Every one likes to blame someone else for their problems, but the truth of the matter is that each one of us has a responsibility to ourselves and our families to learn and do the right things. We are here in each lifetime to correct and grow are we not ?
To blame ArMan or even Varsha for Soham's wrong doing is letting him get off the hook. When Soham was little it is true that Sachin was preferred by Savita because of Sachin Sr. and ArMan bought into that, wrongly. Sachin of course bought into it and has always tried to lord it over Soham. Varsha was a psychopathic idiot, obsessed with Soham, kidnapping him and giving him a life of crime even though she "said" she didn't like it. Yet she didn't do anything about it...
For Sure all these things had influence on Soham A big influence. . Of course our experiences and training form our personalities. But...but...we saw that his own resilience to overcome these problems was there. He learned, he listened, he wanted a family that had good values and he worked very hard at changing.
He overcame them and achieved a change and grew ...to his credit only. Yes several encouraged him and yes some discouraged and attacked him, but in the end he himself did it. He won a great victory.
But what happened, he suddenly became a different person. It appears that he has chosen to be someone else. He has chosen to reject the good person in him and chosen to embrace the bad person in him.. He listened to Balan because he wanted something and didn't care how he got it or who he hurt. Isn't this what Mittal, Punni, Balan do? Why are they bad and Soham just a poor baby? Punni had a rotten life with Vinod and Manju. They neglected and abused her. But in the end, Punni made her own choice. We don't know Mittal's or Balan's story
For sure Manav should NOT have beaten the crap out of Soham. It was disgusting. He was way out of control. Or Archana either...you all know where i stand with so much violence. And yes Bhalla i am sure it pushed Soham to attack Sachin with the rod. But in the end, Soham decided who to be and he himself did it. It's not anyone else's fault but his own. If he were still the good person, he would have had remorse. He did not. He gloated and loved his own violence and his own greediness for Gauri. He is ruthless...even more at this point than Balan.
Sorry, I know you all hate this...and want to blame everyone but Soham,...but...i had to say it.đ
..but like everyone else...i would like a happy ending...don't know how the CV's will achieve that now other than to wave their magic wands and poof !! đ
Edited by naava - 12 years ago