I liked Sanchi's party dress but

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I liked Sanchi's party dress but I feel Udaipur is not mumbai. It is still a small place compared to metros. The rowdies would have got her even if she wore salwar kameez. And her mini added to the already raging fire. Would like to see Jagya rescuing her. Or he maybe too late! Everytime there wont be Jagya and Sanchi need to be careful. The world is full of wolves ready to pounce upon.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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MY POV NOT TO OFFEND THE TM OR ANY OTHER PERSON

The rowdies would go after her in a salwaar suit or even a sari. I don't think Saachi wearing the mini skirt added to the raging fire. It is not that Only girls wearing western outfits get teased even ones wearing Indian outfits too get harassed.

The question is a what gives a man the right to misbehave with a girl?

A girl can wear whatever she can carry well. Yes we have to be careful but does our wearing western outfits an instigation to rowdies to come and tease us? Nahi it is the sick mentality of them who think just because a girl is wearing a short dress she can be teased.

It is like peene waalon ko peene ka bahana chahiye; chedne waalon ko cheddne ka bahana hai ki she was wearing a short dress usne humein uttejit kiya humne chhed diya

Middle aged women, small kids jinke saath galat harkat hoti hai how do they add to raging fire?

SAACHI WAS NOT WRONG IN WEARING THE MINI DRESS.

SHE WAS WRONG IN DUPING ANANDI AND DADDU. SHE SHOULD HAVE NOT DONE THE CHANGES WITH HER DRESS. AGAR PEHEHNNA HAI TOH GHAR SE HI PEHEN KE NIKLO SO FAMILY KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE WEARING.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I hate the idea of putting a girl at risk of sexual harrassment or assault that too again and again just to make a guy a hero (in either in her eyes or audiences!). It is honestly kind of cheap! 🤢
I have been to Udaipur lot of times. And from what I have seen, girls and boys there are still kind of conservative in the way they dress - even the modern ones. You won't see any girl no matter how "modern" wearing what Sanchi was wearing today.

I am also surprised about Sanchi's family. Are Shiv and Mahi totally unconcerned? Aren't they protective brothers? How did Sanchi go alone? How was she allowed to go out alone so late? What about her father and Daddu?

I think Sanchi is also foolish. Why was she running after Jagya in the party? How come she believed when she was told Jagya was there around the lab?

Haven't Sanchi's parents or brothers taught her basic rules for one's safety while attending a party?

It's all nonsense going on.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

I hate the idea of putting a girl at risk of sexual harrassment or assault that too again and again just to make a guy a hero (in either in her eyes or audiences!). It is honestly kind of cheap! 🤢
I have been to Udaipur lot of times. And from what I have seen, girls and boys there are still kind of conservative in the way they dress - even the modern ones. You won't see any girl no matter how "modern" wearing what Sanchi was wearing today.

I am also surprised about Sanchi's family. Are Shiv and Mahi totally unconcerned? Aren't they protective brothers? How did Sanchi go alone? How was she allowed to go out alone so late? What about her father and Daddu?

I think Sanchi is also foolish. Why was she running after Jagya in the party? How come she believed when she was told Jagya was there around the lab?

Haven't Sanchi's parents or brothers taught her basic rules for one's safety while attending a party?

It's all nonsense going on.

Saanchi fooled shekhars by wearing a long shirt.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Sheetsden

I know that. I am saying why did they allow her to go alone to a party at this late hour? And why haven't they taught her basic rules for her personal safety outside?

Or is Mahi only there to laugh and eat and Shiv's only there for wife and in laws?

Men, and that too in Rajasthan are very protective of women in their house. Here everyone from Alok to Shiv are careless.

Looks like they don't care about her. Nobody even talks to her except for scolding when they deem necessary. No wonder she's either not bothered about them or looking for praise, attention and affection outside.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Sheetsden

I know that. I am saying why did they allow her to go alone to a party at this late hour? And why haven't they taught her basic rules for her personal safety outside?

Or is Mahi only there to laugh and eat and Shiv's only there for wife and in laws?

Men, and that too in Rajasthan are very protective of women in their house. Here everyone from Alok to Shiv are careless.

Looks like they don't care about her. Nobody even talks to her except for scolding when they deem necessary. No wonder she's either not bothered about them or looking for praise, attention and affection outside.

They r not shekhars very responsible people here. It's all drama to make saanchi fall for jagya and him saving her. How many times jagya has to save her ?😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Chahat

I agree with you. I don't have problem with her dress. Problem was her lying to family.

I also pointed about the dress but not because it was revealing but because I have not seen girls from that area wear stuff Sanchi did. It did not seem authentic. Though it is true girls from any area have right to wear what they want.

I hate CVs for ruining urban women's characterisation and implying that a woman's dress is like some open invitation to sexual assault.

The words about Hindustani pehnawa and all were bullshit.

Also I hate why they show a woman being so desperate for a man's attention and approval. Agar aapko yeh pasand nahi toh main abhi change kar ke aati hun! WTH was this?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I dont' tlike the idea of showing a girl was teased because she was wearing a short dress...A show that shows social issues should try to change the opinion of people. already lot of people are of the mindset that its the girls fault if she is harrassed...I agree with Chahat what was the fault of little girls who were attacked.
Just to show that one of the main lead is a Hero and saved the girl they shouldn't introduce this track...they could have chosen anything else and also if they want to get Anandi into trouble they could have chosen some other plot but this as it is a sensitive issue..A woman should be able to make her choices and not blamed for the horrible things she has to endure because she chose to wear certain dress.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Chahat

I agree with you. I don't have problem with her dress. Problem was her lying to family.

I also pointed about the dress but not because it was revealing but because I have not seen girls from that area wear stuff Sanchi did. It did not seem authentic. Though it is true girls from any area have right to wear what they want.

I hate CVs for ruining urban women's characterisation and implying that a woman's dress is like some open invitation to sexual assault.

The words about Hindustani pehnawa and all were bullshit.

Also I hate why they show a woman being so desperate for a man's attention and approval. Agar aapko yeh pasand nahi toh main abhi change kar ke aati hun! WTH was this?


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Seriously. A woman should not be blamed for her own assault based on what she was wearing. Blame the sleazeball who chose to attack her! BV of all shows should make that message loud and clear, especially in the aftermath of the Dehli case and all the attention being given to the issue of rape...


I haven't seen the episode, but this whole Sanchi wearing a mini-dress and getting some unwanted attention and having to be rescued by Jagya sounds like a cheap move by CVs. I mean, he's already rescued her once. Can they not find other more realistic and less dramatic ways/reasons to make her fall for him? I mean, I personally have never fallen for a guy because he rescued me in any way, nor do I know anyone else who has. Some attempts at realism would be nice...


Again, I haven't seen the episode... could someone tell me exactly what was said?


Ugh, that sounds awful. 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't know why the tracks are getting absurd. They are giving wrong message about urban girls. I guess we should start raising kids in villages 😲 Hope they don't introduce date rape drug...

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