Originally posted by: -Marium-
I have seen many post in which i saw people or rather TR fans saying that Swayam always took Sharon side and Gang always insulted Tani and Sharon is b*t*h and Sharon was the one who spilled Rey and Tani's relationship secret in front of anyone and she always was bad with Tani and blah blah blah..
I dont know about others but Swayam yelled at Taani yesterday NOT because of sharon but because of her behavior, I love Swayam's character after TR and find him the most sensible one, I was scared too that he may yell at Taani because of Sharon but he dint
Well then a little POV from my side too won't hurt anyone.
Swayam was the one who have taken Tani's side quiet much and even Sharon did a lot, may be more than Swayam or anyone and Rey was the one who was always rude to her.
Swayam agree have supported Taani and even told sharon to give her a benefit of doubt
People are saying that they hate Sharon for spoiling the secret that Rey and Tani were in relationship. I mean seriously how can that be? Even she didn't knew, she was just trying to remember that who's number was that in Tani cell phone and she busted out Rey because anyone could have been shocked if she/he will come to know that it was REY.Ok erm here I disagree, agreed she bursted out, but it was a mistake either, she dint do it on purpose but yeah she did it! :|
so I wont say she is not at fault..!!
And when Swayam and Rey were in college that night she was the one who supported Tani and to bachaofy her from Swayam and the anger he will have soon, she send her home. Usse kya pari thi? Bethti apne ghar main aur tamasha dekhti but NO, she helped them all.
Agree or not she is concerned fr Swayam more, obvio if he is annoyed on Taani and Rey, she will be worried and get affected, plus she was the one who bursted out the secret so obvio she will be involved in it, and not to forget she is a lead, cv's cant show her selfish sitting at home doing manicure and pedicure.
When Rey said that "If Swayam don't like so there won't be any relationship between him and Tani" so she was the first one to freak out and said that What are you saying Rey. That means she was worried because she do care for Tani.Ok I do agree to it, she dint want to spoil ReYam friendship, neither wants to see her bff to be in pain
And coming to the point that Swayam has always taken Sharon side and never understood Tani then let me remind all TR here that what Swayam said to Sharon that night in college. "Tumhe laga ke main Swayam se pyaar se baat karungi tu woh maan jayega. Then NO, it's about Tani. Meri behen ke barai main hai yeh" this mean he doesn't love his sister or doesn't care about her. He does, that is why he is a possessive bhai, agar usse Tani se pyaar na hota ya uski fikar na hoti tu woh ek baar bhi gussa na hota T and R ki relationship ka sun kai aur na hi react karta. It shows he do loves Tani. Sharon was the one who always consoled Tani and encouraged her to stand for herself when even Rey insulted her and said that she should not be the part of group discussion as she is Shivan's gf and then Sharon scolded both Rey and Swayam and ran to her. She didn't showed symphathy to her but told her to be strong and that is who OUR Sharon is. She encouraged her when she gave her first idea in taking audition for 6th dancer after when she has left the position of sixth dancer which she got with a drama. I still remember she said " Not bad, AGS ke pehle din hi itni improvement. Keep it up!" She does respect Tani and even care for her. I know Sharon was a bit rude to her in first few eipsodes but after that she was one who was most encouraging and supporting to her. Yes she did and Swayam has supported her(sometimes he dint too) like when everyone was laghing in RH room, he even yelled at Taani in a way..if my brother would have done such thing..I would have make sure, he clearly gets to know about it, I wont deny the fact that he has supported Taani, had an argument wid sharon (mitwa sequence time) pink valley issue, so yeah he has done his part too..
Coming to Swayam, he was the one who used to hug and console her small and innocent sister (Innocent! She was back then. And innocense means inner-ly beautiful which i can't say her now unfortunately) when her present bf Rey used to insult her or used to hurt her. It was Rey who used to ignore and take her for granted not the gang or SS. I know gang doesn't interacted to her much but they never shooed her too. I felt very bad when they did that Tani bycott and even in that before Swayam, Sharon was the one who encouraged her and talked to her and usse samjhaya and uska saath dia. She never meant anything bad for Tani, what she always did was good to her. Ok Gang has ALWAYS ignored her!Period!
its just that she never bothered back den but now she is seeing it clearly, she is not innocent now, her character is changing, innocence means naive( Showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgment, who can easily be manipulated) she is not Innocent now. Well cant deny more that Sharon has supported Taani when none supported her, and neither I think Sharon is wrong today even, though she did one mistake of forgetting things but I guess it's normal.
Even during the Shivam-Tani track, lots of time there was shown that whole group tried to make sure Shivam doesn't hurt Tani as she is so innocent and they know he can hurt her. They CARED. They never wanted anything bad to happen her. I still felt bad when Bharat mocked her in rehearsal how when she asked to show her their routine but to be very frankly the way she asked in, agar main hoti tu main bhi yehi karti, If she was 10000000000% pin pointing at Sharon, and even Sharon and everyone noticed that Sharon still didn't say anything. She was quite, chahti tu kaafi buri tarha se Tani ki insult kar sakhti thi.Gang never said anything about Shivam and Taani things, they were like Taani ne jo past mein kia hai uski saza mil rai hai shivam jaise ladke ko date karke(correct me if m forgetting any scene) And I agree her reaction was rude but i would never ever have mocked someone, I would have told her what Sharon has told her and trust me when m sayin his, and Yes she could have done that, she could have insulted that but i guess Taani is not meek as well now, so it would have been a clash of the Titans scenario 😆
And last that agar Swayam aur Sharon dono Tani ki care nahi karte ya usse pyaar nahi karte tu Swayam kabhi bhi Sharon se Tani ke liye baat nahi karta. He said that she is feeling hyper aur apne app ko adjust karna chahti hai so give her benefit of doubt and Sharon happily said that's she understands. Ok one thing annoyed me out here which u even forgt :P
Sharon and Swayam says she is choti, I mean dude she is just a year younger to yoll..!! -_-
why are you calling her choti? just coz she is a yr yngr dsnt means der will be a change in mindset and thinking, I have friends over here who are just 16 and they act more maturely then 23 yrs old ppl out here
But agar understand karne ke next din hi apko ussi insaan se itna bura behave miley tu then what will you do? Sharon still didn't said anything and left the place. Gosh! cv's are surely making her calm right now warna it will be again world war 3 -_-
and it can majorly affect Ss and Tr relation..!!
I can say ke Tani at few point is right. VERY FEW. But that doesn't mean ke woh itne ajeeb se behave kare.She has her own reasons, it is we who know what's going in her mind, she is becoming defensive and when it happens you do hurt people you love around yourslf *experience* and that is what exactly she is doing Hurting Swayam..!!
she never ever had problems with Sharon, infact she always liked her, but now as people mocked. compared her again and again she is having inferiority complex which is turning into insecurity(which she is not aware of)
I said Tani felt right for FEW point but i didn't see any mistake right now in GANG?SWAYAM/SHARON or in REY! Tani needs to stand for herself but kisi ko gira ke, kisi se batameezi karke, kisi ki insult karke, kisi ke dil dhuka ke woh bhi us bhai ke jisne hamesha apni behen ke liye socha hai. Then i guess she is not standing but making other fall by pushing them and this definitely isn't what Tani was and definitely Tani is very immature and childish.
Like I said when u feel vulnerable, left out and get defensive you do hurt ppl aroubd you, and she has hurt her brother, and GanG did many things back then and now, its just that Taani never noticed then and is seeing now, somethings she did took wrong because in such state of mind you become negative and turn pessimist and try to see only negative things ignoring the other side of the coin, the positive side so calling her immature just because she is hurt and reacting in a different manner is not childish..this is a human tendency to do that..!! Immaturity is a synonym of emotional stability which is missing in her for sometime right now because she is overwhelmed by such things happening around her, emotionally charged and hurt
P-S : This is totally my point of view and i know no TR fan will agree to it but believe me i have not done any bashing against Tani here but i have just shown some white sheets that what exactly Tani is doing to prove herself. Prove, but not on someones dignity or respect.
You haven't done bashing at all..and i guess we are somewhat sailing in a same boat regarding Taani and Sharon..my reaction towards sharon/vru is always an outcome of retaliation and i suppose yours too..Taani is somewhat imposing her powers on others and rubbing her position and orders which is wrong but nobody except we who knows her state of mind as of now and the reason behind her behavior
-Marium