Bandham Archives - October 2006 - Page 2

Episode 18

October 18, 2006

In Ganabathy Granites office Selva is at his table looking so worried and Aadiyapaatham comes and tells him that they have to implement plan Stella soon ….( you all remember ? when Selva was asking AP for a solution for him and Lalitha to live together AP said that he has a plan called plan Stella….???!!!)

( 👎🏼 👎🏼 👏 I don't' know…today's episode was so dragging and I felt like switching off and going away…..but honestly just to write for you all I was forced to watch……..see…naan evlo nalla pullai…hi..hi) 👎🏼 👎🏼 😭

So the whole plan goes like this…There is a girl names Stella works there and if Selva proves infront of Aadhi that they have some affair with each other, then AP will go and talk to Aadhi about this and he will ask her to bring Lalitha and let them both live together happily so that Selva will not behind other girls. Poor stella does not know any thing about this….since she is waiting for her promotion she just listens to AP and acts accordingly in front of Aadhi. As expected she gets angry and calls AP and as planned he admits that he knows about this affair and he also suggests that Aadhi should consider bringing Lalitha. Aadhi asks Ap whether that girl Stella waiting for a promotion and she types something in her PC and takes a print out and gives to AP and tells him to give that order to Stella. When he gives that paper Stella gets shock because it is not her promotion but termination order…….

(😭 😭ha….ha….ha……enge….elllarum jora siruyunga paarkalam…..jokuma ….jokuma…..jokku….sirippu varalliya…..it is ok….take it easy !!!!!!) 😭 😭

Subbiah and Rajamma Paatti are working in the grader and Nithila comes there by an auto. Paattima rushes to Nithila and enquires about Thamira and Subbiah also joins. Nithi says that her mom needs a lot of rest and she has come to take some dress for her and for her mom. Subbiah tells her to eat something before she goes and here comes….our alli Rani….bajari amma….Aadhi….she shouts "Rajamma"….and paattima and Subbiah quickly leaves from there…..!!!

She comes to Nithila and asks whether she should go to hospital again and she also orders her to come and see her before Nithi goes to hospital. Nithi enters Aadhi's house ( she has changed and she is carrying a bag) Aadhi asks her what is in the bag and Nithi tells that they are some clothes for her mom. Aadhi taunts her by asking " have you ever thought that my mother is working as a servant maid and now that she is in the hospital who will do all the work in athai's place. What is the use in shuttling down between hospital and home nicely dressed up….and what is the use of your education…if you do not know all these basic stuff……alright …alright ..you don't simply stand here just go inside and wash all the dirty clothes then you can go to the hospital"……

(😡 😡 😡oh….my God…..I want to kill Aadhi……..urh……..) 😒 😒 😒

Nithila stand still and just stares at Aadhi and just leaves from there. Aadhi could not digest this action of Nithi and she shouts…that nithi has the same amount of thimiru as her mom !!!!?????

Nithila is with Thamira assisting her to get up and sit and she feeds Thamira some milk. After taking milk Thamira asks Nithi why she is so sad. Nithi answers nothing like that and she is alright. Thamira guesed correctly and asks whether Aadhi told anything to her. Nithi just pauses for seconds and tells Thamira that everything will be ok as soon as she finishes her studies and gets a job somewhere far away from this place and she promises Thamira that she will take good care of her. &a mp;n bsp;
As Nithi was telling the above Thamira becomes so restless and repeatedly tells that they will not leave that house at all. Whether they live or die it should be in that house only. She also tells Nithila that when she dies she should be in that house. Nithi was shocked to hear thia and she asks her mom " Ennamma, why is likt that" Thamira says," eenna that house …that Aadhi Lakshmi's house is our house…it is your house."   ; ;

Nithi was shocked and shocked and……..

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Episode 19

October 19, 2006

Thamira is in her hospital bed and repeatedly tells that they will not leave that house at all. Whether they live or die it should be in that house only. She also tells Nithila that when she dies she should be in that house. Nithi was shocked to hear this and she asks her mom " Ennamma, why is likt that" Thamira says," eenna that house …that Aadhi Lakshmi's house is our house…it is your house..and it your dad built it for us and it belongs to you and only to you" Nithi was shocked to hear this meanwhile Thamira starts thinking about her good days in that house with her husband and baby Nithi. She states to cry bitterly and Nithi consoles her and begs her to sleep. But Thamira again tells that not only the outhouse but also the house where Aadhi Lakshmi is living belong to them.

Nithi asks whether whatever her mom told was true and Thamira says, "yes….your dad built this house stone by stone he took care about everything and built this house….I have so many happy memories in my heart about the days I lived in that house with your dad "

Thamira tells about her young days and how she Aadhi were friends. One day they both are playing ball and that ball belongs to Aadhi. ( they both are probably about 10 years old) Little girl Aadhi asks little Thamira about her name and why is it so weird and Thamira says " I like my name….my parents kept this name since this is a river's name too and I should be doing good things like the river which gives water to so many"
Aadhi tells, " How can you do good things to so many people when you people are so poor. You are not rich like me after all"…..after some time they start to play and Aadhi says that she will throw the ball and who runs and gets it first can own the ball and she rolls ball. Then both of them start running and Thamira grabs the ball first and Aadhi gets so angry and scolds Thamira for coming first and she tells that she does not like losing and that she should be the winner always. Poor Thamira says," it is ok…it does not matter if I win or not…ok..you have the ball"


Thamira tells Nithi that since her childhood Aadhi has been so arrogant and even until today she is like that. She does not like people answering her back from that day to this day. She grew up and all her bad habits grew along. She wants to keep everyone under her control and if she does not like something others also should like it. Everybody thought she will become normal when she gets married to some one. Elders in her family started looking for a boy for Aadhi. At this point Thamira stops and asks Nithi," do you who was the boy who came to see Aadhi to marry her?" Nithila asks "who" and answers comes from Thamira " Your dad…."



And Thamira starts thinking about it…….. In front of a big house a car comes and stops and some people get down from the are and one face we can recognize that is Thamira;s husband. To receive them Aadhi father and her brother, Jeevaratna Sabapathy ( Just for your info……maragatham's husband and Kalpana's father) and another man were there and they all go inside. Aadhi's dad introduces Jeeva as his first son and the other man as his second son Gangatharan. They all start to talk about something…there was no audio for the talking part but some nice flute music was on. Thamira's head comes out of the room and she looks for the "boy" and she knods her head like approving. She runs inside and tells Aadhi that the boy has come and she has seen him already. Aadhi smiles and asks before she saw him Thamira has seen?

(Both of them look very pretty….for a change Aadhi is smiling….) &n bsp;

One old man is there and ( I think he is like broker or some relative..from the boy's side) he tells Aadhi's dad about the boy's family and about their roaring Gold business in Madras. At this point the boy stops him and continues the conversation.
( ayo what is name???? Nithi's dad..his real name is Poovilangu mohan…so let me address him for now Mohan…..)

Mohan says that he wants to come straight to the point about his dreams to have a Tamil girl as his wife and how she should be etc…..and his parents who are sitting with him approve the way he talks. Thamira's parents are also there and her mom calls " Thamira Bharani….bring Laskmi " And the name Thamira Bharani attracts Mohan so much he could not control himself and tells " Aaha…Thamira Bharani….such a nice name….this is the name of the river too illaya.." Everyone smiles and here come Thamira and Aadhi.
Aadhi like a puthu ponnu feels shy????....they both went in and Thamira starts making fun of Aadhi that she can not wait to run away with her husband etc…..Here Mohan is stunned by the appearance of Thamira and he comes out with the broker and Thamira's father. Mohan says he wishes to marry Thamira not Aadhi and he also tells that it is not because that Aadhi is not nice or something but somehow his mind tells him that he should be living with a girl like Thamira. The broker and Thamira's dad were shocked to hear that and Mohan insists on his point about Thamira ………………..



Bandham ..........Thodarum.........

Episode 20

October 20, 2006

( 😛At last ……………..Thamira's husband's name is Thillai Nayagam ( Mohan) so from now on I will use Thiillai Nayagam and not Mohan. Todays episode was a little dragging.Thamira looks pretty...o.....pretty 👏 👏 👏 )

Still Thamira is telling about how she got married to her husband to Nithila.

Thillai Nayagam comes out of Aadhi's house with the broker and Thamira's father. Mohan says he wishes to marry Thamira not Aadhi and he also tells that it is not because that Aadhi is not nice or something but somehow his mind tells him that he should be living with a girl like Thamira. The broker and Thamira's dad were shocked to hear that and Mohan insists on his point about Thamira. He asks Thamira's dad whether he is ok with this change of plan. He says that he has to discuss with Thamira about this and most probably she will bad about the whole thing since Aadhi is a good friend of Thamira. Thillai says him to take time to talk to Thamira and let him know about Thamira's decision.

In Thamira's house her parents are telling about Thillai's wish to marry her and Thamira was so disturbed and asks that how on earth she can say "yes" to this proposal. Her mom tells her that after all she is not snatching this boy from Aadhi after everything is fixed and more over all the boys will see many girls and they will marry the girl whom they like only and fortunately for us this boy likes Thamira and she is very lucky. Her dad also adds that they can not get a better proposal for her and he feels as if God himself heard their prayer and brought this boy…….(and this brain washing talk goes on and on…….)
Finally Aadhi stopped talking negative and she just keeps quiet.



In Aadhi's house, she is telling her dad that she is not sad or angry for all this. Her dad was shocked to hear this from her but he is happy that Aadhi is not against Thamira's marriage with Thillai. But her brother Gangatharan is angry and he asks Aadhi that how it is possible for her to think this way when that man came to their house to see Aadhi and suddenly he changes his plan.

( I have to tell about this Gangatharan here…..when they show title song..there are so many future and past scenes coming. In one of such scene this Gangatharan is seen running with a gun and shooting at some one…????? May be he killed Thillai …I guess)







In Aadhi's house she is sitting on a rocking chair and rocks and her face shows so much hatred ness and anger. Her dad come there and asks why she is so angry. Aadhi tells that she is angry because of that Thamira. Aadhi asks," dad can you arrange a quick wedding for me with who ever you like. I have to marry someone before Thamira gets married to Thillai. I will never ever forgive Thamira for my whole time and from now on she is my enemy. I will see that I will make her life a living hell and I promise that I will make her come and fall at my feet and beg for her next meal etc etc ………."


At her hospital bed Thamira tells Nithila about how Aadhi was married to Sundara mama who was at that time working in Aadhi's factory. Nithila says " paavam SUndara Mama amma". Thamira smiles and tells that she was married to her dad and they both lived such a happy life and she was feeling at the top of the world and they both were extremely happy…But………

Bandham ..............Thodarum...........

Episode 21

October 23, 2006

At her hospital bed Thamira smiles and tells Nithila about her happy life with her dad and how she was feeling at the top of the world. But everything came to an end suddenly.

Soon after her marriage her dad decided to shift to Chennai. They came to Chennai and continued their happy life. They loved and understood each other so much. They lived in such a way that they used to think that in the whole wide world there will not be a single couple who live like them. At this point she starts to think about …….

Thamira and Thillai are standing in front of a long table discussing about a blue print of their future house plan. Thamira says she can not understand a single thing from that blue print. So Thillai takes few large photo graphs of their future house and starts explaining about the rooms, garden in front, a large backyard and a small guest house right in front.He also tells that his house should like a palace and it should be very spacious and comfortable. At this point Thamira asks whether it is necessary to build this big a house.
Thilai replies that it is very necessary for them to have this big house not for them but for their future child, once their child starts licing in that big house they will move to the small guest house and from there they will watch their child all the time. That is the reason he built it in front and not elsewhere.

Thillai tells Thamira that since he was a child he used to dream of becoming a successful business man with big house etc. With the grace of the God it happened as per dream and that he owns such a successful jewelry business and started earning much more than enough. After that he started to dream of having a happy married life with a very nice life partner and he has got Thamira as his wife. He continues, " I started enjoying your kind nature and your beauty. Then I started dreaming of a beautiful and at the same time peaceful place to live for us. Illamum illalum nalla irunthathane illaram nalla irukkum. Here is my "illal" and this is my "illam" and this was my dream!!" Thamira smiles and tells that his dream is such a beautiful one after all. Hearing this Thillai says that it is no more dream and they are all going to happen soon.



Back to Tahmira's hospital bed and Nithila. Thamira says that Aadhi was so jelous of her happy married life with Nithi's dad. She coulkd not tolerate this fact that they built that big house which kindled her anger like a wild fire. Aadhi gave birth to her two sons Shanth and Selva one after another and Thamira still could not become pregnant. With this point in Aadhi's mind she used to talk bad about Thamira in front of others just to put Thamira down. She used names like " maladi, pattuponava, karinjanelam" etc when she talked about Thamira. Once for all Aadhi had to shut her mouth because Nithi was born. Her dad used to be very proud of his daughter. He was calling her as "Rajakumari" and he wanted to bring her up as a princes also. Nithi was growing happily meanwhile Aadhi's jelous and hatred ness also grew up. Thamira at this point again goes back to those thoughts…

A white Ambassador comes and stops in front of Thamira's house and Aadhi and Sundara emerge out from the car. Aadhi stand there and stares at that beautiful house angle by angle and she looks so angry. She tells her husband that " Look at the life this pichakaari has got…mmmmm do you understand….I am talking about your loving sister only " Sundar asks her not to talk like that.

Thamira comes to the balcony to see Aadhi and Sundara and she is so excited and happy to see them. She runs to her husband who is doing some paperwork inside and tells about Aadhi's arrival.



They both come down to receive Aadhi and Sundara. Aadhi enters the house and her eyes roles every where and she get more angry and jelous looking at all the richness in the house. Thillai welcomes them and tells that he is so happy that they are visiting them at last. Sundara tells that the house is beautiful. Thillai starts telling the marbles and teak wood and takes them for a tour.




After the tour of the house they all gather in the hall.Thillai tells Thamira to bring some thing to eat and drink. Thamira goes inside and brings milk and a tray of some goodies to eat.

Thamira keeps the tray of vada and other things on the side table, she serves milk to Aadhi and she turns to serve to Thillai and Sundara. Aadhi holds the silver container of milk and drops it down purposely. Aadhi says,"achacho…..milk is split, Thamira go and bring a towel and clean the floor" Thamira runs inside and brings a cloth and starts cleaning the floor and Aadhi enjoys the scene and she purposely moves and stands near the spilt milk so that Thamira has to clean the floor where Aadhi's feet are placed….

( 😡 😡 such a cheap minded devil … 😈 Aadhi…Poor Thamira 😭 )

Hospital scene again. Thamira tells Nithila that everything was ok until one day all had come to a stop. Thillai faced great lose in his jewelry business and he had to close down the business. Thillai was so dependant about his roaring business and hence he took huge loans to build the house etc. Since the business went down he could not even pay the interest for the loan taken and Thillai started approaching all his friends but no body was willing to help. He became so downhearted. Past events runs in Thamira's mind……

Thamira and Thillai are discussing about this. He tells Thamira that he can not believe that no body wants to help him when he needs it so badly. Thamira consoles him and she also suggests to him that to seek help from Aadhi………..





Thillai looks at her with surprise……




Bandham...... Thodarum

Episode 22

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Episode starts with the hospital scene. Thamira cries and tells Nithi that she never even dreamt that the idea given by her to Nithi's dad at that difficult time would lead them to such a bad situation. She tells that she regrets for seeking help from Aadhi……Thamira recalls…….

Thamira's house…she is suggesting to Thillai that they should go to Aadhi for help. Thaillai asks her whether it is necessary to seek help from her. Thamira answers that there is nothing wrong in that since Sundara Anna is her periamma's son and she knows Aadhi since her childhood. Thillai says that he believes that there should not be any money matter between relatives. Thamira requests him not to feel about it and after all they are only asking for money and they will be paying back with interest. Since Thamira insists he agrees to that and they go to Aadhi's house.

In Aadhi's house they are all sitting in the hall. Aadhi says, " vaanga, vaanga,,,what brings you both here to me….I think some right time has come and you are here in front me…ha???!!" Thamira and Thillai feel bad to hear that. To manage the situation Sundara break the silence by calling "Nithila Kutty, come here ma" As this happens Aadhi shouts at him and tells him that doesn't he realize that they are discussing about some important matter.

( Poor vaayila poochi…Sundara …!!!!!, you should give your wife one tight slap man… )

Thamira tells that they never imagined that the business will become like this and they don't have any idea what to do. Moreover they built such a huge house and so many people are jealous of that. Probably many people were waiting for our down fall. No one wants to help them. "So we thought we will approach you for this help". Aadhi instantly says that there is nothing wrong in their coming to her but taking this big loans is wrong.
She blames them that it is always dangerous to keep your legs (ahalakkaal) so wide like this just to build such a humongous house. Thillai answers ," no..no it is not that…my business was going on well and I thought I would easily pay back the loan.But I never thought that a problem like this will arise and collapse my business" Aadhi continues that if Aadhi gives the money they will return it soon with interest. Aadhi as usual shows all kinds of face and tells" how…how can you give back that money, after all your business is not there"

Aadhi continues," comeon tell me how can you people return my money" Sundara interferes and tells that may be due to this reason others refused to help them but after all Thamira is my sister and they should help her. Aadhi sarcastically tells ," I am not telling that I will not give money. Whatever is the relationship there should be a maintenance of accounts always. For that reason I insist that write and give me the house and get your money. In future you won't feel bad that simply you took the money from me…ok?"

( 😡Shock after shock….athamma idi after idi….every face is shown in a close up…..😡)




" After all I am not asking you to give away your house to me just like that, you can come with the money and very well take back your house. But ….when you come back to get the house just pay the current rate of the house and take it. If you accept this offer, we can make the deal" Sundara feels bad and asks" nee pesarathu…unakke nayama irrukka"

Aadhi answers that these nyayam and aniyayam are all for the middle class people only and not for themselves. Sundara feels so uncomfortable and tells that he will not agree to this.
Quickly Aadhi says that she never ask him for his approval and more over it is them who ask for money. Sundara ignores Aadhi and tells Thamira not to accept this offer and he will try and find some other way. Thillai stops Sundara by telling" no…no…I accept this offer…and I have complete trust in my ability to bring back my business to a profitable one" Thamira is sad and shocked but Thillai consoles her.

Next scene is Thamira and Thillai are in Aadhi's house and they are all ready to make the deal as per Aadhi's wish . Aadhi is holding a file which contains the documents. She tells that she is good enough not to add the small guest house in this deal. She asks Thillai to read mit carefully and later on she does not want to hear any complaints about the documentations. She gives the file to Thamira and Thamira passes it to Thillai and he signs in it and returns to Aadhi.

( 😡so devilish……….yuk……palaar….palaar…….palaar……dishyum….dishyummm 😡)



(👏 👏Some sad music is going on. I forgot to tell about the music of this serial. Title song is so excellent and all the rerecording is like movie standard…bravo..the music director Raj Bhaskar . The title song is written by Vairamuthu and sung by Haris……..very nice song 👏 👏)

After giving the file to Aadhi, Thillai says that he still has a lot of trust on people surrounding them. Aadhi says that they have already sold the house to her but the keys is not handed over yet and where is it.Thillai takes the key to Thamira and she hands in to Aadhi.



Aadhi smiles with a vengeance and she looks so arrogant. Thillai and Thamira take leave from Sundara and they sadly leave the house. Sundara fells so…so….so .very bad for them. Thillai acts so well also.



They both with Baby Nithila come out of the house and stand infront and stares the building for a while. And they leave from there



Back to hospital scene. Tamira cries and tells that it was tpp painful for her to simply give away the whole lot of things to Aadhi. At this point Nithila tells that she will see that Aadhi will be punished for her mean act towards her mom. Thamira says that punishing Aadhi is not at all important for her. They should get back that house since each and every brick and stone in that house carries Nithi's dad's memory. Thamira has so much attachment to that house and this is the reason she bears all this and continue to live there.

Nithila says firmly that it is her duty to see that they will live in the same house again.
Bandham................Thodarum

Episode 23

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

(😭 😭 😭 I had a bad day today. My digital camera batteries are dead I had to look for a new set of batteries. These rechargable batteries take overnight to get recharged....damn.....at last I found some 😭 😭 Today's episode was full of different scenes....final torture was....uploading pictures......I kept getting retry....retry........uurrhhhhhh..........😡 😡...some how I finished and here it is.......but I am still 😭 )

Nithila opens the gate and comes in and stares at the big house ( Aadhi's house) and thinks of all the things Thamira told about that house. Her her gets filled she became very emotional.

Selva comes there and finds Nithi is staring at the house and he also stands and looks in the same direction. He says," yei…Nithi…enna you are looking at the house as if you are seeing for the first time. How is your mom now? How come you left her alone and came here?" Nithi says that her mom is doing fine and she came to make some porridge for her mom. Hearing this Selva tells her to go and take rest and Rajamma paatti will make the kanji (porridge) for her mom. He calls Paatima and tells the same. She happily agrees to that. She tells Nithi to go and take bath and come by that time the kanji will be ready.

Aadhi is with her cell phone talking to some one " ennathu, all that I don't know…all I want to hear is Shantha gets divorced from Lailtha that is all ok….".. She is coming out of the front door and finds Thomas (?? May be driver or watch man??) envelope in his hands. Aadhi stops Thomas and scold him for changing his uniform while he is still on duty. Thomas says that he knows that he is still on duty but Selva asked him to go to Kalpana's house to deliver this envelope to her. Hearing this Aadhi is puzzled and suspicious. She asks Thomas for that envelope and starts reading it. Basically what is written there is " Selva is not in a position to marry Kalpana. Asking Kalpana not to develop any dreams about this marriage. Signed by Selva"…..Aadhi asks Thomas to go and buy some bouquet od flowers so that the message in that letter will have more meaning. Thomas leaves and Aadhi says, " ellarukkum aattam kaatra enakke aattam kaataraya…..I will finish off your aattam " She tears off the letter into pieces and throws it in the air.

In Lalitha's house a courier delivery man comes. Lalitha comes out to receive that. She signs and gets the envelope. She opens and finds that it is divorce notice sent from the lawyer signed by Selva. She breaks out and goes in and cries a lot.

Lalitha's dad, mom and the grand mother starts discussing about the divorce notice. Her dad gets so angry and tells that they are also cabable of sending court notice. AT this point Lalitha gets upset about what her dad told. She feels that they all should help her patching up this problem and not to break her marriage with Shanth.



Lalitha's mom says that they should act wise and go and see Selva's family to talk. Lalitha's dad says that it is not possible as long as Shanth is so scared of his mom. Hearing all this Lalitha decides that she has to solve this problem herself and starts walking out.

Next thing we see is Lalitha entering in Ganapathy Granite Office. Aadiyapatham notices Lalitha coming towards Shanth's office door and runs to him and tells him that danger is approaching him. Shanth asks him whther it is the storm or earthquake. AP tells it is the storm coming right now.

( 😛storm = Lalitha, Earth quake = Aadhi Lakshmi….ayo enge pouee muttikirathu….😛)

As they are talking Lalitha comes in and Ap says…" ayo …ayo ippa ethukkaga vanthe amma? Lalitha says that some idiotic thing happened which made her come there.

AP tells that she can come there anytimebut now Aadhi will come there too. Lalitha says," good let her come and today I want to talk to her directly and put a full stop to her non sense activities. Why did you send me a divorce notice? D0n't you like living with me? Or this is all because your mom told you to cut off me from your life?"…..Ap slowly leaves from there.



Lalitha continues," If you are going to be like this…being so scared of your mothere this is not goint to work. Look…your mother does not have any right to interfere in our life. If you don't tell this to your mother yourself then I have to come one more time to tell her. Bear this in your mind" Shanth says that he will tell his mom about this soon. Lalitha asks ," when…when will you tell her….when she is not around you want to tell ? Now she has done this to us and without any guilty conscious about it she is busy in arranging wedding for your brother too?....why can't you ask your mother that do something about our marriage and them about Selva's wedding"

As Lalitha is bursting out like this to Shanth, Sundara and Ap come in. Lalitha tells him about the divorce notice. Sundara says that it is not sent by Shanth. It must be Aadhi's work in sending such a notice to you. She must have forced Shanth to sign it. He also promises Lalitha that soon everything will come in places and he will help them out to solve this problem. Lalitha says that it is mentioned in the notice that she has to reply within 15 days time. Sundara tell her to ignore and forget about the whole thing . He asks her to leave immediately since he does not Aadhi to see Lalitha there. Lalitha turns to Shanth and tells him that if this divorce takes place then she will not be alive at all.Telling this she leaves.

Nithila is ready to go to hospital. She comes in Aadhi's house to take the kanji from paatima. Pattima comes with kanji and she asks her to eat something before she leaves to hospital. Nithila says that she will eat from somewhere else on her way. Hearing this Aadhi come there and asks Paatti what was happening there.

Paatima says that she was giving the kanji made for Thamira to Nithi and she also informs that Selva asked her to make food for Thamira.
Aadhi gets so furious and tells," how come you do all this without my permission. More over this house is not a sathiram or orphanage to give food from here like this. Yei…Nithi if you want this food for your mother you can take. I have no objection but there are so much work to do here. You wash all the dirty clothes and mob the floor then you can happily take this food. You have to earn your everyday food by doing some work and not just take away from some one".

Hearing all this words coming out of Aadhi's mouth Nithila just stands there stunned…….

Bandham .......Thodarum

Episode 24

Thursday, October 26, 2006



Aadhi tells Nithila,"You wash all the dirty clothes and mob the floor then you can happily take this food. You have to earn your everyday food by doing some work and not just take away from some one . Moreover your mother will not die if she is not eating for a day" Nithila feels like something hitting her.Aadhi tells paatima to give her Kanji only after she finishes all the work. Paatima says to Nithi that she doesn't have to do all the work just for this food. Nithi stops her and tells that it is ok with her about doing all that work. She started washing the clothes and cleaning the floor. When she was doing this she found a game board drawn permanently on the marble floor which induces her to think of her young age with her parents.

( 😃pochuda……all these days only Thamira was doing this……now Nithi too……you too Nithima 😃 🤢)



In Kalpana's house she is in her bed with a letter and a bouquet of flowers is kept next to her. She keeps staring at the letter and asks," Oh…you are always thinking about me? You are counting the day for our wedding? You have so much love for me in your heart but when we meet how come you never show any thing at all"….As she was doing this her mom Maragatham comes there and asks her with who she is talking to. Kalpana says that Selva mama's driver came here and delivered this letter and flowers to me. He wrote very romantic letter. Maragatham makes fun of her and tells her she should not tell these things to her and both laugh.

( 😡 😡 Oh…my god…such cheap stunt by Aadhi…she wrote that letter herself…….yuck…...........😡 😡)




In Lalitha's house her parents are asking her about her visit to Shanth's office. Her mom asks whether he sent the divorce notice. Lalitha says that it is not sent by him but his mom forced him to sign and she sent the notice. She also tells that Sundara mama himself told this to her. Lalitha's dad tells that as long as Shanth is scared his mom like this nothing is going to happen. Lalitha stops and requests him not to talk bad about her husband. He says that he doesn't have any more hope for Lalitha to live with Shanth anymore. But Lalitha tells him that she believes in her husband and she cries and goes inside. Her paatti goes to her room and sits next to her.She consoles Lalitha and she promises that she will help her in this matter. Lalitha is puzzled to hear. Paatti explains that she is going to see Kalpana's parents and talk to them to persuade Aadhi.

Aadhi is sitting in the garden, talking to someone on her cell phone. Nithila comes there and tells her that she has finished all the work and she is leaving for hospital. Aadhi shouts at her, " Yei……what? You are informing me that you are leaving? This is not the way to talk to me. You have to ask my permission to go out of this house after you do your work. More over who knows whether you did all the work or not. Come inside with me I want to check" Nithila feels so so so bad but she quietly follows Aadhi inside. Adhi notices all the clothes are washed and hung for drying very neatly. The floor is sparkling and she could not find any fault at all and still she looks around and finally she says, "you better do everyday work here without being told like today" She leaves.

In Shanth's office he is sitting with a very sad face. Aadiyapatham comes in. He is asks him what the matter is. Shanth tells," after Lalitha's visit here I am so disturbed. DO you remember what she told before she left? My mom is one kind of a woman and she does not care for us. Lalitha told that day that if this problem is not solved soon she will commit suicide. I am so worried that she might do some thing like that" Aadiyapatham consoles him and tells him that he should go to Lalitha's house and talk to her nicely. He also tells that when he goes buy some flowers, fruits and Halwa. Shanth was happy to hear and he goes on repeating….pazham, poo, halwa…. pazham, poo, halwa..

( 😉 😉athaana paarthen……the way he started his conversation…I thought wow…at last he talks some sense……here we go….he is the same clown……poochi…….😉 😉 )

Lalitha's paati comes to Kalpana's house. Maragatham and her husband tell her to come and sit. They three sit in the nhall. Maragatham asks how she is doing. Paatti says she is doing good at all because of Lalitha's life. Maragatham asks whether Lalitha is still living with them. Paati says," yes she is still living with us. That Aadhi Lakshmi is not willing to allow her to live with Shanth. You are going to make your daughter Kalpana as the second daughter in law in the same family. Please try and help us in this matter by telling the facts to Aadhi" They both promise to her that they will try their best. Paati thanks them and leaves.



Shanth is knocking on the door of Lalitha's house. Her dad comes and opens the door and shocked to see Shanth there. He calls him mama. But he gets so angry with him and tells him to leave immediately. He warns him not to come there any more. Shanth looks surprised and sad ……….



Bandham………..Thodarum………

Episode25

Friday, October, 27

Shanth is at the front door of Lalitha's house. Lalitha's father is refusing to allow him in. He asks him " neengathan already have sent the divorce notice and how come you are here now? Did you think that it is better for you to tell about the divorce notice in person to Lalitha. Please get out of here" Hearing this noise Lalitha's mom comes there and seeing Shanth there, she asks him to come in.But Lalitha's dad shouts at her and asks her to go in. Now Lalitha joins in and the same shouting comes out of her dad's mouth. As Lalitha is asking him to come in…her dad literally pushes him out of the door and closes the door behind him. Shanth shockingly stands in front of the closed door. He is walking to the car and Lalitha's paati crosses him and stops. Shanth tells about how mean Lalitha's dad was to him. Paati tells him not to worry and she will help them in this matter. She also takes all the poo, pazhgam and halwa he bought for Lalitha . She promises that she will give every thing to Lalitha and she will tell her how much Shanth loves her. Shanth was happy to hear this.



In Kalpana's house her parents receive Sundara and Aadhi. Sundara asks where is Kalpana and Maragatham inform them that she has gone out. Aadhi says that there are not many days left before the engagement ceremony. She asks,"since the wedding will also be conducted soon after the engagement ceremony what have planned about the whole thing. How much you have kept for her". Sundara feels embarrassed as usual by this kind of talk. Aadhi's brother ( Kalpana's dad) tells, Ennakka, after she is my daughter and you simply come here and take her to your house when ever you are ready for the wedding. All this giving and the rest of the things we can always do later….why spend unnecessarily now." Maragatham asks him " what do you mean by talking like this. After all she is our only daughter and we should her wedding in a grand scale" Aadhi asks her brother," ennada….they way you are talking tells me that you are going to conduct a simple wedding in some temple?" He replies," in fact that is a good idea and we can save a lot of money " Aadhi becomes so furious. Maragatham tells her to ignore her husband's talks. She asks Aadhi to let them know what they have to do. Kalpana already has more than 200 sovereign of jewels and if Aadhi wants more they can make another 200 soverign more. At this point Aadhi tells, " In families like theirs for wedding gold amount if always mentioned in Kilos not in soverigns"



Aadhi asks about their new house in Anna Nagar and she wants to make sure whether that house is in Kalpana's name. Maragatham says her not worry about anything, she will put a FD in Shanth's name for 10 lakhs and a brand new car for 12 Lakhs. Hearing this Aadhi says that Selva wants to develop his business at international level and it is their duty to see that he will do that with their money. Sundara interferes and asks, " Selva does not have any such plan and he never told me…did he tell you like that?" Aadhi instantly says " amaam sonnan" The talk goes on and on and on and however it comes to an end…

Lalitha's paati comes in and finds Lalitha's dad is sitting in the hall, and mom sitting at the dinning table. They llok so sad and disappointed. Paati goes into the kitchen and cuts the fruits ( which Shanth gave her ) and brings to her son and asks him to eat but he gets angry with her. SO she leaves that plate in front of Lalith's mom and asks her to eat. She goes to Laitha's room. Lalitha is sitting on her bed and crying. Paati comes to her and tells about her meeting with Shanth outside their house. She tells her that she is actually very lucky since Shanth loves her so much. Lalitha becomes happy and she wears the flower sent by Shanth through paati.

Selva visits Thamira in the hospital. Nithila is making orange juice for her mom. Selva come in and Tamira is happy to see him.Selva says that he is on his way home from Pondicheri. He thought of visiting athai before going home and hence he is there.Selva asks Nithila whether she is preparing for her final exams. Thamira says she is worried about that. Nithi asks her mom to take away even the word worry from her dictionary. Selva says that he is going home and asks Nithila to come with him. But Nithila refuses but Thamira persuades her to go with Selva. She agrees and goes with Selva in his car. Aadhi is in the garden supervising Subbaih's work.



Aadhi is still in the graden with Subbiah when Selva's care enter the house. Still Aadhi is standing there thinking that it is Selva coming. But suddenly she sees both car doors opening and Nithila emerges out of the passenger seat. Aadhi is shocked to see Nithila with her son. She starts waling so fast towards the car. By the time Selca and Nithila get down and Selva finds Nithil's handbag in the car. He takes her bag and gives her. Aadhi reachs there and shouts…."dei"……..




Bandham.........Thodarum..........

Episode 26

Monday, October 30, 2006

(😭 😭 Too many scenes.......I know it is going to be tough for me.....😭 😭 )

Aadhi is shocked to see Nithila coming with Selva in his car. She is shouting,"Dei Selva" and walking towards them. Aadhi asks," where have you been with her?" Selva says that he went to visit athai. Aadhi," for this only I called and told you to come immediately from Pondicheri, as if she is so used to travel by car to places….after all if you would have thrown some coins to her she would have taken a bus and reached home. I did not give birth to you to serve kandavalellam…if any boy is good looking girls like you will try and snatch them away…..aha …ha…"



At this point Nithi could not stand there anymore and she leaves from there crying. Selva says that after all hospital is on his way home so he went there. More over what is wrong in visiting Thamira. Aadhi says that Selva would not know the true colours of both mother and daughter. She asks him to go inside and he moves from there. Nithila enters her house and starts crying so bitterly. Aadhi shouts," subbiah, come here…go and call that donkey girl who simply ran away as I was talking"Subbiah goes in and brings Nithila to Aadhi. Aadhi starts," yei….what do you think of yourself? Ha….I warned you other day not to run behind my son…why can't you obey me…even if he comes and talks to you can't you think that you are after all a daughter of a servant maid here…sari…sari…go inside and finish all the work fast..my son's engagement day is nearing..you better start cleaning everywhere….go…go inside"
( appaaaaaaaaaadi….oru vazhiya…..paattu mudinthathu…….ada….ennagadi amma poochi kaamichukittu……)



Thamira is in her hospital bed. Nithila is giving her fruit juice and asking her to drink. Nithi is trying to hide her left hand behind her. Thamira notices this and asks what happened to the other hand. Nithi says nothing but Thamira insists that she wants to see that hand. Nithila shows it……and her fingers have bandage. Thamira gets worried and forces Nithi to tell the truth. Nithi still says nothing..it was just like that she wanted to learn cooking from Rajamma Paati and ended up in dipping her fingers in the hot oil. In her mind the actual scene comes on......Since she does not know how to cook when she was doing some thing ...the hot oil splatters on her fingers…..when she was trying to grate the coconut from the shell her fingers get hit by the sharp grater. The next thing she thinks of is…..Rajamma Paati is telling Nithila to go and sit in a place since she is injured. Meanwhile Aadhi come there and tells that nothing doing…it is just a small wound and she can still do all the work. She orders her to continue and finish all the work before she leaves for hospital.



Thamira gets worried and she tells that she knows the truth. She guesses very correctly about Aadhi. She tells that she should get discharged immediately. At this point a nurse comes and informs Nithi that the doctor wants to see her. Nithi is with the doctor. Doctor says that Thamira's tumor is disappearing. She is improving and now she no need to stay in the hospital. Main thin Nithila should see that Thamira will not have any mental stress. Doctor also suggests Nithi to take Thamira to some other place which will be a real change for her. Nithi leaves from there after thanking the doctor.



In Aadhi's house everybody is dressed up. Sundara comes in and Aadhi comes to him and tells," did you see this Nithila? Is she still sitting with her mom in the hospital? There is so much work to be done….guests are coming already….sari sari…you go and do whatever work is left…" As they are talking Kalpana's parents arrive there. Sundara goes to receive them. Maragatham comes to Aadhi and Aadhi asks," Va va Maragatham, How many thattu vaikkanum for the engagement ceremony? 5 or 7"? Maragatham says 7. Aadhi asks where is Kalpana and Maragatham says that she will there soon.



Meantime Selva comes in and finds Kalapana's dad and his dad are so dressed up and they are talking in the garden. He is surprised to see him there. He moves in and finds the whole house is being decorated. Nithila and Rajamma Paati are arranging some things in the hall. He comes to Nithil;a and asks," enna visesham…where is amma?" Nithi tells him that athai is in upstairs.



He goes up and finds Aadhi discussing with Maragatham athai. As soon as Selva enters Aadhi tells Maragatham to go and see whether Kalpana has arrived and she will join her soon after talking to Selva. After she leaves Selva asks Aadhi," what is all this?" Aadhi responds," You don't ask too many questions …just go and change your dress…today is your engagement" Hearing this Selva is shocked…He asks Aadhi," How come you never asked me at all about this?" She tells him," All the arrangements are made already and the guests have arrived too. You will get engaged to Kalpana and you will get married also on the day I fix today" Selva tries to tell her that it is his life…etc but she is not willing to listen to him.



Aadhi goes down. Shanth comes there and he was surpised to see Selva still not ready. Shanth tells Selva that he bought an expensive garland for him. Selva asks him to wear that garland himself. Shanth was shocked to hear Selva talking like this. He asks Selva whether he like this proposal or not. Selva says "NO' and he also ask Shanth to help him to stop this engagement function. Shanth promises him that he will try and talk to Kalpana. Selva thanks him and Shanth leaves.

Meantime Kalpana enters the house calling "Athai…how come there is no one here"….by the time she comes in Shanth approaches her and was about to talk but Aadhi and Maragatham come and take away Kalpana from there. Selva is watching all this from upstairs. He saw Shanth trying to talk to her and it did not work

Aadhi, Maragatham and Kalpana come in and Nithila comes with a tray od drinks and serve them. Selva is still standing upratirs in the corridor and watching all this. He is thinking of a way to get out of this situation. Nithila goes into the kitchen. Selva suddenly finds a solution to his problem. He starts moving down the stairs. And When he reaches down he finds these three ladies standing and talking. He waits there for a moment to pass them. He got a second when Aadhi turns on the otherside and Kalpana too turns. Selva quickly runs across them and enters the kitchen.

(😭 from now on too many scenes….only some music is going on…my head ache is also going on……..😭)



In the kitchen Nithila is doing some work. Selva goes behind her back slowly…….meantime Aadhi is bringing Kalpana to the kitchen with Maragatham…Selva is so close to nithi and calls her " Nithila" She turns back and was shockes to see him like that. Selva holds Nithila's houlders and……Aadhi, Maragatham see this and they were all shocked….apart from Nithila……….

Bandham ..........Thodarum...........

Episode 27

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

( 😡What I guessed is correct. This Selva has just used Nithi to stop the wedding….no kaathal or klthirikka…..he is so mean….paavam Nithila……mean….mean…….man😡)

Selva comes to the kitchen and hugs Nithila and tells her not to misunderstand him. Nithila is shocked and before you blink your eyes here come Aadhi, Kalpana and Maragatham gang. They are shocked….Aadhi is souting," dei Selvam…ennada panare…solli tholayenda…" Kalpana is telling her "Athai don't make this mistake" She turns to her mom and tells "come on let us leave". She walks out and maragatham and her dad follow her. Aadhi is running behind trying to stop her. Nothing wotked they leave. Nithila runs out crying….Aadhi stops her and screams at her.



( 😭as usual…she brings Thamira and her character blab la & bla😭)

As she ism screaming at Nithila SUndara comes there and Nithila leaves. Rest of her frustration Aadhi pours on him. Sundara tells her not to talk like that about Thamira and Nithi. Aadhi screams at him more..."ponga...ponga poi unga velaya paarunga....pesa vanthuttaaru mm"



Selva is immersed in his thoughts and Aadhi comes there. She says," What are you thinking of yourself? I really doubt that you are my son. How can you fall for a servant maid's daughter. What is wrong with Kalpana? Selva stops her by telling," Amma please stop shouting like this. I have been telling you since the beginning that I am not interested in marrying and you only forced all this. Moreover please don't think I am like Shanth anna…..who will always say whatever you tell. I will never be like that. You can make me do what you like and it will not happen today and for ever". Aadhi is shocked to hear all this. Selva quickly leaves from there.



In Kalpana's house her parents are trying to console Kalpana. Kalpana says that she is not at all sad. In fact she is very happy for Nithila. If they both are in love it is not right that they get married. Maragatham says that she does not understand why Selva sent flowers to Kalpana. Kalpana is also puzzled about it. She says that it would have been if he sent a note that he is in love with Nithi and he can not marry her. However she tells her mom to tell Aadhi aunty to arrange the wedding for them soon.Nithila is walking to Thamira's room. When she comes in Thamira asks her is everything ok with her. Nithila says "yes". Then Thamira tells her to take the milk from the flask. Nithila mechanically goes and pick up juicer and gives to Thamira. Thamira is surprised to see Nithila like this. She asks, " ennamma I asked for milk and yoiu are giving this to me" Nithila comes to her sense and says sorry ma. She says that the milk is cold already and she will go and buy hot milk and leaves. Thamira sits there thinking about this strange behavior of Nithi.



Nithi calls Kalpana on her cell. Kalpana says," hi Nithi congrats" Nithi asks for what? Kalpana says that it is for her wedding with Selva mama. Nithi says that even she wants to discuss with her about this matter. Kalpana says that she will pick her up from the hospital so that they can go somewhere and talk. They both are discussing. Nithila says that there is nothing in between her and Selva. They are not in love with each other. She herself does not understand that why Selva behaved like that. Kalpana gets so furious about Selva. She tells that he is so mean and he used Nithila for stopping the engagement. She says that she is very angry with Selva and she will talk to him about it. They leave from there.



Selva is in the beach. He is thinking deeply about something and……soon it is revealed that he is thinking about a girl…….

Bandham.........Thodarum