Re: Shiv - why so unreal - Page 3

One thing is every one has their own views and how the track is going everything is fine provided if they don't say BV is a message oriented serial when ever needed.

Otherwise a family drama where hero shiv and heroine Aanadi are good people and Mahan and forgive and live for the welfare of the society. Good time pass family drama to watch.

Originally posted by: jhansijhansi

See it is very easy to say what ever Anandi did is right...

I am not here to say that Jagiya is right, why cannot she forget the happy days with jagiya when shiv was near her...Jagiya has always been mean and now by disturbing Anandi he has proved that he will never change he could have waited till morning and then come to Ananid, but he didn't...it is not me who is saying Jagiya badal gaya hai it is Anandi who is thinking that Jagiya has changed here...my point is not that Jagiya is right it is when will Anandi get rid of Jagiya she had a good chance to let Jagiya know that she has nothing to do with his decisions now and he needs to inform his family and not to her and her husband.

I know she is not the one who said Jagiya to go and see Gauri, just like how Jagiya don't have any right to knock Aanandi's door and give her the responsibility convince singh's in the same way Anandi should know that she don't have any right to take the responsibility of letting singhs know about Jagiya, she need to break up this relation and here i am not saying with Singhs, but anything related to Jagiya and Singhs otherwise the relation between Singhs Anandi Jagiya will never break and Jagiya would continue to take the advantage. See will anyone take responsibility of a someone after knowing his past if he come and tell only you that he is leaving home without telling his family and please let them know that i left home.


And i am not saying Anandi does not deserve to be happy we have waited almost 2 years to see anandi to be happy and Jagiya suffering, but nothing has happended if you don't know how to make your life happy then they can never be happy and never make their family to be happy

Followed she is sad now because of Jagiya went away and DS is upset and later Gauri might slap Jagiya and J might return sad and this mahan couple try to convince Jagiya, Anandi feel bad for Jagiya as DS and whole family are sad.

Same old story coming again DS blaming Anandi again for Jagiya's mistakes and same track coming, when will anandi come out of this emotional black mail and be happy.

Right, anandi thoda smart and diplomatic bano, jada din dafar rahogi to u will burn fingers ur whole life. And will never learn ur lesson. Leave Jagya to Ganga she can handle him well.

i dont get it if shiv starts behaving like typical...jealous...possessive...insecure...and autocratic husband will tht make him normal ?
For me wat he is doing now is normal behaviour...thts the type of ppl i hav mostly seen.

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Yesterday, when i was watching AnSh convo in the car, I was once again hooked by shiv's level of understanding. The people with whom Anandi has shared her bachpan could not trust her but this man who knows her only for few months has so much confidence. The way he was explaining CM, he could so easily analyse the situation.
Shiv as a person has been shown to have so much of positive shades- a self made man with a successful career, honest and upright, a soft soul who takes care of everyone, known and unknown and emotional with grief of others, at the same time a kharush collector, and as a husband i do not have any words to analyse.
BV has built up this character as an ideal but unreal. But am surprised to see BVs rationale of showing that he does not get any happiness for himself. His life is getting spoiled for problems of others - particularly her wife's past, her in laws hyper tension, and a his new friend Dr Jagdish and social victims as Ganga. So what is the underlying message BV is trying to give, that being a good soul is inviting trouble so take care of your needs and forget others?

Why are we presuming things here that Shiv is not getting any happiness here. For me he is very lucky as he got a girl who is his friend, who trusts him implicitly, who will be able to understand his dreams and his thirst for development... Yes there is a delay on physical intimacy, but for any mature and understanding man, that is a secondary thing, since they are confident that one day that barrier will also cross. They are willing to give time to a woman if she is not ready.

Yes Shiv is being understanding and helping out in Singhs matters, he does that because for Anandi that is her maayaka. And nowadays in a world where daughters and sons are supposed to be equal, the daughter along with her husband is equally supportive. One of the people I know lives with her husband with her parents and her husband is very supportive, so you will say next that is unreal and he is not getting any happiness.

In fact there is nothing unreal about it and I think it is wonderful that BV is showing that such men exist to pass on a social message that men also need to be understanding, mature and respectful of women for the people in villages and small towns.

Originally posted by: saviani

See it is very easy to say what ever Anandi did is right...

I am not here to say that Jagiya is right, why cannot she forget the happy days with jagiya when shiv was near her...Jagiya has always been mean and now by disturbing Anandi he has proved that he will never change he could have waited till morning and then come to Ananid, but he didn't...it is not me who is saying Jagiya badal gaya hai it is Anandi who is thinking that Jagiya has changed here...my point is not that Jagiya is right it is when will Anandi get rid of Jagiya she had a good chance to let Jagiya know that she has nothing to do with his decisions now and he needs to inform his family and not to her and her husband.

I know she is not the one who said Jagiya to go and see Gauri, just like how Jagiya don't have any right to knock Aanandi's door and give her the responsibility convince singh's in the same way Anandi should know that she don't have any right to take the responsibility of letting singhs know about Jagiya, she need to break up this relation and here i am not saying with Singhs, but anything related to Jagiya and Singhs otherwise the relation between Singhs Anandi Jagiya will never break and Jagiya would continue to take the advantage. See will anyone take responsibility of a someone after knowing his past if he come and tell only you that he is leaving home without telling his family and please let them know that i left home.


And i am not saying Anandi does not deserve to be happy we have waited almost 2 years to see anandi to be happy and Jagiya suffering, but nothing has happended if you don't know how to make your life happy then they can never be happy and never make their family to be happy

Followed she is sad now because of Jagiya went away and DS is upset and later Gauri might slap Jagiya and J might return sad and this mahan couple try to convince Jagiya, Anandi feel bad for Jagiya as DS and whole family are sad.

Same old story coming again DS blaming Anandi again for Jagiya's mistakes and same track coming, when will anandi come out of this emotional black mail and be happy.


She remembered Jagya only at KB and now she is miles away from those thoughts also'' However its memories'.. no one can forget it but need to learn the art of ignoring it, that is what Anandi is doing now' after the KB thoughts as far as I remember she has never thought of Jagya at all'..

This is the message what they are passing to the society when a person who supports Ansh the most can say this then what about normal people.


BV is giving a message no one can forget their past even after what all went in her past life and how bad her ex was and it takes a long time and if you marry a divorcee you and your family has to have lot and lots of patience and should be as mahan as shivs and his family otherwise it is not possible, but for sure she can try to come out of it one sure as Anandi is trying...for sure no divorcee can be as lucky as Anandi where they can find a family and a person like shiv and to be honest there are more worse husbands than Jagiya in the society we have see that when Jagiya did not change he was more worse now at least he is trying to be good and still causing so many problems and so much interference so never dare to marry a divorcee if so think about her ex and his family and girls feelings...In that case, a message to women as well never to marry a divorcee man as well it can be the same.


If we ignore the fact of message then no one has any problem if shiv is happy to see his wife talking to her ex and also everyone will be least bother about his personal life of course life is not just physical relation...There might be men more mahan than shiv in this world who after marrying a divorcee and finding out that she cannot forget her ex and his family and their deep bond of friendship might have made her marry her ex husband rather than interfering in their life, just like what shiv said once to Aanandi before marriage..., but in the society it is rare to find Mahan Men and family members like CM where she thinks about bahu pain about her ex husband and his family pain as her family pain and wants every one like sachi to understand feel bad for them and support them.

Shiv's character has been portrayed as epitome of love & compassion.

I think shiv is a person who finds happiness with what he is given.. He is never ungrateful. On the car ride home from Badi havali, shiv told anandi that he was insecure of jagya before AnSh marriage. I thought that made shivs character more believable for me as it showed that even he has insecurities.

owww i love shiv...ka roll bada hi pyara insaan banaya hai cvs ne. 😳😳