So who is the Sautela now?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't recall the last time I made a post in this forum, but today, Haseena stooped to new levels, and I had to. I really hate that cow. But my complaint is not against her.

It's against Ayaan, Rashid, Shireen and Dadi.

It is bad enough that they created a culture in their house that made Nikaht feel so insecure, so inferior that she was ready to take her own life. A culture of marrying a girl off ASAP, to who ever will sell their son. They'll swallow their pride and the high price tag too, with their heads lowered, because after all their Nikhat has a defect...she's darker skinned than the rest of her siblings.

Funny though...last time I checked...skin color was something you were born with...you don't get to choose it like your hairstyle, your dress, or the color of your nail polish. I guess they know better than God.

But now...look at their silence in the way Najma was treated.


Ayan...
For someone who is ready in minutes to lodge complaints against Asad of partiality between sisters, I was surprised that Ayaan just stood there and watched Najma give her necklace to Nikhat.

He once said to Asad, that a brother could look at a sister's face and know what she's feeling. So was he blind to Najma's pain and her tears? I mean even Nikhat was shaking her head no, and kissed Najma's hand in gratefulness. But what happened to Ayaan? He's spoken out against Hassena for Nikhat, why didn't he say something for Najma?

Okay I understand that Nikhat is suicidal...but as a brother, he could have at least taken Najma aside and offered her thanks or some comforting words. Or if he was a complete duffer and didn't realize that something was amiss, he could have asked her what was wrong. Ugh!!

Rashid...
I just don't like this man...never have. He could have said 2 words to his daughter today. Beta how are you? You just got married. Are they treating you OK? He knows what kind of a woman Haseena is...he has had 2nd thoughts about Nikhat being wed into that house...so does Najma not matter? Yes Najma and Imran loved each other...but still as a father, he could have at least put his hand on his elder daughter's head. Double Ugh!!

Shireen...
I know she is stupid...sab kismat ki luck hai is mein kya shak hai. But does she even realize the extent to which Asad's family has sacrificed for her family time and time again? And as far as she's concerned that's okay, because only Asad has to prove that his love for her children is authentic enough. Well fine...I said she was stupid. But today she didn't even reply to Najma's salaam! Triple Ugh!

Dadi...
Does this woman even care for Asad and Najma? I have to wonder. Why is she pushing Zoya to act as Ayaan's wife? She does know that AsYa were about to get married right? Also, she was giving Haseena taanas about the small chain being given to Nikhat. But why no taana for what Haseena was doing to Najma. Even Razia was shaking her head at the obvious pig Haseena was being. But Dadi remained mum. Quadruple Ugh!


Or maybe I'm the one getting all hyped up about the way tamatar is being treated, for no reason.
But it hurts to see that whether the person in question is Najma, Zoya, or Nikhat...they are either taken advantage of or taken for granted... ...just because they are girls.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly how I felt; frustrated!!!! I don't understand why haseena b gets away with so much murder! And what makes me laugh that she doesn't even notice when her son's giving away so much money to billo sl*g!!!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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WORD...
Rashid has NEVER thought Asad and Najma as his children...It doesn't matter how much he does this poor majbur baap act...he can't be saved by that fact that he thinks them as his children or the fact that he so called "Loves" Dilshad...He isn't even father of Najma...as she has always said, Asad is her father and brother...Rashid was, is and always will be a spineless man...and so called man that can be called as such only because he fathered 5 kids...nahi toh I won't be so sure about him that much...

Shireen...well, she is stupid...she is very smart...she knows how to make people do what she wants and how she wants...so HOW on the earth she is stupid...?? 😲 lol She is a selfish so called woman...Agar she can make her daughter insecure and make her feel a burden on her family, so much that she tried to commit suicide, then how can we complain that she is unfair to other's child...??

Ayaan is Shireen and Rashid's son...He was is and always will be selfish...he like his mother knows only taking, asking and making people do what he wants and how he wants...he has always made Asad do what he wanted...he has always emo-blackmailed Asad...and that "Sautella" card always works...And its our idiocy to expect from him a similar kind of relation with Najma that Asad has with Nikhat in Nuzhat...Asad is Asad Qurbani ka bakra Ahmed Khan...Ayaan knows and will always use Asad to have what he wants...

So for him, its all about having, having and having...

Dadi aka Badi bi...well, try to remember the very first episode of QH, when Asad was shot...She was more worried about how will Rashid meeting Dilashaad will affect their Ghar ka mahool then the fact that the first grandson was shot...

She has NEVER took or even thought about Asad or Najma...She was always there for her pota Ayaan as she was her only pota...and then she was there for Nikhaat and she has done don't-know-what for them and NEVER even thought about that she has also another pota and poti...so I wasn't shock at all seeing her trying to do everything to make sure Zoya was there as Ayaan's wife...That woman after all lives in SM...so its Haram for SM waloon ke liye Asad or KV ke bare main sochna...

That woman drives me mad, more then Raziya has EVER done...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I hate Badi Bi the most..She is hell annoying 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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what to expect from these selfish and spineless people.
I don't remember last time ayaan has done something for asad and najma. But when time comes he never hesitates to ask anything from asad.
Rashid i really wonder how can a father be like this. He never cared for his own children.

shireen and badi bi changes colour more faster than girgit.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samy_Akhy

Exactly how I felt; frustrated!!!! I don't understand why haseena b gets away with so much murder! And what makes me laugh that she doesn't even notice when her son's giving away so much money to billo sl*g!!!!!!


Yeah...I have to wonder where Imran gets that money. I mean his mom is so cheap...she even keeps the tea and sugar locked up in her room.

I also don't know why Imran didn't stop his mother. He was standing up for Najma when he wanted to have his marriage fixed with her...now don't tell me he doesn't know that that necklace belongs to his wife.

What a woos! 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

WORD...

Rashid has NEVER thought Asad and Najma as his children...It doesn't matter how much he does this poor majbur baap act...he can't be saved by that fact that he thinks them as his children or the fact that he so called "Loves" Dilshad...He isn't even father of Najma...as she has always said, Asad is her father and brother...Rashid was, is and always will be a spineless man...and so called man that can be called as such only because he fathered 5 kids...nahi toh I won't be so sure about him that much...

Shireen...well, she is stupid...she is very smart...she knows how to make people do what she wants and how she wants...so HOW on the earth she is stupid...?? 😲 lol She is a selfish so called woman...Agar she can make her daughter insecure and make her feel a burden on her family, so much that she tried to commit suicide, then how can we complain that she is unfair to other's child...??

Ayaan is Shireen and Rashid's son...He was is and always will be selfish...he like his mother knows only taking, asking and making people do what he wants and how he wants...he has always made Asad do what he wanted...he has always emo-blackmailed Asad...and that "Sautella" card always works...And its our idiocy to expect from him a similar kind of relation with Najma that Asad has with Nikhat in Nuzhat...Asad is Asad Qurbani ka bakra Ahmed Khan...Ayaan knows and will always use Asad to have what he wants...

So for him, its all about having, having and having...

Dadi aka Badi bi...well, try to remember the very first episode of QH, when Asad was shot...She was more worried about how will Rashid meeting Dilashaad will affect their Ghar ka mahool then the fact that the first grandson was shot...

She has NEVER took or even thought about Asad or Najma...She was always there for her pota Ayaan as she was her only pota...and then she was there for Nikhaat and she has done don't-know-what for them and NEVER even thought about that she has also another pota and poti...so I wasn't shock at all seeing her trying to do everything to make sure Zoya was there as Ayaan's wife...That woman after all lives in SM...so its Haram for SM waloon ke liye Asad or KV ke bare main sochna...

That woman drives me mad, more then Raziya has EVER done...


Agree.

And I really don't understand why Rashid is such a bheegi billi in front of Shireen. I mean if anything he should feel guilty about what he did to Dilshaad. He claims to do so, but it's not enough if he remains silent when she needs his support.

He hasn't wronged Shireen in any way, but she rules the roost in terms of him uttering a single word to his other family...this I really hate. 😡

And totally agree about Badi bi...and wait a minute @purple...did you just call me an idiot? 😕

Just kidding 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kankabhor

I hate Badi Bi the most..She is hell annoying 😡


She's been getting on my nerve of late too.

I remember her saying to Rashid once that it wasn't his but her decision about leaving Dilshad...or the split of the 2 houses...or something like that.

Despite the split of the 2 houses...she should have at least remembered that she is still Asad and Najma's grandmother.

Asad and Zoya saved her from Tanu's clutches..but other than the one incident when she cried upon seeing Asad when he got shot I have never seen her show any genuine affection towards Asad or Najma.


Even when she gave Najma the family heirloom bangles...it was only because Najma happened to show up. I mean come on lady...despite having so many servants and drivers you mean you couldn't send them over.


And the way she is pushing to treat Zoya like the Bahu of the house...Urgh!! Just want to put this woman back under Razia's bed! 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sudhi03

what to expect from these selfish and spineless people.

I don't remember last time ayaan has done something for asad and najma. But when time comes he never hesitates to ask anything from asad.
Rashid i really wonder how can a father be like this. He never cared for his own children.

shireen and badi bi changes colour more faster than girgit.


@purple: Gul and her writers had better have some really fantastical background story planned to exonerate Rashid...else he's never getting my vote for Father of the Year.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay so first of all Ayaan never stood up for Nikhat either when Haseena bi called her dark shaded girl or insulted her. The point is that at this they know how Haseena bi is if, Ayaan did or say anything, Haseena bi will create another scene and break the marriage and this is normal in India, just because they are laadki wala's they have to let things go quietly for the sake of the girls, this is what happend, I wonder why Farhan and Imran don't stand up to protect Najma and Nikhat. Frankly, Ayaan didn't act as sautela, he would have acted Sautela if he stood up for Nikhat.
Ayaan saying anything in this situation would have made Haseena torture Nikhat and Najma more. However, I do agree that Rashid as a father could have said something, because both are his daughters.
Edited by lopli - 12 years ago

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