Should we hit our kids?

Should we?😕

I understand that raising a kid is not an easy job(now i get it very clear)and I believe that every parent wants to raise their kids in a proper way.

As a parent I know that there are some effective punishment beside hitting a kid, though sometimes when everything seems not to work proper,hitting my son is my next option...

here are my few question:

1- what actually is supposed to be done when a kid misbaheve? at the point that he can get the message that what he has done is completely wrong and at the same time not to affect his feeling towards the parents.

2-Shall we punish our kids when they misbahave by hitting them? After all these types of punishment are rarely acceptable nowadays..But at the same time,our grand parents used the same method to discipline our parents.

3-Punishment,is a part of any childs development......How much you agree with this.

Looking forward to read your views,comments and arguments!😆......And I will really appreciate if I get any tips of punishment from you guys,Im lack of..😕...By the way,why are these kids are so stubborn nowadays?😕

Than You.....

Fatmah.

Well this topoic has been posted before. So as I said before...it is not necessary to hit kids. Or lese they'll just become immune to it and rebel....

I cannot post my views here, because I don't have any kids. An occasional spank is sometimes required, but nothing more than that. Discipline may be achieved by other ways.

Everyone says All children are unique in their own way, then how come handling children has to be uniform?

Spare the rod, spoil the child

Its wil lbe better if we discuss hat should we hit kids?? coz some times other kids will do some thing we may hit and if the same thing is done by our kid he just give a look. or vice versa...

it depends upon situation to situation. A mother plays a important role. she has to play many roles with kids such as friend, teacher, mother etc.. so some times she has to be strict.

Hitting your child is not the best way to make him/her realize his/her mistake and ensure that it will not be done in the future.

According to me, the best way is a punishment if they do a blunder. The punishment could be anything from grounding your child for a week to not giving him/her what he/she demands.

But if the parent just wants their child to realize his/her mistake, I think the best way is to sit down and discuss it. This way it clears all the matters and takes away any doubts from the parent as well as the child's mind.

Cheers,

Anjali

I think Parents shouldnt hit their kids because the kid will jus wanna take revenge from that hit n misbehave even more.
Any1 agree? 😊

No!!! Its a big crime by hitting childrens!!!

I aint a mother, but still i think its a big crime by hitting us! CHILDRENS!!!😳

Take Care

Anoli

xxx

um... this topic has already been posted by me a while ago...