Fate of two balikavadhus - Page 4

Originally posted by: kikyo

mmm Jagaya wasn't bad as Ratan thats true , yes he did wrong with Anandi while Ratan is seven steps ahead of him Ratan and Jagaya are not in same frame and Ganga didn't have a family support. Anandi won DS's heart but Bhairo and Sumi , Gehna have been standing in her support from day one while Ganga has no one from childhood .When Jagaya did wrong the family kicked him out but tried their level's best to support Anandi Ganga has yet to get that support

Anandi suffered a lot i cannot deny that She didn't have it easy but Ganga's case is different from Anandi She is suffering from mental to physical torture , separation from child , being molested what not so Anandi has been in better state than Ganga But then again i don't put them in same frame because they have many differences in their story.

About Gauri the great ...cvs will unleash her suspense , her story is yet to be revealed what happened of her but i guess you me and all know if they didn't prove Jagaya's Gauri's relation as eternal love they have their solid reasons much solid on moral grounds but still there is no surety what they will be doing but if they are not showing her coming with a stomach and gain forgiveness after million of sins via child ...thats very good

Anandi aur Ganga dono ne bohot kuch saha h aur dono fighters h.Anandi ki shadi 8yr ki age me hui.par uske pehle use ma baap ka pyar mila.shadi k bad sumitra aur bhairo jaise saas sasur mile.Anandi pe dadisa k torture ko bhuli nhi hun kaise use andheri room me band karke rakha tha.yes she gaind her place n love from the singhs bcoz of her nature.wo thi hi itni pyari ki sabko use pyar ho gaya.even Jagya loved her...PYAR han yahi pyar kavi nhi tha Ganga ki life me.pata nhi kab kitni choti age me usne apne maa baap ko khoya hoga.use unka pyar v nahi mila.aise chacha chachi mile jinhone use paise k liye ek dougne age k admi se byah diya.ham samaj sakte h ki uske pehle unhone masum Ganga k saath kaisa sulook kiya hoga. Definitely 14 saal ki age me Ganga ko rape jaise physical, mentaly harasment dene wale cheez se gujarna pada hoga.akele kisi kone me roti hogi.jaha koi uske ghav dekhne wala v nahi hoga. Jo hari churiyan use pasand thi unse use dar lagta hoga..usne kavi Ratan Singh se pyar kiya hi nhi hoga toh wo use padma se koi jelousy nhi h nafrat h unlogo ki hataniyat se duniya se, aur bhagwan se...uski lyf me pehli baar pyar aaya h uske bache k roop me isliye..jaust imagin bina pyar kisi ki jindagi kya hoti h.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Agreed she is weird. But that Bal vivah seemed to have left a big impact on her.

Her parents ostracised for that and left her at the door step of Singhs and went away and the Singhs cold reception of her at that time seemed to have left an impact on her.

But her weirdness surfaces when things go wrong in life.When life is smooth she is a nice enough girl.

It is a good example what a traumati experience in childhood can do to susceptible individuals.

Anandi also went through trauma during mahapanchayat but she emerged stronger of the two while G let it destroy her mind.Anandi let go of it and G clung to it.

Originally posted by: Teeya

Haqiqat yeh hai ki jagya ko jab Anandi se rishta todna tha tab use Anandi mein dosh lagta tha. jab Gouri se juth pata chala tha tab use gouri mein problem nazar aayi par suchh yeh tha ki khud jagya kitne pani mein tha?

😕so what it is has to do with my post ?..Gauri mein jo problem nazar aye woh genuine hai Anandi ki tarah tou nahi choda Anandi nai tou galti nahi ki thi Gauri nai tou ki hai Gauri apni galti ki maafi manage waada kare dubara aisa nahi kare gi maafi paa lay jagaya kitne paani mein hai ya nahi iss sai gauri ko koi haq nahi milta jo galat uss nai kiya woh karne ka Maafi tou mangni pade gi woh bhi khud sai jaise Jagaya nai mangi Apene Gunah ki woh khud zimmadar hai Jagaya tou nahi uss k gunahn ki saza paye ga woh khud paye gi aur agar woh nahi mangti aur galat karti hai tou bhaad mein jaye

Originally posted by: -Perseus-

More than the child marriage, what seemed to have impacted her deeply was her parents incapabilities mixed with negativity and her own attitude. Her narrow perception of things made her suffer. While Anandi , Ganga, Phooli, gehna all suffered due to this child marriage/evil customs...Jagya and Gauri suffered due to their own selfish nature. They(J-Gauri) made their choices after they grew up as adults. Their education didn't help them either.

As shown by the CV's, this cancelled Bal vivah actually helped Gauri to become a doctor...else , with that useless set of parents by her side, she would have become like Ganga or any other victim. Who else in the world would choose to go back into the same shit after working so hard to come out of it? She not only chose to marry him...but hurried into that fake marriage! She happily consummated her marriage knowing everything. Not to mention about her manipulations and crocodile smiles. This is a big flaw from CV's side. Instead of showing her as the victim of child marriage, they made her character grey and changed this to infidelity issue, cheating, manipulating etc...

@ ur last statement - Actually Gauri too emerged out as a successful person after that child marriage incident. It was sad that all her education did not help her to have a happy life later!

agree with you on your points but @bold part actually they have prepared her as an antagonist for protagonist Anandi like in every story we have protagonist and antagonist so there is no flaw from their side in character sketch she is complete opposite of Anandi but still i believe like so many characters they will redeem her too and make her move on in life but giving her all that back for which she stooped to the lowest is not right it has to get in her head that child marriage was wrong and it was cancelled for her welfare and that won't be proven until she fails in it completely but one chance ahead after her proper punishment , repentance and redemption she too can get probably she can meet her Mr correction sahab who can knock some sense in her head and keep her under control in future

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Agreed she is weird. But that Bal vivah seemed to have left a big impact on her.

Her parents ostracised for that and left her at the door step of Singhs and went away and the Singhs cold reception of her at that time seemed to have left an impact on her.

But her weirdness surfaces when things go wrong in life.When life is smooth she is a nice enough girl.

It is a good example what a traumati experience in childhood can do to susceptible individuals.

Anandi also went through trauma during mahapanchayat but she emerged stronger of the two while G let it destroy her mind.Anandi let go of it and G clung to it.