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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: loveuratidi


for example in our country if a general (unreserved) woman marries to a schedule cast(reserve )category man,she never get those facilities '. '.

but her son or daughter gets all reservation facilities.am i correct??

on the other side

if sc or st girl marries general [unresrved ] men --then her son or daughter dose not get reservation facilities. is this also correct or not??

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Posted: 12 years ago
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loveuratidi

I am shock and very surprised to read your response . You think that others are insulting you but you have cross every limit of insulting most every one who participated in discussion. If you did not want any one to answer your post and only you should have made a point stating this is only for CV to read it because it worked in the past but you choose not to write it . When you write such controversial topic you should expect controversial responses and you need to deal with it other wise you should think twice before making the thread .

,you are taking about maturity of others? Improvement starts at home. If you insult some one,Others will insult you. you treat others the way you want to be treated . Otherwise get ready for " what goes around come around " or Karago waise bharoge "

I did not share my love story with you. You are the last person of the forum that will get to know it . You are the one who posted that question first and asked me" if my husband would change his last name " I said yes it's already happened and gave you example. There are men and women in the world who do not give a damn about what name they go by. It does not change anything or no one looses respect , because they have self confidence and self respect !!

People do share their stories to make points. Some people do not care to beat around bushes and take support from philosophical explanation to prove points. In my life I have seen a lot . I do like to and want to share my experience because I have learnt a lot from them. So do not insult me any way of dealing with the issues. It's my freedom of speech and I love to exercise it the way I want and choose.

You just wrote that you are a shy person and you are atheist .is that personal statement or not ? BTW writing about your upbringing is also your personal story . They do have word for this .

Now I rest my case. It's very easy to insult every one when you do not agree with their view points but it takes a very mature person to respect others who does not agree with you !

Thanks for reading and repeating my love story !!


Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: loveuratidi

Sorry I cant read all these reply...really I don't have enough time to read these all''..

But I write this comment on the basis of some'whom i talked earlier

1st for Saumya'.u compared me as Rishi coz I said sorry''..hahaha wat a joke''.wat can I say... again its 4my upbringing nd education .. Whoever comes to me nd said that I hurt him/her. i said sorry in no time..even if he or she is my biggest enemy'.

Nyway forget it guys coz u never understand'.even m astonished to see such narrow minded nd restricted thinking people'.nd this topic is not abt u guys..i dnt write plz come nd share ur view.nd if u liked it ,pressed like button''but still u people come nd made lots of chaos.obviously u can come here its not my private property'but at least I hope dat u may have some self respect but again u proved me wrong'coz u don't learn to respect urself''u brought ur personal/private life infront of public in no time just to prove ur point'like how ur husband proposed u ,how ur husband loved u so on..u dnt knw how to value or respect ur private life.so I never expect from u guys dat u can understand my point'..

I don't have any responsibility either'. coz its already enacted as a law regarding surname nd slap issue wat I hv said earlier..u dnt knw its not my prob''I give lots of gyaans in free of cost in past'''so dat CVS may aware'.for u I gv another GYAN...if taking surname of ur husband mean u r included in his family very sorry to say the law of our country doesnt even think likewise'''for example in our country if a general (unreserved) woman marries to a schedule cast(reserve )category man,she never get those facilities '. '.coz our law never permit to loose nybody's identity.. many example r there.i mean valid example not celebrity check''.

Nd about my user name & dp again a suggestion don't b judgmental when u dnt knw d opposite side'dis site is all abt celebrity...its not like Facebook or Twitter dat u can share ur personal life...i dnt bring ny celeb to prove my point again u guys started dis...nd now u hv no logic to cross examine me...dats why again u beat around bush...nd about celebrity in my profession I meet lots of celebrities I mean they came to us''.b4 come they took appointment'Farhaan Akhtar,Dhoni many r there..we r dying to take pix wid them'.but we cant .coz our professional ethics restrict us'they r very small the chief justice of india Kabir sir(Altamas Kabir) personally knw me'Now who is CJI nd wat position he might hold, for this u should googled it...if I want I can meet Rati Pandey by using my position but I never do this I hv some professional burden''..so I live in celebrity hahhaha''.they r ordinary for me just like u guys'

I m really very shy person.😆.i dnt like ny limelight or it embarrassed me when I see people give me so much attention'..over 2000 views omg even when I told dat I dnt want ny comments..nd really I agree wid u guys its really an entertaining topic'I would like to thnx heema for sharing her precious love story,for walden how u try to put some sensible comments'..i really appreciate ur try-ness'keep trying... (practice makes a man perfect)'.nd saumya how u chanting JAI MAATA DI'...but u knw wat it doesn't affect me...m an atheist'..i dnt believe in God'..but I learn how to respect others emotion''when i knw dat some fellow members was affected by dis...wat can i say its again my upbringing nd education...


P.S : I never gonna reply u further...coz u guys are here for making chaos..may be India Forum paid u for this...dats ur world...so small nd tiny...so next time if u wanna argue wid me make sure u hv some logical sense...plz raise ur standard ...

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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
You said that you haven't read the all response but I am so glad that you read mine.
Actually because of poor grammar used, I have been having a hard time understanding your post but never mind, as you said IF is paying me for it so I can at least do that . I wishI could have answers for my questions but alas! All I get is statements blaming others. I wish you could tell me why you did things but what I get is your rant about Heema di ki love life ki story. While you are addressing me, I would want to hear about my questions and answers and not Heema di's but then, there are rules to debate that have been neglected here. I will try to go line by line.
, who said they were hurt, I didn't come across any such post.
About narrow mindedness, I asked you a question which went unanswered, " why aren't you ready to live in a society with equal rights, why do you want privileges for girls? Why Indira shouldn't be pushed behind bars for the same slapping issue" I know you won't answer, there has to be an answer to be mouthed.
You are sharing your personal life, telling us you meet actors and blabla, believe me we are not interested. Look at the kind of celebrities Walden was talking about.. Kiran Bedi, Hillary Clinton, Michelle Obama and look at your examples... Angelina Jolie, Victoria Beckham and other movie celebs.
About surname and legal issues, no one ever said that its for legal integrity.. Its for social integrity is all they said.
OMG, you even look at no of views and judge your publicity... What do I say, is a pity.
If you wanted CVs to read this and that your profession is so much related to the entertainment world, you must know that leaving an email for them will be better than this.
googling seems to your hobby so just google the phrase" beating around the bush" , (you have been using it quite often ) so that you know who is beating around the bush. I will give you an example to make it clearer for you, I asked you a lot of questions but instead of answering them you choose to lecture us (why am I not surprised? Oh, you are Indira fan) that's called beating around the bush. Lesson learned?
If you could see, we had made logical arguments which were welcomed with statements like "you are responsible for all this" and no logical argument in turn. I wish that next time you think you are making a logical argument, you know what it means.

Edited by _saumya_ - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And even though I shouldn't be interfering in what you have to say about Heema di , but that you got her in or conversation by mentioning her when I was talking to you , so I would add something.

even though she is free to say whatever she has to about her personal life but for once, if I assume she shouldn't have, she is at least talking about her personal life and not meddling with your personal life. You were the one to raise opinions about personal lives of others.

and I don't see why should you be telling us about your religious beliefs when no one said anything about it. To proud to be an atheist, eh? Beliefs are more personal than moments, why share them then.

Very sorry to say, my first opinion about the post was wrong that we would have some logical discussion here.

Another reality check: no one seems to agree with you, not even your friends, may be you should give a thought to "you were not polite to our rational comments" you started pin pointing people when all they did was politely present their views.

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