Originally posted by: hanaane
Good thought Anu... š š š
Fisrtly all of us argued and discussed this topic over and over in this forumā¦. The more we came close to agree with fact points was the more it remained far where it wasā¦
I do agree with you with some points and don't with others ā¦
One of the things that I still stand for and actually believe is that both characters of JB have failed to do justice to their marriageā¦.
Agree with u, completely!
however Jai for starter was the one who to wanted to end the marriage, (which I don't blame him as he didn't loved her even thought during at the time the way he treated was an acceptable) he was the one who called their consummation a big mistake without asking her what she thought about itā¦and further said it shouldn't have happen in the first placeā¦
I agree he was a big duffer. But he didnt think it was a mistake, cause he had a big smile when he got up and saw Bani. What he felt was that he took advantage of Bani. He even told her so.. if Bani didnt feel that she was taken advantage of, she should have told him so. If she didnt open her mouth about her preferences, Jai cant be blamed!
to go further they've come to the point where he hided her about PR ā¦. And as she fined out the truth (at list what they thought was the truth) she stood to the ground like any other daughter and human being would have doneā¦he confessed to her with force of RC and she believed and took as he gave it to herā¦ after wards she decided to live a life of her own why wouldn't sheā¦ she was in situation were knowing he didn't loved her and was the killer of her mother even though it was an accident but the way he hided and treated her during their marriage was an acceptableā¦
I dont dispute that for a minute, As a daughter i would have done the same, but i would have told him on his face that i dont want to live with him and stated it as a reason for my divorce, than find the weirdest set of ideas to deal with it. I havent done anything wrong, why will run and hide from him? I dont get it!
and as far love was concerned Jai didn't love her even after the C nightā¦ and after he found out about the baby was when he thought he had developed a feeling for her even thought he still wasn't sure whether it was because of the baby or pure loveā¦
U mean to say the guy was ready to die for a lady he didnt love? Wow, that makes Jai one of the best human beings... in the light of such unselfishness, all the cruelty that he put Bani through doesnt stand a chance and Yes, Bani herself cant be capable of such unselfishness, cause she choice to die for a man she loved! What say?
however she did loved him but than again living with him wasn't that simple and easyā¦ he should have confessed everything the day he proposed Piaā¦ but he didn't knowing fully what will happen when she or they found outā¦
That is something i hold against him myself. But after the actual truth came out, i feel it is of no relevance cause it was Jai who has been victimized.
Coming to the point of their divorceā¦ my guess is she wanted to free both of them ā¦ she knew he never loved herā¦. And as he called a big mistake their C night the baby was the proof of that ā¦ but he wanted to have her back and the baby after that but she wasn't going to give in that easy ( as I btw wanted him to push her.. woo her and show her the real him.. caring and loving husbandā¦ he disappointed me and didn't do anything accept drinkā¦ yeh bhi Mai ki marzi tha..) ā¦ š”
She should have told him so, he himself would never have stopped her. He has always been someone who has let her make the choice, if she told him she wanted a divorce cause she cant stay with him, he would ahve given it to her. She didnt have to create hatred for herself.
She came to the point where she thought it was right to divorce him in order to save the wealthy he worked for his lifetimeā¦ thinking telling him the truth about the reason behind he wouldn't divorce her as she wanted to and his money would be saveā¦ soo she thought showing her hatefulness would hurt he's ego more and he would divorce herā¦ (She used bad method and he didn't stopped her) Even when she asked himā¦ whets changed I'm still the same Bani you use to hate and didn't have any value in front of you..? Again he didn't say anything to her nor did anything to stop herā¦ I think a powerful man like him should have worked out everything even if it was against herā¦ but the best for all the three of themā¦ he, she and their babyā¦. He didn't ā¦ yeh bhi Mai ki marzi thaā¦ š”
U think it would have been difficult for Jai to get to the bottom of the issue? The reason he kept quite and asked her everytime it was casue he trusted that she was upto something GOOD and wanted her to own up. That is what TRUST is all about, he isnt Bani who needs proof for trusting! He asked her again about the Baby, did she answer? She asked him to trust her and he did! When Jai asked her to trust him, what did she do? Snoop around to get to the bottom of the matter!
Now the point of loosing their childā¦ it wasn't something she did deliberately ā¦. As we all know but an accidentā¦ and as far as I remember she did tried to get in touch with him by phoning his office but unfortunately she couldn't get to him ā¦she panicked and going after the guy was the easy option she had at that timeā¦ she screaming out loud by calling Jai but he didn't hear her ā¦ she couldn't do anything else but stop the guy any how and after she did well we all witnessed what happened ā¦.. And if she knew he was going to hit her on the stomach like an animal she would definitely have never chose her live than her babyā¦ after he found out he didn't confronted her but hold against herā¦thinking she actually aborted their childā¦she didn't revile anything to him and he didn't fight to find outā¦ Now Mai really messed things out a big time.. I mean a 40 year old man should have known the answer to of.... the baby she was going to get out of alimony money how could she abortedā¦? he didnt do the maths but I don't blame him kyunki sab kuch Mai ki marzi chalta haiā¦ š”
That was the most idiotic thing to do, and i hold her responsible for the Baby's death. When has she been carefull about the baby that she would have been that day? The miscarriage was waiting to happen. She had to just call the police, when she knew how dangerous the things were, what was she thinking? that she can take on a hulk with a gun? She called office, why? Didnt Jai have a cell? or Didnt Adi have a cell?
The KC night and their reunionā¦ she did came clear about why she clamed the divorce alimony but she didn't told him about JRā¦ she asked him if was wiling to give another chance their marriage. He yes, accepted her and decided not to tell her anything about the ONSā¦ knowing fully what he was doing at that timeā¦ after that night she did told him about the death of their baby Krishna.. It was an accident and as she was going to say further he stopped her and didn't want to hear anything from her about their baby deathā¦ when they came back to India he did asked her why she hurt him asking for the divorce and alimony ā¦ if my memory is still in tuck she did said to him she will tell him when she was ready and he actually agreed to itā¦
She didnt say anything to that effect, she gave him a half baked story. And how right was she to expect him to accept her without an explantion?
Now the ONSā¦. I don't think or believe in any how Bani was the reason for that incindent ā¦ it was his and Pia's deedā¦ he chose not o come clear, drove her to the edge by hiding from her the truth.... And hided himself while receiving Pia's phone callsā¦ snapping at her and putting her at fault at the time knowing fully what he was doingā¦ falling for Pia's blackmailingā¦ what was that all? Was it really necessary to do? to me I dont think soo... but maybe to you...
I will not hold Bani responsible for the ONS, def not... But is there any denying that if Bani hadnt chosen the way she chose to break Jai down systematically with the Divorce Fiasco, ONS would never have happened? She is def not responsible for teh ONS, but she is def responsible for Jai breaking down.
The truth is out now and I still believe the ONS is nothing but a misunderstanding and someone's plot who wants to take him down a big timeā¦. He /she hold something against him that's for sureā¦
I agree!
But before that I don't know whyā¦after massi's curse I think TB Jodi will take placeā¦ even though it will be only one side loveā¦. And if that happens I'm going to kill somebody don't who will it be thoughā¦ š” š
š Lets see what Mayi has in store.
You know whatā¦. I hope Bani leaves WM before it comes to thatā¦ Never mind as you said things are better this wayā¦. I too agree with you thatā¦ This two belong together, they're soulmates and I hope they find each other where there is ONS or any other misunderstandings between themā¦. š³ š š
By the look of it, it doesnt look like she will leave.
This where they will come closer than everā¦ after everything is clearedā¦ well what's left after wardsā¦ the story will come to an end ā¦. Who ever is waiting JB reunion..I think it will the end of KS story....yeh bhi Mai ki marzi hoga... š š š š
š Lets hope at the end of it, all of us are happyš
Did I just type all thisā¦? Good Lord ā¦. š
Well that was my point view and what have seen so far.... though I still dont think KS is as I hoped it will be.... but I'm still hoping things will improve.... and I hope I didn't offend anyone the attention not so what soo ever ā¦. š³
I'm off to holiday for almost 2 moths and will miss you all guysā¦. š
Have a wonderful holiday.
Will try to log in form where I'll be staying as it will not be only one place but different journey to different placeā¦ I hope to see JB wooing each other by the time I get backā¦. till than
God bless us allā¦.. See š
Always luv
han
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