Well then a little POV from my side too won't hurt anyone.
Swayam was the one who have taken Tani's side quiet much and even Sharon did a lot, may be more than Swayam or anyone and Rey was the one who was always rude to her.
People are saying that they hate Sharon for spoiling the secret that Rey and Tani were in relationship. I mean seriously how can that be? Even she didn't knew, she was just trying to remember that who's number was that in Tani cell phone and she busted out Rey because anyone could have been shocked if she/he will come to know that it was REY.
And when Swayam and Rey were in college that night she was the one who supported Tani and to bachaofy her from Swayam and the anger he will have soon, she send her home. Usse kya pari thi? Bethti apne ghar main aur tamasha dekhti but NO, she helped them all.
When Rey said that "If Swayam don't like so there won't be any relationship between him and Tani" so she was the first one to freak out and said that What are you saying Rey. That means she was worried because she do care for Tani.
And coming to the point that Swayam has always taken Sharon side and never understood Tani then let me remind all TR here that what Swayam said to Sharon that night in college. "Tumhe laga ke main Swayam se pyaar se baat karungi tu woh maan jayega. Then NO, it's about Tani. Meri behen ke barai main hai yeh" this mean he doesn't love his sister or doesn't care about her. He does, that is why he is a possessive bhai, agar usse Tani se pyaar na hota ya uski fikar na hoti tu woh ek baar bhi gussa na hota T and R ki relationship ka sun kai aur na hi react karta. It shows he do loves Tani. Sharon was the one who always consoled Tani and encouraged her to stand for herself when even Rey insulted her and said that she should not be the part of group discussion as she is Shivan's gf and then Sharon scolded both Rey and Swayam and ran to her. She didn't showed symphathy to her but told her to be strong and that is who OUR Sharon is. She encouraged her when she gave her first idea in taking audition for 6th dancer after when she has left the position of sixth dancer which she got with a drama. I still remember she said " Not bad, AGS ke pehle din hi itni improvement. Keep it up!" She does respect Tani and even care for her. I know Sharon was a bit rude to her in first few eipsodes but after that she was one who was most encouraging and supporting to her.
Coming to Swayam, he was the one who used to hug and console her small and innocent sister (Innocent! She was back then. And innocense means inner-ly beautiful which i can't say her now unfortunately) when her present bf Rey used to insult her or used to hurt her. It was Rey who used to ignore and take her for granted not the gang or SS. I know gang doesn't interacted to her much but they never shooed her too. I felt very bad when they did that Tani bycott and even in that before Swayam, Sharon was the one who encouraged her and talked to her and usse samjhaya and uska saath dia. She never meant anything bad for Tani, what she always did was good to her.
Even during the Shivam-Tani track, lots of time there was shown that whole group tried to make sure Shivam doesn't hurt Tani as she is so innocent and they know he can hurt her. They CARED. They never wanted anything bad to happen her. I still felt bad when Bharat mocked her in rehearsal how when she asked to show her their routine but to be very frankly the way she asked in, agar main hoti tu main bhi yehi karti, If she was 10000000000% pin pointing at Sharon, and even Sharon and everyone noticed that Sharon still didn't say anything. She was quite, chahti tu kaafi buri tarha se Tani ki insult kar sakhti thi.
And last that agar Swayam aur Sharon dono Tani ki care nahi karte ya usse pyaar nahi karte tu Swayam kabhi bhi Sharon se Tani ke liye baat nahi karta. He said that she is feeling hyper aur apne app ko adjust karna chahti hai so give her benefit of doubt and Sharon happily said that's she understands.
But agar understand karne ke next din hi apko ussi insaan se itna bura behave miley tu then what will you do? Sharon still didn't said anything and left the place. Gosh!
I can say ke Tani at few point is right. VERY FEW. But that doesn't mean ke woh itne ajeeb se behave kare.
I said Tani felt right for FEW point but i didn't see any mistake right now in GANG?SWAYAM/SHARON or in REY! Tani needs to stand for herself but kisi ko gira ke, kisi se batameezi karke, kisi ki insult karke, kisi ke dil dhuka ke woh bhi us bhai ke jisne hamesha apni behen ke liye socha hai. Then i guess she is not standing but making other fall by pushing them and this definitely isn't what Tani was and definitely Tani is very immature and childish.
P-S : This is totally my point of view and i know no TR fan will agree to it but believe me i have not done any bashing against Tani here but i have just shown some white sheets that what exactly Tani is doing to prove herself. Prove, but not on someones dignity or respect.
-Marium