The Secure & The Insecure: Nov 5
Lovely post Sangeeta!! I liked the grouping and title!!
The secure: Asad & Zoya
True, unconditional love gives us the strength to be secure in our relationships. Often, no words are needed when one feels secure in a relationship. Yesterday's showdown at the SM has empowered both Asad and Zoya with that security that no matter what, no one can ever break the love and trust they have for each other. That's probably the reason they didn't have a long drawn conversation after arriving at the KV. Things were back to square one- their banter, her mess, his OCD, her shayari and their own style of romance (song and dance.) The kiss was a welcome addition and why am I not surprised that Zoya took the initiative to make their life a bit more thrilling'?
Love their love for each other!! Sigh! Amazing couple! I did want them to talk. Not rehash the past but update each other to what had happened. Asad needs to tell Zoya about Tanveer's false charges, the arrest, the Imran khulasa and the community center dhamaka! Perhaps they had their conversation on the drive back home! 😆 Their nok-jokh was cute. Her point was so right (I say that to my husband too!!): he missed not having someone to fight with! The dance was cute. To be very honest, I didn't mind the pony at all. At least his face was visible and not hidden!! Zoya's kiss was adorable. I quite liked the loud smacking sound!! What I am surprised about is how come there isn't much mention on the forum about Asad trying to kiss Zoya on her lips? Did people miss that? It was almost like in the dream sequence. He lifted her chin up bent down to kiss her but she moved her face!! It happened when they were dancing and there is a dark patch. Did you see it?
I know we all expected a heart to heart chat. Asad did talk about not running away from the nikaah but his statement -- main ab kabhie haar nahin maanunga"was the biggest lesson Asad has learnt through these recent tumultuous times. We all know Asad and Zoya will face many more hurdles but their new resolution to not bow down to muqaddar' and not let anyone defeat their mohabbat' is what's going to carry them forward through all the coming tides.
I doubt anything can separate them now!
Couples have unique ways of communicating. Some communicate with words, others with romance, others with banter, others with fights and others with pure physical pleasure. I won't say one is better than the other as long as they understand, trust and love each other. Asad & Zoya have their unique way too- let them decide how and when they want to communicate. Who are we to judge them?
The secure: Dilshaad & kids
Dilshaad is one unique mother who has always supported her kids, taught them to do the right thing and always kept the lines of communication open with them. No wonder, she has always advised them to follow their heart and be good to others. It was heartening to see her rejoice at Asad's ability to claim his love in front of everyone. Her advise to Najma was heartwarming and very appropriate for any loving mother who is secure about herself and her relationships in life.
Dilshad momma rocks!! Like Zoya, she is unique. They have lot of similarity in personality: only difference is that Dilshad is calm while Zoya is a toofan!
The secure?: Najma & Imran
Yes, there is a question mark there. While, Najma was stunned by Imran's revelation, she has decided to give Imran a second chance because she loves him dearly. His apology did sound genuine and because Najma has learnt to forgive and forget in her life, she has accepted Imran's apology. Her words: please never give me a chance to mistrust you again ring ominous to me. Why do I feel Imran will break her trust again? Imran got off way too easily and that's why I feel he hasn't learnt his lesson the hard way. People seldom change unless they get a life changing lesson from life. No wonder, Asad and Zoya have changed so much because they have gone through hell. Imran hasn't, so I expect rough times ahead for this couple.
I feel Imran does love Najma and won't cheat her. My biggest beef with him was not Tanveer's baby, but being a silent spectator when his mother abused his then fiancee Nikhat. With Najma! he is a different animal. If something does happen between the two, I think it will only be a misunderstanding. Remember, Dilshad's kids will be happy, Shireen's won't. That's been my stand on the curse backfiring!
The secure: Nikhat & Najma
So far, they have been the best of friends and best of sister in laws/sisters. They trust and love each other but why do I feel, Shireen's curse will backfire again. Nikhat's wedding will be under threat. Haseena will play divide and rule. Will Nikhat and Najma's relationship get affected in future?
Possible! Nikhat will suffer. I just wish that Najma will support her after all she is Dilshad's daughter.
The Insecure: Shireen
The award for the most insecure person goes to Shireen. A woman who has been guilty of snatching someone else's love has been insecure all her life. All her decisions, her actions and words stem from this deep rooted insecurity. She will create more problems in coming weeks. Her insecurities are bound to multiply after Rashid's illness and Zoya's exit.
👏 What a hypocrite!! Did she forget that due to her and Rashid's infidelity, Dilshad was a divorcee at a young age too!! Now she is concerned about her son being called a divorcee. Payback s a b****,
Did she really start loving Zoya? What a joke!
Shireen, please introspect on why your children are really suffering and Dilshaad's are not??
Quick observations: Rashid is developing a spine just in time to get a heart attack.
Yeah, he needs the spine to be comfortable on the hospital bed!! 😃 Funny , that like Faasle, Dilshad finds him in a critical condition and arranges for the ambulance!
Did he say Ayaan told him that Zoya wanted to leave? Did Ayaan ever say, even he wanted freedom from that nikaah? Did Ayaan tell him that he wanted to marry Humeira? So, it sounds like even Ayaan is suggesting that if Zoya had wanted to stay, he would have accepted the nikaah???
You still feel Ayaan will fall for Zoya?? At this time I don't see it! The bro clash might be due to Zoya but for other reasons?
On a side note, I wish Ayaan will behave like a juvenile and pull Zoya's hair and fight with her. Asad will kill him!! 😆
Shiv Shakti
