Re: Shiv - why so unreal

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Yesterday, when i was watching AnSh convo in the car, I was once again hooked by shiv's level of understanding. The people with whom Anandi has shared her bachpan could not trust her but this man who knows her only for few months has so much confidence. The way he was explaining CM, he could so easily analyse the situation.
Shiv as a person has been shown to have so much of positive shades- a self made man with a successful career, honest and upright, a soft soul who takes care of everyone, known and unknown and emotional with grief of others, at the same time a kharush collector, and as a husband i do not have any words to analyse.
BV has built up this character as an ideal but unreal. But am surprised to see BVs rationale of showing that he does not get any happiness for himself. His life is getting spoiled for problems of others - particularly her wife's past, her in laws hyper tension, and a his new friend Dr Jagdish and social victims as Ganga. So what is the underlying message BV is trying to give, that being a good soul is inviting trouble so take care of your needs and forget others?

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Yesterday, when i was watching AnSh convo in the car, I was once again hooked by shiv's level of understanding. The people with whom Anandi has shared her bachpan could not trust her but this man who knows her only for few months has so much confidence. The way he was explaining CM, he could so easily analyse the situation.
Shiv as a person has been shown to have so much of positive shades- a self made man with a successful career, honest and upright, a soft soul who takes care of everyone, known and unknown and emotional with grief of others, at the same time a kharush collector, and as a husband i do not have any words to analyse.
BV has built up this character as an ideal but unreal. But am surprised to see BVs rationale of showing that he does not get any happiness for himself. His life is getting spoiled for problems of others - particularly her wife's past, her in laws hyper tension, and a his new friend Dr Jagdish and social victims as Ganga. So what is the underlying message BV is trying to give, that being a good soul is inviting trouble so take care of your needs and forget others?

Originally posted by: jhansijhansi

Nothing is unreal about shiv as the way he is behaving and doing things are done by any man who is madly in Love with a girl...neither Anandi or Shiv are bothered about their parents feelings, at least not as much concerned about Singh's and Jagiya.

I cannot see any difference between past and present relation between An and J except the physical touch in that case she did not have much physical relation with J and not with shiv now. What are BV's showing, why cannot Anandi keep Jagiya away from her life at least singhs have tried to explain Anandi that it is good to stay away from the problems in haveli and at least in Jagiya case when jagiya got missing...Jagiya is stupid to go and disturb Anandi and every one know that jagiya is like that and that is the reason she had to leave him and re marry some one...so my point is why couldn't she tell him see jagiya i am not your wife any more so i am not the responsible person to let you go and you need to inform your parents...who is Anandi to let Jagiya go away without informing his parents when he came to her...i know shiv is good and they are mahan.

What is CV trying to show if you marry a divorcee women then you should be prepare to face problems with her ex-husband and she can never let him go away from her life and she can never have a normal life...everyone were waiting to see Anandi happy life, but they way the story went nothing makes any difference now apart from seeing some colorful romantic scenes...why did anandi suddenly realized that she loved shiv just because CM made her realize in a tricky way when shiv tried in the same way then she did not realize..it looks like Anandi sudden love is to show that jagiya ones again spoils anandi happiness and Ansh are Mahan or .just to show the socity a message that how ex-husbands would interfere in a divorcee wife life...whole BV seems to give a message to society that never marry a divorcee women then you need to be unreal and close your eyes forever and take things positively ..

A women like Anandi can never be happy and can never make her life and family happy she always had a good chance to change her life when she was a little girl except Dadisa everyone supported her bhairov asked her to study she never did that because she just gave respect to DS words not to Bhairov and now when she had so much time to understand shiv and have a colourful life again she never took any steps to get closer to Shiv before marriage or after and now when she decided she had problem with jagiya again...she could never let him go away from her life...so she can never have happy life until Jagiya and Singh family is alive.

Can you please tell me one incident where Anandi went behind Jagya after her marriage to shiv. She was with family when Jagya went missing and she just mentioned that Shiv is also trying to find him and it was then the family advised. She was just a part in family discussion.. She did not go behind him..

He does not have sense to disturb a newly married couple and that too at that odd hour and you are saying its Anandi's mistake... She did not let Jagya go it was he who had decided and came to inform them. It's a basic manners, when if ppl ask for help most of them try to help in some or the other way and here he was asking to pass on a msg and she did and this is wrong according to you..

Previously when shiv was playing the trick he was taking everyones name and here went CM started the convo only it was all about Shiv, she was aware that the whole topic was about Ansh, so when it came out suddenly, she realized her love for him.. so whats wrong in that...