22.5.13 Shiv defends Anandi in Urmi Devi fiasco

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Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

After watching Bv these days i feel give me cold blooded murder stories any day. At least you

Know exactly a person to hate. There will be no controversies.

Shiv was insensitive to his mom. I guess that is how boys are who are smitten with love until

They get fed up with their wives.

That is why it is better couples leave their parents after marriage and live separately for sme time.

Until they know each other very well. Poor Ira not being a hippocrite like Ds and A ended up

Voicing her anger in words that was thoughtless.

Right now DS comes out smelling like roses and Ira who is so broad minded and innocent genuinely

looks small minded. Small mindedness and big heart is all about how cleverly one speaks without

Making themselves look small ,at the same time spew venom.

Definitely Anandi got a house which is way superior to what she deserved considering how she

Does not value it that much. What is over the top is not the way Ira reacted but Shiv's supporting off A and DS is way over the top. That he does not mind even diminishing his mother. When he can be

So understanding about DS why cant he be more understanding of his mother who said what she said

Only in the spur of the moment. When he was rude to A it was Ira who went and consoled A.

I guess these things happen when people live together. It is all part of the game.

But in future Daddu should show some self respect and not give too much importance to DS or flirt

With her. This is what makes DS take too much liberties with Shekhars.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Mahi Thanks for update 🤗

Couldn't watch the episode so update is really helpful Seems like i didn't miss much it was such a mess in the episode 😆 but yes i have seen precap zillion times by now its beautiful beyond words can go to define its beauty❤️ I loved it ❤️ Counting hours , minutes , seconds just to watch the precap complete scene in the episode 😃

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Well Ira only used those words after she learnt from Anandi herself that she knew all this before marriage and it was indeed DS who said all this.

Ira has already been very permissive towards Singhs and Anandi. But it doesn't mean she can be taken for granted. She only made it clear that she and her family are not entitled to take Singhs' or Anandi's lies and BS.

Anandi may have many qualities or won awards from Chief Minister, but it does not mean Shekhars will never object to what she and Singhs do.

Like I said in other threads, you may not want an award winner Sarpanch in your family but you do want people who respect your sentiments and at least do not hide truth from them.

Shiv and Anandi have duty towards Singhs. But they also have duty of being completely honest to Shekhars.

Just because Ira's been so permissive and Shekhars keep laughing all along it does not mean Anandi's family can get away with anything.

Shekhars koi gadhe nahi hain aur na hi unko rishton ki koi kami thi! Singhs and Anandi needed them. They don't need Singhs or Anandi.

I am surprised how Shiv respects sentiments of Singhs (he remained silent even when he knew Jagya was doing drama of memory loss, he was silent when Jagya tried to convince him to break his marriage with Anandi, he kept silent to all of DS' idiosyncrasies) BUT when it comes to his own family he'd lash out at them? Why not extend same patience and understanding towards one's own biological mother?!

I must say Shiv's been too servile and patient for Singhs but has kept putting his own family on backburner or taken them for granted.

Anandi felt duty to protect DS but no duty to be honest with her in laws?

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

@skepblum,

In olden days men took wives for granted and support the parents at any cost like Vasanth and Bairon.

For them mother comes first even if the wife is dieing. The other extreme is modern boys

For whom the wife and wife's family come before the parents. They take the parents too much for

granted. It becomes difficult in a joint family. The best is to live like westerners where the

Parents do their duty to the children in raising them . But they dont to unnecessary sacrifice f

or them and they have their own lives. They leave the adults alone. But in India the modern boys

Want everything from parents in traditional way but want to live like westerners independently.

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