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Aage barho... statement toh sirf attention seek karne ke liye itna dramatic banaya 🤣
I would like to add my usual disclaimer. log naa jaane kya kya interpret karte rehte hain...
Disclaimer: The following post has not been written to offend any fan group, any sabzi wala, chai wala, nor the dog next door. It is a simple analysis and nothing more. Toh agar kissi ko mirchi lagi, that was not my intention... it was your reaction. 😳
I once read this article stating that feminism is coming to an end. And I couldn't agree more.
Why? Because our mentality has come to that point where we hide behind the word "feminism" to secret a woman's mistakes.
"The Feminist Movement" in North America, for example, was something that demanded women's rights; a demand for women to be educated, have jobs, and have absolute equality with men.
It was not an excuse for women to hide their double standards, their schemes, or their misjudgements behind. Because that isn't the essence of equality at all.
And that is exactly what Kumud is doing. She's on her mission to sudhaaro-fy Prammy (one she's been on forever, I might add) but at the same time, keeps her ex-boyfriend in the house. Suddenly after a weekend passes, he becomes her support during her difficult times... something that's twistedly parallel to the way Kalika was there for Prammy during his tough times in his childhood. They are dealing with the same thing, yet, Kumud is the Devi here, and Prammy gets tainga. How does that make any sense? 🤔
Kumud created this situation for herself. She let her emotions take over rather than let reason speak every single time: whether it was when she said yes to Prammy without a background check (I forgive her for this one... it shows the consequence of a broken marriage) or whether it was when she told her family she wanted to sudhaaro-fy Prammy and blackmailed them emotionally into supporting her in this task. (So why is everyone complaining that her family sucks... no, it's her. She asked for their support again and again and again, and they're doing as they're told to do. 😕)
Yes, I know, domestic violence is a huge issue.I've been outspoken with the many encounters I've heard about growing up too. It's a real thing that happens EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD.
And in fact, here in Canada, people are educated about this matter and tell us that the number 1 thing to NOT do is keep domestic violence a secret. You get help from someone who can ACTUALLY help you (queue your leave now, Saras. It was nice to have you... but really, just because Kumud can't fight her own battle, doesn't mean you should do it for her. You're NOT her family, and you're NOT a certified counsellor or social worker.)
So, not only is Kumud showing her double standard, but she's doing absolutely nothing proactive and SMART to prove herself as an equal to Prammy.
You want to be an equal, Kumud? You're going to have to do a lot more than challenge a temperamental alcoholic (with a bad history, I might add) because you're getting repeatedly burned and dumped. You're not showing him you're equal. To him, you're proving that you're beneath him.
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