Asad: Does It Pay To Be Shareef?

bheegi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I have a few questions for Asad.

Does it pay to be shareef in this real world?

Does everyone need to be treated with sharafat in this world?

When does one need to be selfish and when selfless?

Asad, your sharafat resulted in sexual assault at the hands of your best friend and now emotional blackmail of the worst kind at the hands of your step siblings.

Did you accomplish anything by being extra selfless and shareef on these two occasions? NADA

Did you lose something? YES! Both times you lost the one person who loves you more than anyone else in this world and as a result you ended up being the unhappiest person while the ones who wronged you didn't even feel the intensity of your loss and pain.

The one person who deserves all the sharafat and selflessness from you is Zoya. Unfortunately, you didn't respect her and in the second instance forced her into a decision that both of you could regret all your lives.

Have you lost her forever?

Potentially yes but there is still a way out

How?

Stop being too shareef. Go, claim your love. Make her feel that just because she is an orphan, she won't be abandoned by her loved ones time and again. Make her realize that you will fight the world for her and let no one take her for granted ever again. Stop being a Majnu or Devdas. Go into action mode. Figure out why Zoya ran away that night? What did she mean by -Imran aur Tanveer. Why did that accidental nikaah happen? Go question those qazis about the validity of the nikaah. Just saying 'I will fix everything' doesn't help.

Step into the SM. We know you hate everyone there but the love of your life is buried there. Dig her out from that grave. Don't worry if people get upset. Yes, Zoya will give you a cold shoulder but do you realize that your inaction will separate you from her forever.

Direct your anger at the people who deserve it- qazis, Imran, Tanveer, Haseena and not your poor clueless employees.

Roar like a lion because only you can save your kingdom, no one else can.

And please stop being too shareef with people who are selfish and don't care about your feelings.

Edited by bheegi - 12 years ago

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Maham

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Posted: 12 years ago

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All I can say we can wish but maybe soon or not so soon he will realise it I hope
People take him for granted because he lets them
He loves ayan we all know but asad should know where to draw the line and this decision of him can end up in losing zoya forever
But situation is so complicated that he can't be blamed I hope everyone bashing him realise that he just gets emotionally blackmailed first it was tanveer and now ayan he has to learn to say no especially to ayan
Because ayan has done nothing but taken advantage of him and even if once Asad has disagreed (read rashid in jail track) he called him sautela and all
Anyways loved your post

Edited by ManoMaham - 12 years ago

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Waqt Zaya

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Posted: 12 years ago

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chaw chaw

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*A deep breath*

I actually was waiting for you to make this postwa 😆

and i absolutely adore when you give pyaar se thappad to my deary Asshad cause koi dusra hota toh zubaan kheech kar haath mein la deetio main, but then it is you whom i look up to, to scold Asad in teh meetha way 😆 😆

🤣

Jokes apart,

What did Akram fiasco teach Asad?

That you can be wrong Mr Khan

What did Mangalpur Fiasco teach Asad?

Break the walls of your heart, admit it you are crazy for her.

What did Billi Ficaso teach Asad?

Learn to trust no body but her, not even your best friend.

What will this mess teach Asad?

Stop putting your so called Family ahead of her, it is she your biggest priority in life.

Cause when Abbu truth comes out, she will have no one but only you beside her. 😊

Edited by MisHumptyDumpty - 12 years ago

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Stop being too shareef. Go, claim your love. Make her feel that just because she is an orphan, she won't be abandoned by her loved ones time and again. Make her realize that you will fight the world for her and let no one take her for granted ever again. Stop being a Majnu or Devdas. Go into action mode. Figure out why Zoya ran away that night? What did she mean by -Imran aur Tanveer. Why did that accidental nikaah happen? Go question those qazis about the validity of the nikaah. Just saying 'I will fix everything' doesn't help.

Step into the SM. We know you hate everyone there but the love of your life is buried there. Dig her out from that grave. Don't worry if people get upset. Yes, Zoya will give you a cold shoulder but do you realize that your inaction will separate you from her forever.

Direct your anger at the people who deserve it- qazis, Imran, Tanveer, Haseena and not your poor clueless employees.

Roar like a lion because only you can save your kingdom, no one else can.

And please stop being too shareef with people who are selfish and don't care about your feelings.

Chalo sab jakaar Asad ko do theen tapard de khar aate hai. Maybe he will come out of his stupidity and start thinking with his brain again🤣

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bheegi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty
chaw chaw

I am a little dense...what does this statement mean madam?😆

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abhi.sweet

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Di there are four categories of people in this world.First one are those who can sacrifice their everything for anyone regardless is eligibility.Second are those who help others till their personal intrests get effected .Third are those who can harm you for their intrests. A last category contains those who can ruin themselves for making others life hell.. Second and third are common but people like AAK are unique creatures of first category.They have two options either they go in second class or world will get rid of them ,either by making there temple, or by crucifing or by killing. This is bitter but true ,either he should be human and claim for his rights,or if he does not do this ,then should accept all pain without sheding tears. .

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bheegi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sheilasandhu
Stop being too shareef. Go, claim your love. Make her feel that just because she is an orphan, she won't be abandoned by her loved ones time and again. Make her realize that you will fight the world for her and let no one take her for granted ever again. Stop being a Majnu or Devdas. Go into action mode. Figure out why Zoya ran away that night? What did she mean by -Imran aur Tanveer. Why did that accidental nikaah happen? Go question those qazis about the validity of the nikaah. Just saying 'I will fix everything' doesn't help.

Step into the SM. We know you hate everyone there but the love of your life is buried there. Dig her out from that grave. Don't worry if people get upset. Yes, Zoya will give you a cold shoulder but do you realize that your inaction will separate you from her forever.

Direct your anger at the people who deserve it- qazis, Imran, Tanveer, Haseena and not your poor clueless employees.

Roar like a lion because only you can save your kingdom, no one else can.

And please stop being too shareef with people who are selfish and don't care about your feelings.

Chalo sab jakaar Asad ko do theen tapard de khar aate hai. Maybe he will come out of his stupidity and start thinking with his brain again🤣

Yes Sheila. Can Asad stop crying over spilt milk and go into action mode like NOW. I don't mind if he crosses boundaries or turns negative because there is only one person he needs to be positive about and towards- Zoya.

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