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Posted: 19 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Cordelia

hey anu, welcome back!! happy new year to you too!!

i too was sickened by Maasi's actions yesterday:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasamh-se/510546/the-hypocrisy-of-massi-the-great

as for your so-called "ramblings" - you know i love to read them! well said, and i too hope that they leap on Monday because i dont think i can bear anymore of this torture. it's pretty obvious that Pia is going to go unpunished, which is completely unsuprising, so i have nothing else i want to watch.

bring on the leap and a fresh start... 😊

Thank u so much dear.
even i cant take this torture anymore, wish the leap happens today, but i can bet it isnt going to happen as per the promo... Anything can happen as long as Jai stays out the house that is mourning his death and Bani mourns her husband's death rather than deciding to don her sister avtar again! I want Jai to simply disappear without a trace...

My ideal track will be, Jai disappears... the truth comes out, that the ONS never happened! And the entire Non Walia clan lives in guilt for the next 5 years.... lets see what Maayi has in store for us...

U take care

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: m3ghna

Amen to that. Wouldnt i love to see all of them suffer the next 3-5 years in guilt of treating Jai like that. I dont want them to be able to even look into Jai's eyes when he comes back... I want him turned into a stone who will melt only when he meets Krishna... I would love a custody battle, will teach these people a lesson or two... but then why i am forgetting i am talking about Jai Walia? He will spoil our party for sure😡

U take care

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: dhruvie05



Welcome back, Anu! Your analysis, expert comments and sense of humour was very much missed, really..I myself was away for a good 3 months as I was in India and without internet access 😔 And when I came back on the forum I see all the star members like yourself, Raaga, MT missing (although MT is seen infrequently still) in action..seemed very incomplete..but am glad u r back 😊 Well written post!👏 I agree with you on everything, including RC's acting skills having improved in the last few episodes..

Amen to all those predictions, Anu/Meghna! If only Maayi would take the storyline that way! Like I said in another post, what I think might happen is
that Maasi might give one of her master bhaashans and brainwash Bani to marry Tarun for the sake of baby Krishna who may be on the way soon ..and Bani being so numb and lifeless as she is right now, might just be indifferent and give in 😡

Hopefully Tarun might sense that she still loves Jai very much, and is incomplete without him..but they will get married nevertheless..although it will be a shaadi for the sake of the society..

Jai will be more broken-hearted and shattered to hear abt their marriage 😭and will assume that finally Bani is happy in her life and that Tarun is the baby's father, and will conclude that this is his "pashchaataap" 😕 😭 Then there will be a lotttt of misunderstandings and assumptions due to lack of communication (as usual!😡) b4 J & B finally find each other again..


Regards,
Dhruvie

Welcome back to u too Dhruvie😃

Dont worry, Nothing worse can happen to Jai more than this, He is as good as dead... Even if Bani Tarun Marriage does happen... he will be pretty numb about it😭 Even if Tarun Bani marriage is on cards, it will be post leap for sure... lets see what Maayi has in storee for us. Even if the marriage does happen... the story will go Kth way, Tarun dies and JW is blamed and Bani gets married to take revenge... Ekta cant get more creative than that!

Lets hope for the best.

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: capricorn2006


Very well said Anushka. Every person deserves a fair trial and Jai's mistake was not so grave to be subjected to a lifetime of loneliness and banishment.

How i wish that for a change the redemption comes not in the form of some lame twist a la PR raaz but from the contemplation and repentance for the mistakes both have made in the marriage, realization of the love that will always bind them together, rediscovering each other and coming together for the right reasons and handling their togetherness with the maturity a marriage requires. But sadly that will not happen as redemption for one character in Kektaland is always at the cost of the other.

At this point of time, it seems that inspite of their love for each other they have wronged each other the most but the reality is that both of them have been wronged by circumstances and more than that by their 'loved' ones. I want to see both of them away from their so-called loved ones and rebuild their lives and hopefully their faith for each other. For all their mistakes, none of them deserves what they have got.

That was beautifully put👏

I really hope they learn from their mistakes and come back as stronger individuals and with a sense of respect, trust and love for eachother... if that doesnt happen, if these duffers dont learn from their mistakes, them i am against them coming back together... they def dont deserve to go through all the pain all over again.

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: hanaane

Good thought Anu... 👏 👏 👏

Fisrtly all of us argued and discussed this topic over and over in this forum…. The more we came close to agree with fact points was the more it remained far where it was…

I do agree with you with some points and don't with others …

One of the things that I still stand for and actually believe is that both characters of JB have failed to do justice to their marriage….

Agree with u, completely!

however Jai for starter was the one who to wanted to end the marriage, (which I don't blame him as he didn't loved her even thought during at the time the way he treated was an acceptable) he was the one who called their consummation a big mistake without asking her what she thought about it…and further said it shouldn't have happen in the first place…

I agree he was a big duffer. But he didnt think it was a mistake, cause he had a big smile when he got up and saw Bani. What he felt was that he took advantage of Bani. He even told her so.. if Bani didnt feel that she was taken advantage of, she should have told him so. If she didnt open her mouth about her preferences, Jai cant be blamed!

to go further they've come to the point where he hided her about PR …. And as she fined out the truth (at list what they thought was the truth) she stood to the ground like any other daughter and human being would have done…he confessed to her with force of RC and she believed and took as he gave it to her… after wards she decided to live a life of her own why wouldn't she… she was in situation were knowing he didn't loved her and was the killer of her mother even though it was an accident but the way he hided and treated her during their marriage was an acceptable…

I dont dispute that for a minute, As a daughter i would have done the same, but i would have told him on his face that i dont want to live with him and stated it as a reason for my divorce, than find the weirdest set of ideas to deal with it. I havent done anything wrong, why will run and hide from him? I dont get it!

and as far love was concerned Jai didn't love her even after the C night… and after he found out about the baby was when he thought he had developed a feeling for her even thought he still wasn't sure whether it was because of the baby or pure love…

U mean to say the guy was ready to die for a lady he didnt love? Wow, that makes Jai one of the best human beings... in the light of such unselfishness, all the cruelty that he put Bani through doesnt stand a chance and Yes, Bani herself cant be capable of such unselfishness, cause she choice to die for a man she loved! What say?

however she did loved him but than again living with him wasn't that simple and easy… he should have confessed everything the day he proposed Pia… but he didn't knowing fully what will happen when she or they found out…

That is something i hold against him myself. But after the actual truth came out, i feel it is of no relevance cause it was Jai who has been victimized.

Coming to the point of their divorce… my guess is she wanted to free both of them … she knew he never loved her…. And as he called a big mistake their C night the baby was the proof of that … but he wanted to have her back and the baby after that but she wasn't going to give in that easy ( as I btw wanted him to push her.. woo her and show her the real him.. caring and loving husband… he disappointed me and didn't do anything accept drink… yeh bhi Mai ki marzi tha..) … 😡

She should have told him so, he himself would never have stopped her. He has always been someone who has let her make the choice, if she told him she wanted a divorce cause she cant stay with him, he would ahve given it to her. She didnt have to create hatred for herself.

She came to the point where she thought it was right to divorce him in order to save the wealthy he worked for his lifetime… thinking telling him the truth about the reason behind he wouldn't divorce her as she wanted to and his money would be save… soo she thought showing her hatefulness would hurt he's ego more and he would divorce her… (She used bad method and he didn't stopped her) Even when she asked him… whets changed I'm still the same Bani you use to hate and didn't have any value in front of you..? Again he didn't say anything to her nor did anything to stop her… I think a powerful man like him should have worked out everything even if it was against her… but the best for all the three of them… he, she and their baby…. He didn't … yeh bhi Mai ki marzi tha… 😡

U think it would have been difficult for Jai to get to the bottom of the issue? The reason he kept quite and asked her everytime it was casue he trusted that she was upto something GOOD and wanted her to own up. That is what TRUST is all about, he isnt Bani who needs proof for trusting! He asked her again about the Baby, did she answer? She asked him to trust her and he did! When Jai asked her to trust him, what did she do? Snoop around to get to the bottom of the matter!

Now the point of loosing their child… it wasn't something she did deliberately …. As we all know but an accident… and as far as I remember she did tried to get in touch with him by phoning his office but unfortunately she couldn't get to him …she panicked and going after the guy was the easy option she had at that time… she screaming out loud by calling Jai but he didn't hear her … she couldn't do anything else but stop the guy any how and after she did well we all witnessed what happened ….. And if she knew he was going to hit her on the stomach like an animal she would definitely have never chose her live than her baby… after he found out he didn't confronted her but hold against her…thinking she actually aborted their child…she didn't revile anything to him and he didn't fight to find out… Now Mai really messed things out a big time.. I mean a 40 year old man should have known the answer to of.... the baby she was going to get out of alimony money how could she aborted…? he didnt do the maths but I don't blame him kyunki sab kuch Mai ki marzi chalta hai… 😡

That was the most idiotic thing to do, and i hold her responsible for the Baby's death. When has she been carefull about the baby that she would have been that day? The miscarriage was waiting to happen. She had to just call the police, when she knew how dangerous the things were, what was she thinking? that she can take on a hulk with a gun? She called office, why? Didnt Jai have a cell? or Didnt Adi have a cell?

The KC night and their reunion… she did came clear about why she clamed the divorce alimony but she didn't told him about JR… she asked him if was wiling to give another chance their marriage. He yes, accepted her and decided not to tell her anything about the ONS… knowing fully what he was doing at that time… after that night she did told him about the death of their baby Krishna.. It was an accident and as she was going to say further he stopped her and didn't want to hear anything from her about their baby death… when they came back to India he did asked her why she hurt him asking for the divorce and alimony … if my memory is still in tuck she did said to him she will tell him when she was ready and he actually agreed to it…

She didnt say anything to that effect, she gave him a half baked story. And how right was she to expect him to accept her without an explantion?

Now the ONS…. I don't think or believe in any how Bani was the reason for that incindent … it was his and Pia's deed… he chose not o come clear, drove her to the edge by hiding from her the truth.... And hided himself while receiving Pia's phone calls… snapping at her and putting her at fault at the time knowing fully what he was doing… falling for Pia's blackmailing… what was that all? Was it really necessary to do? to me I dont think soo... but maybe to you...

I will not hold Bani responsible for the ONS, def not... But is there any denying that if Bani hadnt chosen the way she chose to break Jai down systematically with the Divorce Fiasco, ONS would never have happened? She is def not responsible for teh ONS, but she is def responsible for Jai breaking down.

The truth is out now and I still believe the ONS is nothing but a misunderstanding and someone's plot who wants to take him down a big time…. He /she hold something against him that's for sure…

I agree!

But before that I don't know why…after massi's curse I think TB Jodi will take place… even though it will be only one side love…. And if that happens I'm going to kill somebody don't who will it be though… 😡 😆

😆 Lets see what Mayi has in store.

You know what…. I hope Bani leaves WM before it comes to that… Never mind as you said things are better this way…. I too agree with you that… This two belong together, they're soulmates and I hope they find each other where there is ONS or any other misunderstandings between them…. 😳 😛 😛

By the look of it, it doesnt look like she will leave.

This where they will come closer than ever… after everything is cleared… well what's left after wards… the story will come to an end …. Who ever is waiting JB reunion..I think it will the end of KS story....yeh bhi Mai ki marzi hoga... 😆 😆 😆 😆

😆 Lets hope at the end of it, all of us are happy😃

Did I just type all this…? Good Lord …. 😕

Well that was my point view and what have seen so far.... though I still dont think KS is as I hoped it will be.... but I'm still hoping things will improve.... and I hope I didn't offend anyone the attention not so what soo ever …. 😳

I'm off to holiday for almost 2 moths and will miss you all guys…. 😃

Have a wonderful holiday.

Will try to log in form where I'll be staying as it will not be only one place but different journey to different place… I hope to see JB wooing each other by the time I get back…. till than

God bless us all….. See 😉

Always luv

han

Loved answering ur post.

Luv

Anu.

Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: majumdar

Anu,

A very happy new year and welcome back. I am sure it could only have been such a drastic step against our poor Munna which could have tempted you back here.

Thank U. It was indeed a drastic turn of events, on seconds thoughs i amhappy for the freedom of JW, which holds good atleast till this minute. I hope JW has disappeared.

(but the way he handled the aftermath of it.)

Bad no doubt but driven by two causes. First, a fear of hurting Bani and second, fear of losing her. Thank God that there are least two poeple in KS who are mortally scared of losing his/her partner, the other is Raashi. Others in KS simply could not care less whether their partner remains with them or not.

I understand why he didnt speak up. But the way he let everyone take him for granted, put me off. I never would like Bani to be his weakness, which is what she turned outto be.


(Not everyone has the guts to face their mistakes and accept its consequences without a defense.)

That is what I (and I suspect most of the Munna camp) loves about him, not that he does not make mistakes but has the honesty to accept them and repent for them.

(Having said that I feel the punishment handed over to him was downright UNFAIR, INSENSITIVE, INHUMANE! )

A gross miscarriage of jutsice, irrespective of whether the ONS happened or not.

(She will surely top my list of 'I Hate…')

Don't worry on that. Massi has toppled Pooch as the Public Enemy No.1 of the Munna camp.

(She must be joking, where was she when Jai was broken, shattered when Bani left him? WHERE was she? Busy plotting along with Bani on how to save his hard earned money, when the man himself was being deprived of his child and love?)

I am increasingly tempted to blame Maasi for the property-alimony-miscarriage fiasco. Agreed Bani was the main author but all said and done she was all of 23 years and deeply emotionally distressed at the time everything happened. But what was Maasi doing? She is a mature thinking woman and surely she could have found another way to handle the issue.

(As far as Jai and Loneliness goes, that wont happen, his Jai Camp is surely on his side!)

Don't worry on that count. The Munna camp may be small in numbers but extremely loyal.

(My only wish- i hope his old, loyal Tony goes with him. )

Unfortunately Tony isn't loyal at all. He is hand in gloves with Barnali.

(All in all I am happy that Jai was brutally killed today. He will be nothing more than a 'Zinda Lash' with no emotions, no feelings, Not that of happiness, sadness or pain. I am glad cause I used to wonder how he will ever live through this, but now I guess I am relieved cause he is as good as dead, who has lost his ability to feel any emotion. That will see him through the next 3 or 5 years.)

Precisley my feelings. He can' t hurt any more.

(Bani, I do hope someday u mature enough to accept the faults of ur lineage with dignity and with a sense of fairness!)

Anu, you haven't been on the Forum much lately. Otherwise you would have realised that it is the sacred duty of every Dixit to browbeat, humiliate and make life miserable for JW.

(Come on Jai Walia, the test of character is here… Show what u are made up of, u should and must survive this phase with dignity and grace. And as for you Jai Camp… seems like we will always remain ur loyalist. )

Amen to that.


Rgds,

Pri


It is always a pleasure reading ur posts.

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: majumdar

Farah,

(The same would apply to Bani, when Anu's pregnancy fisaco was going on what marriage did they have. )

True. And JW was clobbered during that epi by the Forum.


(The divorce was not final, just because he had signed the papers does not make him a divorced man, the papers have to be ratified by the court. So legally, technically he was a married man. Emotionally he felt connected to Bani, so in that sense emotionally too he was married.)

A marriage where a wife does not have the courtesy to inform her hubby that she has lost her baby and under what circumstances. And yet we expect the hubby to be bound by marriage vows.

(he betrayed her time and time again in being unable to decide, if his wife is more imp to him or his to be child.)

When has he ever said that the child is more important than Bani

( the same then can be asked of him, does he know the meaning of marriage.)

No and neither does Bani. In fact they can't because their marriage has always been a bit of a sham. Love isn't sufficient to make a marriage.

(So him being thrown out was not wrong, it belonged to his mother, who in Maasi's opinion would have done exactly that, because of what she went thru with UW. )

Who is Masi to assume things about Krishna Walia and JW.

(Yes her sister is at fault too, but she gave up on her sister too. )

Yeah, finally. She did not give up her precious sister when she broke Pooch'e heart, his family, JW and the poor Shukla pup. But finally when it was her own precious skin which was singed, then Pia was disowned.

(again it wasn't the person but the deed that Maasi was reacting to. )

Yes, but it was not the deed but the person who was punished.

(Anu JW has also victimized Bani for no fault of her own, just to ease his pain and massage his ego after Pia left him at the mandap.)

At least he was not in love then. Bani has victimised JW when they were both in love with each other.

(he broke down her home to buid a casino, when he knew that was the most imp thing in Bani'slife at that time. )

It was his property and he was free to whatever he wanted to do with it.

(He had her trown in jail, without obtaining all the facts. )

He threw her in jail bcos she had tried to kill Ranveer when he was blackmailing her with P-P CD. JW did ask her why she did that but Bani kept quite to save her sister's non-existent honour. That's when JW put her in prison.

Rgds,

Pri

That is a beautiful answer, couldnt have said it better.

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: angelonearth

happy new year 2 u 2!!nice post!!welcome back.. 😃

Thank u so much😃

Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#49
Hello Everyone!

Thank u for the wonderful welcome... this is what keeps me addicted to this place.
Thank u for the wonderful replies.

God Bless
Lots of Luv
Anu.

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