Asad: Does It Pay To Be Shareef? - Page 3

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Yes please Asad stop this Sharafat crap!! Those assholes at SM deserve a beating NOT sharafat and not from YOU!!

Please go get Zoya and tell them to go to hell while you are at it!! Those people are USERS!! Your Dad's second family. You owe them NOTHING! The existence of that family is a testament to your Mothers betrayal at the hands of your self serving father!!

So PLEASE get over this misplaced sense of guilt and responsibility you feel!! Those people are bottom feeders!! Do NOT compromise the women you love for them!! I know YOUR mother taught you to be decent, unlike Ayaan's selfish mother. But that doesn't mean you need to be a damned fool!!

DONT let people take advantage of you like this!!

love this one wat a gr8 nasihat to Mr. Asad A Khan ! i don't know why but i feel he lost her forever this time n sireen sins work out najma is unhappy in married life also :( its too late

Originally posted by: bheegi

I have a few questions for Asad.

Does it pay to be shareef in this real world?

Does everyone need to be treated with sharafat in this world?

When does one need to be selfish and when selfless?

Asad, your sharafat resulted in sexual assault at the hands of your best friend and now emotional blackmail of the worst kind at the hands of your step siblings.

Did you accomplish anything by being extra selfless and shareef on these two occasions? NADA

Did you lose something? YES! Both times you lost the one person who loves you more than anyone else in this world and as a result you ended up being the unhappiest person while the ones who wronged you didn't even feel the intensity of your loss and pain.

The one person who deserves all the sharafat and selflessness from you is Zoya. Unfortunately, you didn't respect her and in the second instance forced her into a decision that both of you could regret all your lives.

Have you lost her forever?

Potentially yes but there is still a way out

How?

Stop being too shareef. Go, claim your love. Make her feel that just because she is an orphan, she won't be abandoned by her loved ones time and again. Make her realize that you will fight the world for her and let no one take her for granted ever again. Stop being a Majnu or Devdas. Go into action mode. Figure out why Zoya ran away that night? What did she mean by -Imran aur Tanveer. Why did that accidental nikaah happen? Go question those qazis about the validity of the nikaah. Just saying 'I will fix everything' doesn't help.

Step into the SM. We know you hate everyone there but the love of your life is buried there. Dig her out from that grave. Don't worry if people get upset. Yes, Zoya will give you a cold shoulder but do you realize that your inaction will separate you from her forever.

Direct your anger at the people who deserve it- qazis, Imran, Tanveer, Haseena and not your poor clueless employees.

Roar like a lion because only you can save your kingdom, no one else can.

And please stop being too shareef with people who are selfish and don't care about your feelings.

Originally posted by: DevikaRavish

Sangeeta.. awsome post.. I was searching for yours and Ankie's post if any after yesterday's episode...

Yes each incident has made Asad realize things.. He will definately now learn that ZOYA is his priority ..

Did you lose something? YES! Both times you lost the one person who loves you more than anyone else in this world and as a result you ended up being the unhappiest person while the ones who wronged you didn't even feel the intensity of your loss and pain.

How true.. except Zoya and Dilshad.. all others have taken him for granted.. This twist was very much required for Asad and also Zoya to learn couple of things...

The one person who deserves all the sharafat and selflessness from you is Zoya. Unfortunately, you didn't respect her and in the second instance forced her into a decision that both of you could regret all your lives.

Well.. He does love her unconditionally but he did not realize what it would cost him...

Stop being too shareef. Go, claim your love. Make her feel that just because she is an orphan, she won't be abandoned by her loved ones time and again. Make her realize that you will fight the world for her and let no one take her for granted ever again. Stop being a Majnu or Devdas. Go into action mode. Figure out why Zoya ran away that night? What did she mean by -Imran aur Tanveer. Why did that accidental nikaah happen? Go question those qazis about the validity of the nikaah. Just saying 'I will fix everything' doesn't help.

Step into the SM. We know you hate everyone there but the love of your life is buried there. Dig her out from that grave. Don't worry if people get upset. Yes, Zoya will give you a cold shoulder but do you realize that your inaction will separate you from her forever.

Direct your anger at the people who deserve it- qazis, Imran, Tanveer, Haseena and not your poor clueless employees.

Roar like a lion because only you can save your kingdom, no one else can.

And please stop being too shareef with people who are selfish and don't care about your feelings.

Well... He just needs a clue or some hint which should trigger him... Hopefully we will get to see it next week... I will be happy if Asad rescues Zoya out of this mess and claims to whole world that ZOYA belongs only to ASAD !!

Originally posted by: shonajain

thank u n
exactly di 😊

shareef n neki for dose Gud for nothing sm people is a SIN...!!!!!

DAT HOUSE DESTORYED THREE PURE SOULS BADLY N COMPLETELY: ASAD , ZOYA N ABOVE ALL DILSHAD !!!!

Originally posted by: SONIRAJ1

love this one wat a gr8 nasihat to Mr. Asad A Khan ! i don't know why but i feel he lost her forever this time n sireen sins work out najma is unhappy in married life also :( its too late

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

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Totally agree with you di

Wonderful post..I don watch the show but i totally get what you are saying..Thats always been the case with QH right? I know a lot of them sympathize with Zoya but i honestly believe that Asad is totally damaged and has suffered the most in this show..Am not even gonna talk about him forcing Zoya into this marriage cos i hate what he did there and that has been discussed to death😆 Asad actually needs a shrink and am not even joking here..Its sorta obvious that Rashid deserting his family has affected Asad the most and thats the primary reason why there is still so much bitterness left..The guy is emotionally vulnerable and always seeks for approval from his loved ones..At a subconscious level, he sees Ayaan and his siblings as his only connection to the father he never had..He cant stand being judged the wrong way by any of them..He loves Zoya but not more than Ayaan..Thats always been the case with Asad..Since the guy is so fragile and emotionally vulnerable, its pretty easy to take advantage of him..A lil bit of emotional blackmailing is all that is required..Thats the main reason why Asad always makes the wrong decisions and regrets when his mom drills sense into his head😆 If only Ayaan understood him enough to not take advantage of this trait of his😆 Oh and Rashid will always remain a loser..He always plays the victim card and talks about how he loves Asad but he hasn't done anything for him till date..Am shocked that he hasn't spared a thought about how Asad is dealing with this trauma till date😕 And we are to believe that Razia is the vamp and this wimp is the victim?😆 The only two people who actually care about Asad is Dilshad and Zoya..Am sure he'l never wrong his ammi..Not even for Ayaan😆 I hope Asad starts giving priority to the people who deserve it rather than these blood suckers🥱