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Posted: 12 years ago
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Regarding using husband's name...My mom was a tyagi and she is a tyagi after marriage as well and she uses tyagi too...😊...And regarding using husband's name...it's because you are considered with the family i feel...a part of the family...as in india brides leave their home and spend the rest of their life in groom home...so they use the cast of their family...cast helps to recognize...like there is a shop at the corner of road...and if someone newly married had come...and tells the name with cast...people recognize from which family she belongs...and this is just an example...at many places this happens...nothing more than that . Cast is meant for that purpose only .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PD-


@bold HD characters mein yaa saab kab guest appearance kiya hain 😲 did i miss any episode where these are invited 😳

No Preethi di, you have not missed out anything 😳 but that was the discussion going on if you have not noticed 😊and just commented out of context
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

😃 That was just to say that she is not so different that everyone claims. She is just a normal human being and she should be judged that way. Like a lot of other woman on earth , she too wants to have her husband's name attached to her name. She should not be expected to be mahan.

If after watching this show from last 1.5 years ...you feel she is no different ...than i have nothing to say . The character was different and thus di accepted it on the first place...no normal girl takes the responsibility of the house at such a small age...when she has elders there ...and all those girls who are bread earners of their family from such a small age...and why just girls...even boys are extraordinary...they have given up their dreams for the family needs . And that's a big thing . Its easy to say that any normal one will do that but its difficult to do that in reality . Very less people do that in real world...log toh aajkal bade hokar bhi apne parents ko nahi samhalte...she is doing it from 16 . Destroying her little little wishes to fulfill her family members little little needs .
Edited by Surbhi123 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Firstly I never mention Hilari Clinton ,Mrs Obama..its one of ur learned frnd gives some examples'AND I ADDED ONE more name Victoria''But I never knw''actually I hv a confusion whether u guys are really childish...''u live in celebrity and die in celebrity...o come on yaar''.look at the rest of the worldthere are over 112 cores people in India '.And u r adopted a concept on the basis of some celebrities'and Mr 100 Raj for ur kind information Indira Gandhi's Husband's family name is not Gandhi'actually they r Muslims..They actually adopt this surname for some political issues'..go and googled it,in which u r famous for''

@heema,walden ,Raj & rest '

Ok now m talking abt celebs '..so that u can understand..In India not only in India in the whole world celebs r become product;'''.they sell everything in their life'..their lives turn into public'whatever they do they do it for publicity'.they changed their surname coz they want it as a news'''..so many celeb changes their surnames...on the other hand so many not'...like Angelina Jolie she married two times now living wid Brad Pitt...like Kiran Rao, wife of Amir khan doesn't change her surname..coz Mr Perfectionist here also acts like perfectionist.. in one interview he said that He love Kiran Rao not Kiran khan..Its a one kinda publicity to let us knw that his mentality is so high...SRK smokes publicly sorry to say people like u guys then think dat If we smoke we r too become like SRK..wat say...celebs are always right according to u guysthen Salman Khan also right when he drunk nd drive nd killed some innocent people,..start keeping illegal arms in ur home as soon as possible coz Sanjay dutt did this'''.celebs are always right'😆..u guys forget to mention one Celeb''d famous mrs. Rai Bachhan''before married to Abhishek she married a tree'.so according to u that's a custom right'.

@heema

m very glad to know that u respect nd love ur husband that's why u adopt his surname'.so wat do u mean dat ur husband does not love u or respect u.else he also adopt ur surname according to u'..isnt it?dont underestimate d very "term" love'.love doesn't mean dat u hv to change'.

Nd U Guys think dat before president,,,,,,, Barack Obame is just an ordinary person.its seems like one fine morning people Of America decide lets there Barack be president..nd there is Barack d President'''then nothing to say'.

& my point was not dat Why Indira Changes Her Surname''.my point is dat CVS don't knw dat its not a burden for a woman'though they claimed dat they spreads some social issues..If it's a token of love then why they use Zara Malik Khan.Coz Zara never loved her husband'..

ND my issues are not only dat...i hv many issues..but u overlooked all nd stick only this one...i guess its easy to argue wid this matter 4 u guys...nd rest of other issues i think its quite natural for u people...

@PD thnx for commenting over here.😃'

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Posted: 12 years ago
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1ST u show dat Indira is a strong headed woman,a protester of every wrong deeds ...on other hand she kept quiet when her husband slapped her...do u knw this is a criminal offense. .i think u are unaware of this fact,if not,then plz dont show dat Indira is a symbol of power ,or durga Kaali whatever.stop making mockery of women power.


Yes Indira is a Strong Headed Women who protest every wrong Deed!
This Quality of hers is not any way put down whn she kept Quite whn her Husband slapped her.
Wht ever scenes had been shown soo far where Indira was Quite Whn Rishi slapped her was coz she Understood his condition, his anger coz of which he slapped her. There is No point fighting back or hurting back a person who reacted that way coz of some anger raised out of Pain. Be it the recent infront of media or alone whn he thought Indira aborted their child. He slapped her in anger as he was hurt and worried and thought her to be the reason for it. Indira acted sensibly enough not to slap him back to say some verbal venoms as he does in anger. U can see tht she is Strong enough to not Fight back Foolishly in anger to say wht all comes in Mind at tht time. BTW Am not at all supporting Rishi's slaps here!

And yes...Indira is a Symbol of Power / Durga!
But it comes whn its against Evil, when she has to fight against Bad.
This roop of her's is only against the Villans - Dulari bua, kukreja, rajrani etc etc
But not against her family members, To whom she has different way of handling
and with Rishi...she knws tht he does these things whn in anger but later comes for sorry lol


2ndly one fine evening they (indira & rishi) want a kid...ok fine lets start making love...when there is no emotional bonding,no love (plz dont called it love to disrespect the very term)...no understanding..more over when they both dont have any job...no future planning...when their only kid is spoiled like hell...and d logic behind it ridiculous.



It has been Foolishly shown that both Inshi agreed to this advice given by the immature Sharma family. In the present situation, Wht Indu needs is Parents attention, love and care and not some company of another child. Its super idiotic of ppl to think tht Indu is like this coz of loneliness of being a single child. Inshi arent staying awy separate whr Indu would feel alone. Here Seher was with her right frm Birth. So this advice was Silly and Inshi agreeing and considering it was even more Silly. Cant they see whts Indu's condition to go for 2nd child. How can they be soo insensitive in this matter and get excited for 2nd child. Would Indira be able to give time & take care of Indu properly if she becomes pregnant. The amt of time & love Indu needs. And i do agree...right frm Indira's come back we had hardly seen any emotional bonding between Inshi or anyother relation for that matter. Understanding Inshi used to have before lacks a big time now! The recent track shows how poor was their understanding and trust. I felt it really Silly that Cv's prefer to choose to Jump to romance without any emotional talks betw Inshi abt their previous 8 yrs or anything of tht sort right frm Indira's comeback. Regd Financial matter too :( Inshi needs to 1st concentrate on indu, thn get proper job for themselves and later think abt another child.


Regd Usage of Indira Rishi kumar
yaar...she uses it casually like any other women calls herself aft marriage
its the same way she used to call herself Indira sharma before marriage
now she calls herself Indira rishi kumar after marriage. It has nothing else to it
its not a compulsion or is she doing it under any force or something nor under Burden. And Cv's arent making any point here LOL. its just plain simple as used in other shows too.
Edited by Angels_Sweetz - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: Angels_Sweetz

1ST u show dat Indira is a strong headed woman,a protester of every wrong deeds ...on other hand she kept quiet when her husband slapped her...do u knw this is a criminal offense. .i think u are unaware of this fact,if not,then plz dont show dat Indira is a symbol of power ,or durga Kaali whatever.stop making mockery of women power.


Yes Indira is a Strong Headed Women who protest every wrong Deed!
This Quality of hers is not any way put down whn she kept Quite whn her Husband slapped her.
Wht ever scenes had been shown soo far where Indira was Quite Whn Rishi slapped her was coz she Understood his condition, his anger coz of which he slapped her. There is No point fighting back or hurting back a person who reacted that way coz of some anger raised out of Pain. Be it the recent infront of media or alone whn he thought Indira aborted their child. He slapped her in anger as he was hurt and worried and thought her to be the reason for it. Indira acted sensibly enough not to slap him back to say some verbal venoms as he does in anger. U can see tht she is Strong enough to not Fight back Foolishly in anger to say wht all comes in Mind at tht time. BTW Am not at all supporting Rishi's slaps here!

And yes...Indira is a Symbol of Power / Durga!
But it comes whn its against Evil, when she has to fight against Bad.
This roop of her's is only against the Villans - Dulari bua, kukreja, rajrani etc etc
But not against her family members, To whom she has different way of handling
and with Rishi...she knws tht he does these things whn in anger but later comes for sorry lol


2ndly one fine evening they (indira & rishi) want a kid...ok fine lets start making love...when there is no emotional bonding,no love (plz dont called it love to disrespect the very term)...no understanding..more over when they both dont have any job...no future planning...when their only kid is spoiled like hell...and d logic behind it ridiculous.



It has been Foolishly shown that both Inshi agreed to this advice given by the immature Sharma family. In the present situation, Wht Indu needs is Parents attention, love and care and not some company of another child. Its super idiotic of ppl to think tht Indu is like this coz of loneliness of being a single child. Inshi arent staying awy separate whr Indu would feel alone. Here Seher was with her right frm Birth. So this advice was Silly and Inshi agreeing and considering it was even more Silly. Cant they see whts Indu's condition to go for 2nd child. How can they be soo insensitive in this matter and get excited for 2nd child. Would Indira be able to give time & take care of Indu properly if she becomes pregnant. The amt of time & love Indu needs. And i do agree...right frm Indira's come back we had hardly seen any emotional bonding between Inshi or anyother relation for that matter. Understanding Inshi used to have before lacks a big time now! The recent track shows how poor was their understanding and trust. I felt it really Silly that Cv's prefer to choose to Jump to romance without any emotional talks betw Inshi abt their previous 8 yrs or anything of tht sort right frm Indira's comeback. Regd Financial matter too :( Inshi needs to 1st concentrate on indu, thn get proper job for themselves and later think abt another child.


Regd Usage of Indira Rishi kumar
yaar...she uses it casually like any other women calls herself aft marriage
its the same way she used to call herself Indira sharma before marriage
now she calls herself Indira rishi kumar after marriage. It has nothing else to it
its not a compulsion or is she doing it under any force or something
Do u remember her proporsal...whn rishi asks kya banna kya chahti aap
she says..."Mrs Rishi kumar" :p Its just marital status. and nothing else LOL




Hey Nikhila i can argue wid u ..but i dont...bcoz here i hv a compulsion...😆...by chance , by choice or by mistake watever u prefer m become ur frnd...😉...so i cant fight wid frnds...i never do this...😳...dats not my style...i respect ur point of view though its slightly different from mine...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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acha...lets not argue or fight...but tell me Wht it is :P

See yaar...both of us are Indira fans and both would get disappointed if she is portrayed something else or in a wrong way thn shown earlier. But here in this post...i feel the points u are saying to have disappointed u...i dont feel thm tht wrong. As the case of being quiet whn slapped. Wouldnt it be Wrong if Indira Slaps him back at tht point or shouts bck at him. It would have been insensible and immature if she fights bck like tht. And Its the Quality of the Strong to understand ones reactions/actions/situation and forgive.

Another Surname issue that u are bringing up. I dont understand why do u think Cv's are showing it to give some social msg here to enforce rule/burden tht one shd hv husbands surname aft marriage. Its completely personal choice of an Individual and it has nothing to do with putting down ones respect or to give Husband more respect lowering ones own. Its just something which society follows a womens surname changes after marriage...compulsion/rules doesnt act here. Women change or do not change as they like. I dont find any difference in the way Indira used to call herself "Indira sharma" earlier and "Indira Rishi kumar" now. Woh jithne garv se apna naam pehle lethi thi...aaj bhi uthne hi garva se lethi hai. And its coz of her personal self, the surname is just added as she is married now. Thts it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@supriya - u r most welcome 🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I never expected this much entertainment in this topic. Thanks to the TM- aapki wajah se hamara itna entertainment ho gaya. 😆 Anyway, nice to know that because I don't have Rati's name or photo in my id, you will go to great lengths to disagree with me and others (and call us childish 😲) (even though our original responses agreed with most of what you said) 😆😆

Anyway, the topic has reached its appropriate conclusion, East or West, Indira is the best 🤣 Its nice to know though ke main chahe uske bare mein kuch bhi keh loon, Indira the great soul will always forgive me 🤣 Jai mata di!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Walden

I never expected this much entertainment in this topic. Thanks to the TM- aapki wajah se hamara itna entertainment ho gaya. 😆 Anyway, nice to know that because I don't have Rati's name or photo in my id, you will go to great lengths to disagree with me and others (and call us childish 😲) (even though our original responses agreed with most of what you said) 😆😆

Anyway, the topic has reached its appropriate conclusion, East or West, Indira is the best 🤣 Its nice to know though ke main chahe uske bare mein kuch bhi keh loon, Indira the great soul will always forgive me 🤣 Jai mata di!!!

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🤗
Edited by light_28 - 12 years ago

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