Jodha Akbar 75: Realism at long last

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Folks,

After reading Lashy's splendid account of the day's goings on in our favourite melodrama - and it was seriously dramatic today - I was very pleased, since she leaves very little that needs to be added re: the details. So, just a few reflections on what these goings one mean - on the surface and on the subterranean plane - and about how they lead to my title.

Mainavati: I always knew this was what she would say, and she is brutally frank about it - Jab beti parithyakta bankar aati hai, to hum rah bandh kar dete hain. What she tells Jodha in the court are her real reasons, not the sugar coating she puts on it while talking later to Hamida Banu. And who shall blame her? That is the code by which a Rajput girl in that era was taught to live, and this all the more so when she was a princess, and now a queen.

I was very skeptical when Jodha was assuring Jalal that despite the disgrace they would face, her parents would take her back and try their best to keep her happy. It sounded remarkably like someone whistling in the dark to keep her spirits up and fear at bay.

Then there was speculation in the forum that her family would feel morally bound to take her back as they had emotionally blackmailed her into this marriage. This was missing the whole point: that it was, in their code, Jodha's duty to obey her parents and make this sacrifice willingly. In the normal course, she would never have been asked, only told to do it.

The CVs' treatment of the pre-marriage shenanigans by Jodha was very unrealistic for that age, and seemed like a concession to modern feminist sentiment more than anything else. It was the same with a lot of what followed in terms of Jodha's endless, acidulated confrontations with her patidev. If she had uttered a fraction of the things she tells Jalal to Maharana Udai Singh of Mewar, for example, she would have been jailed and/or banished. The patnidharma for Maharanis those days was crystal clear - they had to obey their royal spouses unquestioningly in all things - and the Maasas would have drilled their daughters in it from the time they were 3.

Now, at long last, like two slightly oblique lines intersecting far down their length, a dose of realism has come to Jodha Akbar. Never fear, it is not going to make things more logical or sensible! This is merely a reasonably plausible plot device to justify the suicide attempt, and once that is past, we will revert to the earlier pattern of a 21st century female plonked into Jalal's harem as a reluctant spouse.

For now, I am mildly pleased with the success of my prediction that a refusal letter from Bharmal might be the trigger for Jodha opting for a watery grave a la Ophelia, but of course far more turbulently, as is her wont. Instead of Bharmal, it was Mainavati, but the principle was the same!

Jodha: I am not about to explore the ethics of suicide or suicide attempts, or to anguish over Jodha in her misery, for there are others enough to do that. Besides, the CVs have, for once, got it right. They have built the walls of the cul de sac high enough and narrow enough so that Jodha cannot even breathe.

For hers is a one track mind, and the track so far has been that she has the worst husband in the whole world. So she lashes out at him time and again, like a furious kitten out to draw blood. She was never one for introspection re: her own actions and their repercussions, in a purely practical fashion, about whether a shift in her ways of thinking might help her. The escapism of suicide is the inevitable result of such a state of mind.

So, unlike Lashy, I was not in the least surprised by Jodha' despairing tears and her boiler plate accusations against the Shahenshah. She has so far never made the slightest commitment to this marriage, and one does not expect the public prosecutor- which is her self-assigned role - to suddenly start looking at things from the POV of counsel for the defence. No, there was nothing new there.

What was new was the blanket condemnation of her whole approach to Jalal by her alter ego, the Green Jodha (neat and telling choice of colour, Humein hara rang khaas pasand hai, use pehene rahiye). It was as brutally frank as what Mainavati had said in the court, stressing that it was the Yellow Jodha who had first brought all the baggage of ghruna to this marriage, and unhein kabhi nahin apnaya.

Of course not, for the Yellow Jodha's idea of a tolerable life in Agra was to carry on as before, boycotting Jalal and any overtures he might make, overlooking anything positive he might do, and making sarcastic remarks to him whenever the opportunity, public or private, presented itself, while basking in lovefests with his Ammijaan. Whence her current complaint that Shaheshah chahte hain ki hum Agra chhod dein, which is far from the truth.

When Jalal offered her his 2 choices, he pulled the plug on this convenient scenario from the Agra end. Now her Maasa has done the same from the Amer end. It was only to be expected that Jodha would outdo Niobe in the tears department.

But what I did not expect was the clarity and ruthless logic of the Green Jodha. And since she was only a partial manifestation of Jodha's inner voice, we arrive at the momentous discovery that Jodha had been feeling all this, at some subterranean level, of late, but suppressing these inconvenient truths and clinging for dear life to the Yellow Jodha. '

I have of late been wondering about the total absence of scenes showing Jodha talking to herself, which would have given us clues about the inner workings of her mind. Today, we got it in spades, and with a solid dash of realism too!

So there is hope for our Amer ki Mirchi yet, and though her sudden embrace of Varunadev might seem OTT, it was really the best thing she could have done at this stage in terms of clearing the air with Jalal, preparatory for a fresh beginning en route to Mohan.

It would also have been useful in giving him a salutary fright. Plus, as the heroine, she could not have died in any case, this not being Romeo-Juliet or Heer-Ranjha! 😉

Incidentally, she sets a sizzling pace to the pool, probably she has had a lot of practice in 400 metre dashes to save oppressed pigeons!

Jalal: In the precap, Jalal is shouting after Jodha, who is doing an Usain Bolt to the pool, Ruk jayiye Jodha Begum!Yeh hamara hukum hai! I have not laughed so much since Alakh made Jodha lecture Mohan about his being ehsan faramosh (krutagnata heen, to be precise), unlike the atyant krutagna Ameri variety of sher!😉

For the rest, Jalal was clearly blindsided by, firstly, Mainavati's public refusal to take Jodha back. He responds unapologetically to her initial references to the nazarband of her sons ( please note that she does NOT include Jodha in this, for in Mainavati's eyes, Jodha no longer belongs to Amer, but to Agra and to Jalal), and is almost blunt in what he has to say about Jodha, including that she wants to leave him. But Mainavati's appeal to him, with folded hands, is acutely embarrassing, and he at a loss how to react, till Jodha rescues him from his dilemma. Then, he is again at a loss, this time about what to do with Jodha.

At the very end of the darbar scene, after his parting salutation to Mainavati, Jalal looks across at Jodha, who is wiping her tears. His expression is no longer angry, or even upset. It is puzzled and worried, with a tinge of sadness. Perhaps, if she could only read his face, Jodha would have realized that the husband she detests does feel for her.

Later, once again blindsided by the news of Jodha's disappearance, Jalal reacts at two levels. On the surface, he is bound to stick to the Mughal sultanate ki shaan ko barkarar rakhna routine, and so he does. Inside, especially after Ruqaiya fulfills her sole purpose in that scene - that of bringing up the suicide theory - he is really frightened, for this is a situation he had not anticipated. But still, it is characteristic of the man that he will not panic, but is doubly determined to find her and salvage the situation.

Why finding her is so important to him is another matter, but he has a ready explanation for public consumption.

I found all of the above refreshingly realistic. Firstly, contrary to the conviction of the romantics here, Jalal was quite ready to let Jodha go back to Amer. This was only natural; an emperor does not beg to be cared for by a wife who constantly proclaims how much she detests him. There IS something about her that pulls him, like a hidden magnet, and this has been so since the time he ventured on that risky trip to the heart of Amer just to catch a glimpse of her. But that does not mean that he cannot master that longing, the desire to make her care for him.

Secondly, while he tells himself, and others, that he will not let her die so that the pride of the Mughals will not be besmirched, the fear that lurks behind the determination in his eyes in the last shot tells its own tale. Rajat was tops in that one frame.

The rest: They don't count. But I loved the indiarubber fashion in which Javeda bounces back, unfazed, after each encounter of the close kind with her thug of a husband. Some female, this!😉

The pool: So, folks, onwards to the pool dunking, and the extra strain it will put on the JA wardrobe section.

Jalal's rage after dragging Jodha out will be directly proportional to, first, the fear he felt, and then the relief he feels. Both will speak to his zehen, perhaps, and clarify for him what exactly this tiresome, obstreperous, infuriating wife of his means to him.

As for Jodha, if the Green Jodha can have a go at her again, she will realise that there is someone who not only cares whether she lives or dies, but is prepared to rescue her from herself.

The romantics can then rejoice. As can even accredited realists like yours truly!

Question for the day: Why on earth were the personal affairs of the Shahenshah - he himself says sending Jodha back to Agra was his duty as a shauhar, so there was nothing either siyasati or riyasati about it - up for discussion in the Diwan-e-Khas, which is meant only for high political affairs of state? It was ludicrous, like a circus.

Oh well, I suppose it is the 16th century imperial equivalent of the catechism scene of the heroine in a regular soap, with the whole family - husband, wife, kids, in laws, siblings of both genders and their kids, plus of course the family matriarch - all lined up on sofas in the living room of the mansion (which expands, like something under Hermione Granger's Undetectable Extension Charm, to contain this whole horde)!😉

Shyamala B.Cowsik

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Love reading your posts Aunty! They are, like today's episode, a breath of fresh air. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice analysis Shyamala...
I am heart broken afer watching yesterdday's episode...
CVS are trying to show that whole breakup blame lies with Jodha and Jalal is blameless...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shyamala Aunty, nice to see your post up earlier than usual (?)...it's like a succulent and satisfying bite of my favourite dish,which will see me through the day..😆

Just like your post, the revelations of Jodha's inner workings of the mind were equally satisfying...it was like a page out of our collective 'what we need to drill into Jodha' book😉. And yes, beneath the veneer of Jalal's Mughal sultanat pride, the fear and concern he felt at Jodha's disappearance (and impending suicide) was palpable. I loved Rajat here, as well.

I was just wondering if the whole Mahaam Anga-Holi fiasco will be shoved under the suicide carpet now or will that be left as one more score for MA to settle against Jodha later?? That whole scene of a livid Adhaam Khan may be one for the future, where he becomes the torchbearer who will avenge his mother's humiliation by Jodha...?😕

On a personal note, I am in absolute awe of your ability to quote anything from Hamlet to Harry Potter with equal mastery. Doff my hat to you👏
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Thank you, my dear Preet, and I hope you will stay with me as long as I am here!

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: preet_pal320

Love reading your posts Aunty! They are, like today's episode, a breath of fresh air. 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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No, Ela dear, that is not what they are trying to show.

Where Jalal was wrong was always self evident, for he was so harsh and OTT, whether in proclaiming in the open court that Jodha and her brothers would be burnt to death if found guilty, or when he repeatedly threatens her in private in a sadistic manner.

But so far, Jodha has been presented only as the spunky, independent Rajputani standing up to an oppressive and unfair husband. Now this is not really correct, for she had brought a lot of negatives to this relationship, beginning with her eternal ghruna mantra, plus she never tried, honestly, to make it work. She wanted the status quo to continue till the end of her days.

But if this were to happen, firstly, we would, one by one, drop out of sheer fatigue at the endless and meaningless fights between them, and secondly, why would Jalal, or any husband for that matter, put up with such a state of affairs from which he gets nothing except periodic dressings down from his own wife, including in public? And in the 16th century at that!

So, if there has to a course correction, two things are essential.

One, a reassessment by Jodha, the first ever, of where she has gone wrong, whence the Green Jodha, so that it is not an outsider, but a part of herself who holds a mirror up to the Yellow Jodha. The latter has not yet used that to work out a sensible way out of her present predicament, but still this will have its uses when the time for that comes.

Two, a crisis situation which drastically rearranges the outlook of each towards the other. Whence the pool dunking to begin with, and then Mohan in the offing. Cinematic, true, but always effective!

Relax, it is going to be a lot of fun.

Shyamala


Originally posted by: elasingh

Nice analysis Shyamala...
I am heart broken afer watching yesterdday's episode...
CVS are trying to show that whole breakup blame lies with Jodha and Jalal is blameless...

Edited by sashashyam - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thanks, aunty
just right on time for my bedtime reading... awesome post as always...
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Lovely!!
I kind of feel sorry for jodha 😔
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Quote- "Relax, it is going to be a lot of fun.- Shyamala"

Very true, Shyamala. Rightly said. I look forward to the episodes and more than that, your take on them.

-Kamala
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The episode yesternight, was predictable to say the least.
Jodha will never go back to Amer only because she has sit put & regally sashay in all shades of green ghagraas in Agra 😆

The scene that stuck with me were two & I shall expound only on those two.

The very dramatic Jodha scene with two other, richly dressed Jodhas was so filmy & Patent Ekta Kapoor that I couldn't help laughing. I knew such a scene would come sooner than later & was chuckling at my prediction come true! Not only this one, but the larger one of Jodha sub-consciously being aware of the un-fairness (with the exemption of the MC track & monstrous Jalal) of her treatment to Jodha. And also my faith in the CVs of Jodha-Akbar mischievously trailing this forum on India Forums 😃!

Jodha 2 readily acknowledges that it was she, Jodha who brought her pre-conceived notions to this marriage & even if it was a political arrangement & marriage into the Imperial Mughlal household, is Jodha's treatment different from if she would've been married into a Raajvanshi household? ( as grand a substitution than The term, Rajput) and the real, seated Jodha's expression betrayed a flicker. I don't know of what. Realisation? Immediate & conscious? Or of regret? Of a mistake that she feels she needs to rectify? I can't identify that & it nags..

But I readily gave a mental cheer for Jodha in hara rang (the symbolism didn't escape me either Shyama Aunty 😉) and the Jodha in Neela rang for being so logical & showing Jodha clearly, the mirror!

Scene 2: Mainavati & Hamida Begum who if , Mainavati were to stay in Agra for even a day more, would engage in the same Love-Swoon that Hamida & Jodha engage in daily 😆. But in all this maternal and parental gushing, the Ameris & not even his own mother give Jalal any credit for his treatment of Jodha & instead try to reprimand Jalal for what his duty as an Emperor was! But I was so glad to see Jalal stand upto Mainavati's emotional plea (and maybe a subtle manipulative attempt?)
And tell her in no un-certain terms that what he did (nazarband ,war etc) were his duties & between the lines lay, "I am hearing none of that any more." Looks like Jalal isn't in any threat of turning into a rasgulla any time soon 😆 .. But when Mainavati was giving her parampara lecture, Jalal looked no to not distinctly uncomfortable (as if he was thinking, these two women & their matters what am into say?) but when he glanced at Jodha I caught a fleeting expression of sadness & regret.. He felt genuinely bad for her plight.. Wait till Mohan descends on the scene! 😆

As funny as the M & HB scene was Jalal angrily storming at Ruqaiiya asking her how could a Begum vanish from the Mughal palace?! And today I liked her constant poking Of Jalal, today. The minute that Ruqaiyyya says "Jodha toh Aapko bhi nahin chaahati Jalal", Jalal the Jallad looked more adorably pouty than my Tibetan mastiff puppy when his favourite biscuits are taken away from him 😆. And when she mentioned Jodha, that same expression of sadness & now worry, flashed in his eyes.

P. S. Seeing Jodha jump like a diver albeit in a funny manner & preceding this, wail in her rooms, made me think of this:

Dear Jodha-Akbar audience,
"Mainavati has resigned from her Hypervati Post. My most darling daughter, Jodha is exceeding even my hyper-ness and Tear Quota.
Yours , with a river-full of tears, the river that I am going to jump like a bird , into.

Hypervati MahaSenior,


Jodha. "



😆


Edited by Mallika-E-Bhais - 12 years ago

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