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Alright so the forum has already blown up about Zoya, but I'm going to add my 2cents in lol.
While I get why Zoya was angry and upset, she really needed to calm down and stop with her over the top tantrum. The guy didn't come, did you maybe think that something could be wrong? After all he has shown up every other time. You went back to the Khan house, but maybe you should have gone to the office and waited till the "meeting" was over, and then you would have realized something was wrong when he wasn't there. And at least talk to him. Find out what happened, and THEN be angry. If I recall correctly, you did the same to him, but we didn't see him overreacting. Let's see how many times you haven't cared about Asad's feelings, informed him what you were doing, picked up his calls, and been a no show?
1) The first cricket match when he told you not to go and more specifically not to take Najma, yet you still snuck off and left.
2) Ayaan's engagement
3) Second cricket match and to top you didn't call him.
4) Leaving on your Nikah day (left, didn't call or pick up, and don't show up till after) That was the worst one.
5) First time you were supposed to come home with Ayaan after Nikhat's wedding. Asad was the one who saw you at the hospital and came inside otherwise he would have been driving all night. If you could contact Ayaan's family you could surely contact Asad.
6) Second time when he was waiting outside SM for you, you even saw his text but didn't reply.
Yes he acted in a jerky manner most of the times, and many bashed him for his reactions, but the last few he had been calm about. Why is it that when Zoya blows up, it's justified, but when Asad does it he gets name called?
Also this whole blame game really needs to stop. Asad and Ayaan were jerks for the whole situation, but Zoya was equally responsible. Asad didn't decide for her to get married to Ayaan, the Nikah already happened at the masjid because of her mistake. That was all her. What happened afterwards, was everyone trying to fix the situation the only way the could from their perspectives since it already got out to everyone the nikkah took place. Asad should not have had Zoya stay there, but she also has a mouth, because clearly she is using it now. Sorry guys, I love Zoya, I really do, but I'm just tired of her being victimized and not learning from her mistakes blaming everyone else and their mom but herself.
Now for Ayaan. I swear this boy needs to be put in his place. He is the biggest flip flopper of them all. He really is Rashid and Shirin's son and Badi Bi's grandson. When he wants he's all lovey dovey with Humaira, and when he wants, he pushes her to the side to go to Zoya's aid. He hasn't gotten his reality check either yet. Humaira needs to teach him a good lesson. Seriously don't believe anything that loser says Humaira. The way he pushed her away yesterday and completely ignored her when Zoya came in. That was just so rude. And today, telling her to leave like that. I feel so bad for her.
Which brings me to my last point, both Ayaan and Zoya are insensitive. Zoya talked to Humaira like twice, and I liked those scenes and the convo, but you say one thing and then act another. Imagine how bad Humaira must feel when she sees you coming in, and also sidelining her as if she's not in the room, going to take care of Ayaan. Zoya felt that way once with Tanveer, she should know better than anyone how it feels and be considerate.
Kk. Done now lol.
Anupamaa
Health and Fitness
