Anandi is truly an orphan

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Posted: 12 years ago
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BV has progressed to a point where no one cares for Anandi while she cares for all. Dadisa who proudly said A meant more to her than J, made a 180 degree turn once she heard J was in jail. She said I want my grandson, Mera Pota -- NOW, and nobody dare do a thing to him. She is prepared to take on the world for him, including Shiv's family, and she doesn't seem too bothered about A in all this.

Bhairon loved A. But his first love is now J. He is so proud of him, so determined to get him out that he doesn't even mention of A except tangentially when J said he didn't want to get her into trouble.

Ganga -- the worst of all: She called A, shed buckets of tears about her husband in jail, agonised about who will get him released etc. As for A's takleef, there was no more than one passing, casual reference. She put the phone down once A assured her that J will be out soon. Her worries sorted out, she was okay. Why care for Anandi?

Of A's sasural of course the less said the better -- the worst behaved currently being her husband. How can a husband who assured her everyday that he trusted her more than anyone else in the world, suddenly become so cold and indifferent?

The only one who ironically cares for her is J and he is going about it so god-awfully wrongly that he is messing up her life more than ever. Poor girl. She is truly an orphan -- except perhaps for some support from Minoo. But even the latter cannot back her openly.

And on top of it the whole forum curses her: She is expected to sacrifice her love, her family and support J who so cruelly left her for another woman. Talking of that I cannot for the life of me understand how A can feel so much affection for a man who was so completely mean and horrible to her and who threw her under the bus so he could lead a happy life.

But that is A. she will be cursed once again but she will walk into the court and give testimony in favour of J -- the same man who ruined her. The forum will take the whole thing matter-of-factly: Of course she has to do that. So what if she destroys her own life in the process?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel you are being too critical of DS, and Bhairon. The situation demands them to act that way. They can't ignore one and let the other suffer. For parents, their all children are equal. They have done so much for Anandi. Now its time, they do for Jagya as well.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A beautiful post! Agree fully!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Further, Bhairon yesterday went to Shekhar's house to settle things peacefully, as he is worried about Anandi too. He knows that the court case will spoil the relation and will affect her badly. So, I don't agree with you on that point.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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No DS and Bhairw should hang their own son and only care for Anandi and Anandi sasurals Dhamki. Jagya is not even living with them coz they throug him out from their hous only for Anandi khushi. They always chose Anandi over Jagya and you are sayng that DS and Bhairw are baisd? Anandi is not in jail now Anand's problem is her Sasural and Shiv who didnt accept her as a family member ever. And Anandi also did mistakes by hiding many truths from both familys so now she is in a bad situation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi is unfortunate.

She had biological parents. But Bhago kept kicking her to saasra driving it in her brain that this was not her home.

Singhs kicked her or accepted her at will.

DS now claims she is grateful and indebted to Anandi whereas she forgot about her sacrifice earlier when she got Jagya remarried to Gauri (as kids).

All the time people force her or take decisions for her or manipulate her life. There are few instances when Anandi made her own decision (like choosing to study social work instead of medicine).

People decide whether she sits at home or opens an NGO or does bit of social work from home.

No one bothers about what she really feels.

Sometimes they are "over concerned" with her to the extent that they do not tell her anything. Yet sometimes they tell her or keep calling her like crazy.

Her deeds are forgotten or remembered at will.

Despite seemingly having everything, she has nothing.

I also wonder why she feels so much for everyone. Especially DS and Jagya who ruined her life in first place!

Anyway, her freedom is an illusion.

She cannot even give reassurance to anyone because who knows whether her circumstances will allow her to help that person or not.

She's made part of family and isolated at will.

She is indeed an orphan only.

Both families and people have also hidden truths from Anandi or refused to listen to her. Yet it is ONLY Anandi who is at fault for "hiding" truths.
Edited by Skepblun - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i will never take it from anyone who will bash Bhairon when it come to loving Anandi.

Since from the beginning BV everyone knows to Bhairon is Anandi's backbone and he can kill for her.

Infact all the Singhs really love Anandi just like they would their biological daughter.

Although people hate Sumitra now because she is clear acting stupid, but the fact is that Sumitra is very protective over Anandi too..even against DS, Vasant, Jagya, Ganga or anyone else. She looks at Anandi as a demi-goddess that on one can mature up to. Wait and Watch what will happen when she finds out Sanchi is very rude to Anandi. remember their house was once divided into two because of Anandi (not that she did anything wrong)

As for DS God know she really is trying hard not the fight the Shekers only because she doesnt want Anandi to be affected. A woman with so much pride would never have been kissing those kids Ass just because their name is SHERKERS.

But amits all their love for Anandi they also have another child who has gone through alot for his mistakes, but has changed. he is making them very proud finally and they cant just sit there and watch people take advantage of him just because they are the in laws.

Edited by avyarima - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nylotto

Ganga -- the worst of all: She called A, shed buckets of tears about her husband in jail, agonised about who will get him released etc. As for A's takleef, there was no more than one passing, casual reference. She put the phone down once A assured her that J will be out soon. Her worries sorted out, she was okay. Why care for Anandi?

SARE PROBLEM KI JD YE GANGA HAI... SALI MAR KYU NAHI JATI...



Seems like Sumi yelling 😆 ...
642126 thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
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I can't question Sumitra and Bhairon's concern for Anandi.

Bhairon is bearing all insult and still trying for negotiation only for Anandi's sake. Or else he too has goten many people punished in past.

Anyway, I hate people using Anandi's name and making her scapegoat everywhere without even her knowledge! Sumitra made Singhs accept this alliance using Anandi's name. Sanchi kept visiting Jetsar piggybacking on Anandi. Shekhars - especially Ira are now using Anandi's name to either convince Singhs to get them Jagya for Sanchi or terrorise them with dire consequences!

She doesn't say anything yet people keep dragging her name everywhere for their ends or lame decisions!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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right both families show that anandi means so much to them 😵
but when it comes to their daughter and son ( SA & JA ) everybody forgets what dilemma and in pain she is n no one thinks about her 😡

a situation where she has been given an option to choose between the two families and both the families mean a lot to her

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