Feb 8 & Feb 9 episodes discussion - Page 2

Originally posted by: kriya...arja

Absolutely...Her intention was to trap her husband and Father-inlaw as she thought they didnt give her a good life. Poor old lady who was happy in her life lost her life.

That babu mahiyar didnt seem to be a nice man. Becasue, a gentle man will not call a stranger woman at night time...I think he just wanted to use her. may be they didnt show this.

Actually I was thinking the same thing about Babu guy. Who on earth would call a strager late at night? Especially when he knows that the person he's calling is married and since it's night, she's probably with her husband at that time. And another thing is that, not just in India, this is related to all over the world, as per the stats, #1 reason for divorce is lack of money - financial situation. What I don't understand is that how come that lady did not asked herself these importants questions when he told her that he have 3 trucks:

Originally posted by: madhoo

Actually I was thinking the same thing about Babu guy. Who on earth would call a strager late at night? Especially when he knows that the person he's calling is married and since it's night, she's probably with her husband at that time. And another thing is that, not just in India, this is related to all over the world, as per the stats, #1 reason for divorce is lack of money - financial situation. What I don't understand is that how come that lady did not asked herself these importants questions when he told her that he have 3 trucks:

1) For how has he had the trucks for?

2) If he has three trucks, then how people are working for him and what's his relationship with them?

3) How long has he been divorced for?

4) What was the main reason behind his divorce?

I know love is blind, but really, now a days, you have to be realistic, you have to be smart and not trust anyone blindly - no matter how desperate you are.

Correct. She became so blind and selfish that she just wanted to get rid of her present life. This gave babu maniyar an opportunity to cheat on her...

The rule of thumb is never ever let the other person know about your desperation or he/she will take advantage of your desperation - it's just a matter of how and when.

Originally posted by: madhoo

The rule of thumb is never ever let the other person know about your desperation or he/she will take advantage of your desperation - it's just a matter of how and when.

Definitely...
The "Dastak" needs to be heard...

I was on internet last night and came across Parveen Bhabi's biography; including her death. In her case, the dastak was very loud and clear and it was obvoius to her "friends" that she desperately needed the attention and support. Unfortunately, none of her "friends" were interested enough to save her. Reason I'm bringing Parveen Bhabi into this is that since she was a celebrity, everyone knew about her {death}, but what if a normal human being is going through the same thing? Would anyone care enough to save that person? Well, forget others, if I knew anyone like that, would I do something to save that person? Right now, I'm going to say yes because, thankfully, I don't know anyone who have the same kind of illness like hers, therefore, I don't know how would I take care of that person. But down the road, God forbid, if I come across a person like PB, would I hear the dastak? Would I know how to handle that dastak?

Originally posted by: madhoo

I was on internet last night and came across Parveen Bhabi's biography; including her death. In her case, the dastak was very loud and clear and it was obvoius to her "friends" that she desperately needed the attention and support. Unfortunately, none of her "friends" were interested enough to save her. Reason I'm bringing Parveen Bhabi into this is that since she was a celebrity, everyone knew about her {death}, but what if a normal human being is going through the same thing? Would anyone care enough to save that person? Well, forget others, if I knew anyone like that, would I do something to save that person? Right now, I'm going to say yes because, thankfully, I don't know anyone who have the same kind of illness like hers, therefore, I don't know how would I take care of that person. But down the road, God forbid, if I come across a person like PB, would I hear the dastak? Would I know how to handle that dastak?

In fact, wasn't there an episode on that in CP? Obviously the outcome was horrible - the father killed the kids and tried to committ sucide, which was failed.

Yes...rightly said...
There was a case when a man is frustrated because of her Schizophrenic wife.