Saraswati's Dilemma - Discussion - Page 3

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mittijalebi

but that's what happens in an arranged marriage in india...........even goes on today. you meet someone once and your family decides if they're right for you or not. happened to my sis-in-law and almost every single member of my family who had an arranged marriage. suryakant did not deliberately get her married to him b/c bhavishya was evil....that was all meneka.

suryakant was pushing the marriage b/c he thought bhav was a good person.



Suryakant thought Bhav. was a good guy.. Was his thought right? No. Bhav. has hardly talked to Suryakant, so how can Surya determine whether Bhav. is a good guy or not? He just assumed that since Bhav.'s parents were nice (even though they are fake) that the son is good. Just because the parents seem good, it doesn't mean their kids are good automatically, you have to know that person. And look at little Lakshmi, she knew about him all the time.. Did anyone listen to her? No. If they did, Saraswati wouldn't have been in this mess at the first place.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well suryknat didnt bother finding out more bout him because menka found the ristha for her and ofcourse menka could NEVER be wrong can she? 😡
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Posted: 18 years ago
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manka her self is a truble
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Posted: 18 years ago
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by supporting bhavishya she did a wrong thing. if u support a bad person they gonna harass u more.it,s not saraswati,s fault it,s just that she is scared of her babuji. if she open her mouth about bhavishya then her family is going to have to bear disgrace and if she doesn,t then she has to bear all the harrasment and pain.on both sides she loses.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I also think Saraswati isn't doing the right thing. After what her mother has been through, she should know that she has to fight for her rights. I know family izzat and everything means a lot to her, that's why she marrid bhavisya in the first place, she didn't want to. But now she has to speak up. Why is she silent! Why is Kshitijj silent? But what could that poor guy do anyway? Someone has to help her, because she can't do it on her own...she's too afraid....and lakshmi has her own problems right now....let's see what happens

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