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Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella
Alright so the forum has already blown up about Zoya, but I'm going to add my 2cents in lol.
While I get why Zoya was angry and upset, she really needed to calm down and stop with her over the top tantrum. That is who Zoya is, she always does it. Maybe she needs a bigger Jataka to mellow down ? Abbugate, Razia showdown ?The guy didn't come, did you maybe think that something could be wrong? After all he has shown up every other time. You went back to the Khan house, but maybe you should have gone to the office and waited till the "meeting" was over, and then you would have realized something was wrong when he wasn't there. And at least talk to him. Find out what happened, and THEN be angry.That was her initial reaction, every lady wants to be her guys priority, Mr Khan left her waiting on most important days of her life. He left her at SM, without her marzipan/consent. She did everything for him.Imagine waiting for hrs, all decked up and relieved, then trying every possible number and being ignored for a meeting... Also after the dust settles she will talk on a lighter note , if mulaqaat ya contact ho jaati to drama effect Kahan se aata ?If I recall correctly, you did the same to him, but we didn't see him overreacting. Let's see how many times you haven't cared about Asad's feelings, informed him what you were doing, picked up his calls, and been a no show?Asad was always downright mean and judgemental Roojie most of the time1) The first cricket match when he told you not to go and more specifically not to take Najma, yet you still snuck off and left. That was a very different scenario, he reacted very meanly ... Also always tana of parvarish and bad influence2) Ayaan's engagement. He kicked her out of the house ...3) Second cricket match and to top you didn't call him. She came back to the house and he did not talk to her . Also he was worried for her safety , but after he found out that she is ok, he was sulking which is a natural reaction indeed4) Leaving on your Nikah day (left, didn't call or pick up, and don't show up till after) That was the worst one. After that he left her at SM5) First time you were supposed to come home with Ayaan after Nikhat's wedding. Asad was the one who saw you at the hospital and came inside otherwise he would have been driving all night. If you could contact Ayaan's family you could surely contact Asad. The Milan had to be delayed , but it was important for Ayaan's family to know that, also her phone no signal, Ayaan's phone broken, landline dead, she called from doc's cell.6) Second time when he was waiting outside SM for you, you even saw his text but didn't reply.Yes he acted in a jerky manner most of the times, and many bashed him for his reactions, but the last few he had been calm about. Why is it that when Zoya blows up, it's justified, but when Asad does it he gets name called? Asad knew that she was safe inside,Roojie, in all these situations their relationship was slowly building up, had I been in Zoya's place, I would want my man to show up at SM and take me home in broad daylight in front of everyone and not sneak outAlso this whole blame game really needs to stop. Asad and Ayaan were jerks for the whole situation, but Zoya was equally responsible. Asad didn't decide for her to get married to Ayaan, the Nikah already happened at the masjid because of her mistake. That was all her. What happened afterwards, was everyone trying to fix the situation the only way the could from their perspectives since it already got out to everyone the nikkah took place. Asad should not have had Zoya stay there, but she also has a mouth, because clearly she is using it now. Sorry guys, I love Zoya, I really do, but I'm just tired of her being victimized and not learning from her mistakes blaming everyone else and their mom but herself.Yes everybody has a part to play, but still I sympathize more with Zoya, she did everything accidentally, but Asad and Ayaan did it on purpose knowing fully well... So yes she is a victim albeit she is choosing to be one. But Ishq and mushy Jo karaye kam haiNow for Ayaan. I swear this boy needs to be put in his place. He is the biggest flip flopper of them all. He really is Rashid and Shirin's son and Badi Bi's grandson. When he wants he's all lovey dovey with Humaira, and when he wants, he pushes her to the side to go to Zoya's aid. He hasn't gotten his reality check either yet. Humaira needs to teach him a good lesson. Seriously don't believe anything that loser says Humaira. The way he pushed her away yesterday and completely ignored her when Zoya came in. That was just so rude. And today, telling her to leave like that. I feel so bad for her.Which brings me to my last point, both Ayaan and Zoya are insensitive. Zoya talked to Humaira like twice, and I liked those scenes and the convo, but you say one thing and then act another. Imagine how bad Humaira must feel when she sees you coming in, and also sidelining her as if she's not in the room, going to take care of Ayaan. Zoya felt that way once with Tanveer, she should know better than anyone how it feels and be considerate.Kk. Done now lol.Again Roojie! Gussa apano par aata hai...Zoya is his bhaijaan's amanat. Humeira to apni hai.All this is for drama and Gul trolling us.All these people are completely in character. They are behaving like they always do, except for Asad , he is changed man now...
Roojie, I love you ... A very nice post and good points.
Udne Ki Aasha
