Shiv's covert advances - Page 4

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

aray nahi yaar tumne quote galat parha...jisne likha hai uska naam pehle hai then the post...isliyee chill..heis "arsalan syed 117"...kuch din pehle inhone hum sab ko ek taraf se bewaqoof hi kaha tha...😉

Edited by chumki... - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nniks

@yash its edited i removed ur name...report his posts

Originally posted by: Missesha

Shiv is giving her enough space and time, but in a relationship one person needs to initiate the romance to keep it moving. Both cannot always just talk about work and family responsibilities. And knowing that Anandi is not even 1 percent close to being romantic, it is Shiv who is taking initiatives.

Moreover Shiv's styles are not at all pressurising. He is sometimes naughty, enjoys flirting, he is caring, and at that the same time he is making sure that Anandi also understands how passionate he feels about this relationship. He is over and over assuring her that he truly loves her and that this relationship means a lot to him.

He understands Anandi, but just waiting does not help. Anandi also needs to know that there are some expectations from her as a partner, and she will only know if Shiv shares them with her.

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

But. . . .I don't think she is in love or ever will be. Will like him, use him as a show piece, be the wife at home and out. may be even "love him" like she loves Bari maasi, Dadisa etc, but that is so different from being in love.

Originally posted by: knownturk

Hi,

I don't post here regularly, but I do follow BV religiously. Just wanted to know what people thought about the way Shiv regularly keeps hinting about intimacy with Anandi. I understand that it might be frustrating for him to be around her and not even get to touch her. But he himself had said that he wants her to come to him of her own accord. Then why is he not giving her the required space or time? He is being really patient, but dropping these regular hints after making a promise of the magnitude that he did, is this not a form of pressure?

Please understand that I love Shiv and Anandi (and am also beginning to like Ganga). I am only trying to understand why Shiv, who understands Anandi so well, is making it all the more difficult for her by letting her know at every given chance that he is waiting for her to begin loving him.

Would appreciate different perspectives on this...thanks.