Originally posted by: chahat11
MY POV NOT TO OFFEND THE TM OR ANY OTHER PERSON
The rowdies would go after her in a salwaar suit or even a sari. I don't think Saachi wearing the mini skirt added to the raging fire. It is not that Only girls wearing western outfits get teased even ones wearing Indian outfits too get harassed.
The question is a what gives a man the right to misbehave with a girl?
A girl can wear whatever she can carry well. Yes we have to be careful but does our wearing western outfits an instigation to rowdies to come and tease us? Nahi it is the sick mentality of them who think just because a girl is wearing a short dress she can be teased.
It is like peene waalon ko peene ka bahana chahiye; chedne waalon ko cheddne ka bahana hai ki she was wearing a short dress usne humein uttejit kiya humne chhed diya
Middle aged women, small kids jinke saath galat harkat hoti hai how do they add to raging fire?
SAACHI WAS NOT WRONG IN WEARING THE MINI DRESS.
SHE WAS WRONG IN DUPING ANANDI AND DADDU. SHE SHOULD HAVE NOT DONE THE CHANGES WITH HER DRESS. AGAR PEHEHNNA HAI TOH GHAR SE HI PEHEN KE NIKLO SO FAMILY KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE WEARING.
I do agree with you, but still in some ways my views too differ.
Short dresses do look good, but the place and occasion does matter. I remember one conversation among Pooja Bedi (who was dressed in a pretty revealing outfit) and Anupam Kher on a chat show, wherein he had asked her if she was willing to walk on the roads of Bihar (no offence to the state) or any other small town? Her reply was no as she was not comfortable. The thing is the way you dress differs from city to city
Secondly still your security lies in your own hands, it always sensible to dress according to occasion and place. Her dress would have looked perfectly alright if it was in Mumbai, but Udaipur is still a traditional place, and on top off it she fooled her family. I am very sure her family would not have allowed her to venture out in that dress late night in that city. So she covered up.
BV is not trying to showcase that wearing Short dresses is bad, but it is asking people to be sensible and honest. You may be comfortable in a bikini, but you will wear it to beaches only and may be in Goa alone in India, beacuse elsewhere you may not be comfortable and want to ward off unwanted attention.
Lastly men who attack women, can do it anytime without any provocation too, so its incorrect to blame women. The requirement for the present society is to educate men to respect women.
