Tanveer the friend...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad is a person

Who has only trusted three people in this world this far. Or four. His mom, his sister, Ayaan and Tanveer...

Who is ready to disqualify the misunderstanding (in his eyes) of the love of his life, Zoya to fight for Tanu who he thinks is going through a tough time...

Let Tanu stay in his home, when she was going through the supposed worst time of her life - accident, burning down of the factory, divorce and its after maths...

Has not dared to love 30 or so years of his life because he fears that he will do to his love what his mother had to endure at the hands of his father...

Has denied himself numerous smiles, because of this fear...

Has resisted his love for Zoya (or atleast tried to)...

Didn't care about his own wedding getting delayed, but ran to save Tanu who was being attacked...

I know we all hate Asad for a lot of this, but from his point of view, he has always helped people. Even when he was not in love with Zoya, he helped her out everytime she needed help. Its a different thing that she being the lead, we loved those Mitwa moments... Just think of it, for once if we forget what Tanu is doing really, but believe the story she has woven for Asad, he is indeed just being a human being. A very good human being.

We know Asad has not trusted Zoya's fears... But, we know that it is his nature. He is very rigid. He does not believe in grays, and things are black and white for him.He neither trusts people easily, nor mistrusts those he trusts either.

But what a friend Tanveer is! Forget what she did to Zoya for a second...

But for her own selfish interest what all she let her best friend endure?

1. Burn down his house
2. Be attacked by a peanut allergy reaction, despite knowing from childhood that he could have potentially died from it just to further Razia's motives
3. Deprive him of the true love of his life
4. And, make the worst fear of his life come true

Again, and again, I repeat, irrespective of whether he is at fault or not, for a person as emotionally challenged as Asad, this is like a recipe for a nervous breakdown. I dont see a person forgive himself so easily for such a sin... The consequences on the psyche of Asad (more than Zoya) for this incident can be deep. Very deep.

Even if it is proved later that he did not have an SR with Tanveer, just the fact that he trusted her over his love Zoya, means he indeed is a Rashid Khan who does not know his priorities right...


I dont have words to describe the emotional damage such a back stabbing incident can cause to a person like Asad who is so fragile in the inside...

We know that Asad wont let Tanu out of the Khan mansion even now... somewhere he still sees her as the innocent bholi friend. I said in my post yesterday as well, ASad was drugged and hit, what on earth was Tanveer doing? She could not stop Asad from doing what he was supposedly doing? She could not call police for help? Family? No, she chose to stay there, and bed him, and wait till Zoya came. And then she has the guts to go back home with him. Ofcourse, she put the blame on him. HE is the one who was framed (like Rashid) but he is theone who is made out to be the rapist here... Do you realize the guilt that he can feel for doing this to his love for one, and his best friend who he thinks is going through so much, for two?

What a witch of a woman is Tanveer, what a friend... She not even for once thought of the bond that she and Jammy have shared in the past... but has chosen to let her friend go through this trauma... just for her selfish purposes...

As much as my heart cries for Zoya, it also cries for Asad... not because of anything else, but because of the fact that all of Dilshaad's encouragement for him to love, all of Zoya's efforts are washed out in one go.. I am sure Asad must be cursing himself for ruining Zoya's life, and for falling in love in the first place... I am sure he must have said to himself, is se achha to main tab tha jab mere dil mein seena nahi pathar tha...

Like, the song says... Dushman na kare, dost ne wo kaam kiya hai...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome awesome šŸ‘
Edited by lavalina - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for the compliment on the writing, but I hate they have brought her story/track to this stupid crescendo... and guess what we all know we are still not done with her, and her irritating voice calling Jammy. I even hated it when she called Asad ASAD. She better stick to Jammy only...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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WOW!! but it is true he always helped people is just the company he keeps and the people he trust he needs to check cuz he does trust Zoya but now he expect Zoya to trust him after what she saw with her own eyes(although i know and u know nothing happened, Zoya doesn't know)
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Asad is getting a taste of his own medicine here. Zoya had continuously tried to open his eyes to Tanveer's motives but he always took Tanveer's side. Now that same BFF whose corner he always stands in is part of the reason the woman he loves no longer trusts him and is heartbroken. He tasted the bitterness of no trust when Zoya wouldn't believe his explanations. He has always done this to her in the past.

With a friend like Tanveer he needs no enemies. It makes me wonder what she was like when they were children. Did something happen to her to change her into the woman she is from the woman Asad and family believes she is.

she doesn't seem to care about Asad or his family just what his wealth and position in society can do for her.
Edited by cclove - 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Asyaforever

WOW!! but it is true he always helped people is just the company he keeps and the people he trust he needs to check cuz he does trust Zoya but now he expect Zoya to trust him after what she saw with her own eyes(although i know and u know nothing happened, Zoya doesn't know)


As much as I hate to say it.. he is paying the price for

  1. Always judging a book by its cover
  2. Never trusting Zoya without proof... NEVER EVER
    1. Peanut Allergy - Tanu saved her
    2. Dilshaad's shoot - Dilshaad herself clarified everything
    3. Skirt Issue - Zoya had to blast
    4. Rashid/Gudiya factory case - He still hasnt believed anyone
    5. Tanveer's accusations - He still hasnt believed anyone, though he was polite about stating Zoya that unless she has proof how can she trust her
    6. Tanveer's blood samples
    7. Ayaan's enagement - did not believe until they saw the video footage
    8. Tanveer burning - was not sorry till being told by Zeenat that she saw her mom die in front of her own eyes
    9. Kurti fiasco - does not even know what happened...
    10. Mangalpur - does not believe Zoya's intuition until he sees the dead body of the other couple from Indore
    11. Akram
    12. the list is endless
  3. Ofcourse, his blind trust in Tanveer, and never doubting her despite so many loopholes in story. I know it is what CVS decide and it is inconsistent with his character, but well...
  4. Being stubborn to some extent. Allt his could be avoided if he listened to Ayaan and accompanied them in their car. What was the need not to?
Today he says dont believe what you see Zoya, but it is because he needs that trust. Unfortunately when the time was for him to place that trust he never displayed it. It is easy to say Zoya should give him the benefit of doubt, but realistically for whatever has happened from day one, just a few Mitwa moments, and the past few days where he has been complimenting her nature, or supporting a few things like her burns, etc., can not make one person trust you to that extent that ou see them in bed with someone ont he day of your marriage and you still ask them their story right away. Atleast I would not. May be later, when I put two and two together... Actually I am asucker for KSG's acting and Asad, and Zoya so I enjoy the romance too, but given the negatives (slap,mistrust, judgmental attitude) they outweigh the positives... Yes h as rescued Zoya always, but then he is the one who has also caused her to land in some of those situations as well AKA AKRAM!. Buying Kachoris, making coffee, or gifting Saree with notes... are not enough for me. And, neither is a sorry you come to say, but then dont even wait for the other person to vent out and quietly leave... Yes he loves her, and yes he accepted her as she is, with her burn marks and all, but isn't that a given in love? Whats extra ordinary about it?

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Originally posted by: cclove

Asad is getting a taste of his own medicine here. Zoya had continuously tried to open his eyes to Tanveer's motives but he always took Tanveer's side. Now that same BFF whose corner he always stands in is part of the reason the woman he loves no longer trusts him and is heartbroken. He tasted the bitterness of no trust when Zoya wouldn't believe his explanations. He has always done this to her in the past.


With a friend like Tanveer he needs no enemies. It makes me wonder what she was like when they were children. Did something happen to her to change her into the woman she is from the woman Asad and family believes she is.

she doesn't seem to care about Asad or his family just what his wealth and position in society can do for her.


Bang on. Every word. Lets see if SOMEONE...SOMEONE questions Tanveer.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Mona darling,

you write beautifullyšŸ‘šŸ¼
ASAD is not at fault...he is a VICTIM...Period!!
My POV...ASAD is gonna be more impacted (negative) than Zoe with this incident. He is crushed...I would have never expected him to run after Zoe to Ajmer...considering his state of mind. But he did...he earned brownie points for this.
I will take away his brownie poins and more if he fails to doubt Billi...like you said, his first lesson should be to "Not judge a Book by its cover".
Everything will depend on Billi's response to this incident. If anyone makes an effort to ask heršŸ˜†
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes, I think the first requirement for me is that Asad does not fall prey to that billi... And, decides to take the matter in his hands... I was just wondering, how different things would be, if Zoya did not save Tanu during the Mehndi incident by using the allergy excuse...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Btw, thanks for complimenting the writing...

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