like even Ayaan is suggesting that if Zoya had wanted to stay, he would have accepted the nikaah???

Bingo!!! That's what I questioned too. All through the confrontation, he stayed mum... not once supporting Asad. He never clarified Zoya's stay is temporary arrangement. And now as well... if at all there was any convo between father and son... he has simply shunned his role putting it all on Zoya as if he made a bigg sacrifice! Bravo... Ayaan Miyan!!

Originally posted by: euphoric

Loved reading your analysis Sangita... Great post 👏 Loved your responses...u write very well

-Sonia

Originally posted by: VashH

Bingo!!! That's what I questioned too. All through the confrontation, he stayed mum... not once supporting Asad. He never clarified Zoya's stay is temporary arrangement. And now as well... if at all there was any convo between father and son... he has simply shunned his role putting it all on Zoya as if he made a bigg sacrifice! Bravo... Ayaan Miyan!!

Finally . Drum Roll
Take a bow !!