22.5.13 Shiv defends Anandi in Urmi Devi fiasco - Page 3

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Thanks for the update.

Looks like the CVs are paving way for Saas bahu drama where the bahu has to prove her worthiness to be the bahu as well as display gratitude at being given a chance to be tha bahu of the house at every given opportunity🤢

Ira was very much upset to hear that it was DS who badmouthed Shiv which was very natural.But by insulting Anandi she stepped way out of line.If she suspected that Anandi was also party to DS's plan it was justifiable given the circumstances.But by insulting Anandi in front of UD she stepped way out of line.

UD came over to KB to tell that she did not proceed with the alliance because of what DS has said and bad mouthed Anandi and insulted Shekhars for the choice.It was no business of Urmidevi's after she refused the marriage proposal of Shekhars.

As for Anandi yes she had nothing to say in this matter because this situation was not created by her and there is no way she could extricate herself from this without blaming Shiv for part of this mess.

Shiv has come and clarified the matters and stood up for his wife.He apologised UD for all that had happened.Which he needn't have but he did apologise to her anyway.

Evetybody except Ira and Sanchi seemed to have been satisfied with the explanation he gave.

Then what was bothering Ira.The fact that her son knew about it and did not tell her?If that is the case why is she continuing to be angry with her DIL?Is it because her son stood with his wife and not with her on this issue?

If she had not insulted her bahu in front of an outsider and accepted his son's explanation her son would not have felt the need to stand up for his wife.Ira chose to believe what she heard rather than believing what she saw with her own eyes.

In a family youngsters' actions are dictated by the elders' attitude.

I hope CVs realise that people who watch BV are the kind of viewers who do not like saas bahu sagas. and put an end to Anandi - Ira - Sanchi drama soon.

Originally posted by: dixie123

Thanks for the update Mahi.

I liked the first part the way Shiv defends Anandi. The second part after UD leaves, he pretty much ordered his family not to disrespect Anandi.. 😲 What was he thinking ? Is he in his office talking to his subordinates or in the living room of his home talking to his elders ? Ya.. he was angry at the way his mom spoke to his wife but still he should have talked and convinced in a better manner... His tone in this part made things worse for Ira and Anandi. No wonder Ira is hurt that he chose his wife over mom. There was no need for him to defend DS in front of his family. He could have told them that he was in love with Anandi and even if DS hadn't done this he would have not married anyone else other than Anandi.

Daddu was right. I liked his dialogues. It will take time for all this to sink in. He trusts Anandi and I agree when he said that Ds's fault cannot be tagged onto Anandi.

The CVs have messed up this UD thing. It seems from the way UD was talking that the ristha was almost pakka and it broke only because of DS. Shiv's dialogues to UD also reflected the same.But, the way they have shown all this while that UD's daughter and Shiv had never met and it was still in the initial stages of proposal.

I agree with Ira that no mother can hear her child getting badmouthed. I think that is not the issue for her nor is Anandi. It is the way Shiv handled the whole thing after UD left. He should have handled it both as a husband and as a son. He fulfilled the husband part but not the son part.

Ab, he has to manao both wife and mother.

I am hoping all this tension will lead to DS coming over to KB and apologising to the Shekhars. That is very much needed.

OK i can't help but comment please koi offence mat lena mera POV hai

Urmi Devi:

She was out of line. there are so many bloopers in what she said. Humaare bacchon ka ghar bas gaya hota? how can she be 100% sure? Shiv had not even seen the girls photo. She built castles in the air.

Rishta toota tab hai jab juda ho. Ira too had just gone to Kota to see UD's daughter. Jab aise proposal aate hain toh it is not publicized until the sagaai is done to avoid ppl from trying to break it. She herself must have dhindhora pitoed that Collector ka rishta aaya hai and pakka hua hai ONLY then ppl will think ki rishta toota hai.

Sabko pata chal jaata hai ki Collector se rishta toota hai Dsa ke ghar par toh pata nahi chala. She said that her daughter is found at fault obviously because no matter what she says about Shiv he is all over the media for his good deeds and accomplishments. So ppl will believe what they see. Anandi ne meri beti ki badnaami ki? Use teri beti ka naam tak nahi pata.

She was so wrong to blame and insult Anandi. She should be angry at Dsa. Yes her anger is justified ki lost a golden guy but wasn't she at 99% fault. why did she believe some random dokri? She could have investigated further.

Shiv beta ban gaya? OMG her heights to tell Shiv that his wife will betray him and pyaar ka jaadu utrega? How can you enter someones house and just start barking?

Shekhar's

I DID NOT LIKE THE SHEKHAR'S ATTITUDE WHEN UD INSULTED ANANDI. THEY WERE IN SHOCK AND ANGRY PAR KOI BAHAR KA TO INSULT YOUR BAHU AND YOU KEEP QUIET IS VERY WRONG.

Ira and Saachi remind me of Gauri and her mom but in role reversal. Initially gauri was not insecure she was very trusting of Jagya and confident of their relationship. she changed only when her gawaar maata used to do her kaan bharo at every given chance. same here Saachi kaan bharo's of Ira and Ira the ever pendulum starts lollying.

Yes Ira had to be hurt and angry. She is a mother koi bhi ma aise h sochegi and hurt hogi but i think ki gusse aur nashe mein insaan sach bolta hai. She must have always thought of Anandi as a balika vadhu Divorcee but for her to say it on Anandi's face was so below her class.

She always from the very beginning has felt that she is loosing her son to her bahu. Shaadi ke teesre din when Shiv wanted to return to Jaitsar tab bhi she felt mera beta mera nahi raha. Dekha jaaye toh use Dsa ne jo kiya uss se zyaada bura iss baat ka laga ki Shiv sided with Anandi. Ma aur biwi mein se he chose biwi. SAAS effect hai use.

IT IS SAID KI ANPADH LOG RISHTON MEIN ROGOD HOTE HAIN PAR DEKHO SUMITRA AUR SHYAAM KI MA KO BAHU KO BETI MANA HAI PAR IRA JO ITNI PADHI LIKHI HAI WO ANANDI KO BAHU KE TAUR PAR HI DEKHTI HAI.

Saachi:

Saare sheher mein kya saare universe mein aapse koi nahi.

Her face was like someone fed her castor oil when Shiv said ki mujhe sab pata hai. Ek plan fail ho gaya. She is all big words and no show.

Hadd hai yaar Anandi bhabhi ne hi dadiji ko idea diya hoga. She is so chalaak she bad mouthed Dsa but when she saw that Ira was pissed at Dsa she so slyly filled her head ki Anandi bhabhi ne hi dsa ko idea diya hoga. she know ki jagya ke maamle mein sirf pendu ma hi uski help karegi so dsa ki image ko saaf kar rahi hai.

She was not thinking about her brother being cheated but she wanted to prove herself right.

She is so headed for a major heartbreak and I want her face that for hurting AnSh so much.

Jagya and Gauri ke baare mein she knows nothing I hope she gets to hear it all from Jagya. When Ganga heard it she showed him the right path when Saachi will hear it she will show him the door.

She wants to be with Jagya. JOKE OF THE CENTURY she will not last one day of sabhaaloing jagya

Alok:

Good expressions. he is very understanding and mature which i am very sorry to say Ira is immature at times.

Daddu:

My respect for him his have grown a thousand times. this is what a head of a family should be like. he was right ki garam dimaag se kuch bhi process nahi kiya ja sakta.

he will have his hands full with Ira

Meenu:

She did not say anything but her expressions said it all. her fear is true regarding Ira because this is the third time she is being influenced by Saachi. OMG ab wo ya na samjhe ki Jagay and Anandi ke rishtey mein she was wrong. Satyanaash hoga tab toh.

Anandi:

Wo roti nahi toh kya karti. Kab bado ke saamen moonh khola hai usne. She should have apologized on Dsa's behalf but then she would be shown as a good beti. she needs to be shown as a good bahu and win over her saas and nanand

What she said about her and Shiv. She had a lot of trust and respect for him. Yes what she said about liking him; her meaning was as a person she liked him and his nature and his qualities. nothing romantic. If she were given the time she wold have eventually fallen for him and then they would have gotten married.

She should have stopped Shiv from speaking sternly with Ira but he would not have listened to her. Saachi toh deserved it is liye chup rahi. wo kabhi bhi apone pati aur uske family ke beech mein nahi aayegi na hi kuch bolegi. she is wired like that.

Shiv:

Uska gussa hona jaayaz hai yaar ki kisi bahar wale ki sunkar uski patni ko insult kiya. he knows what she has gone through and to throw that in her face. he did not like the balika vadhu and divorcee statement.

uske liye sahi sahi hai and galat galat. he becomes stern when he is on the right side. he supported Dsa because he understood what a parent can do for their child. he should have clearly stated that was already in love with Anandi. so koi hoor pari ka rishta aata toh wo bhi mana kar deta.

I understand one more thing yaar ki usne apne family ko kyun nahi bataya. Kya use apne pyaar ko khone ka darr nahi hota. what if sach jaankar family ne rishta tod diya hota. he would go against his family but Anandi aise kabhi nahi hone deti. kasam vasam ka chakkar padta and he would lose his love

Usne kabhi socha nahi hoga ki aise kabhi baat khul sakti hai. behchaara apni family ko underestimate kiya. he said his family would laugh like he laughed about Dsa UD convo sab ulta ho gaya

Saachi ke saath jo kiya wo sahi kiya. aaj tak wo saachi ko bacchi samajhkar chodta aaya hai Anandi had told him let me handle her. baat nanad bhabhi ki chik chik ki thi so he said nothing but wo ab kaan bhar bhar ke problem create kar rahi hai. Wo leg par nishaan wali baat bhi usi ne Ira se ki thi wo Shiv ko pata hai.

Oh he will rip her apart jab use pata chalega ki wo Jagdeesh ko mahaan aur Anandi ko cause root of all problems samajhti hai

Kabhi kabhi toh mann karta hai ki Saachi and Jagya should happen but nahi yaar i have started liking Jagya because of Ganga and Mannu Singhs ko bhi itni badi saza nahi milni chaiye

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