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dlip

@dlip

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Nice post and nice analysis by all.

Now a days I do not watch the episodes daily as I can no more connect with JaGa2 and Singhs. But I remember some episodes back (After Anandi's Bidai) Sumi saying Gahena that she feels as if she has given some Khilona (Toy) of Jagya to Shiva and because of that Jagya is crying.

Even I found DS telling 'Aate rahena (keep coming)' to Anandi and Shiv after Pag phere, very casual.

Do not know if we read too much between the lines or bad writing/acting/direction or CVs are giving clues!

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Sorry Ginu,

But I am confused, why is supporting Jagya or showering love on him is taken as disregarding Anandi. In fact its Anandi who even brought him back. The guy didn't even demand anything. He didn't stop at 7 days, it was AnSh who decided that its time for him to come back.

Jagya has repented for his mistakes in every possible sense he could. Now when finally he is on right track why is he expected not be cared for by his family? And how does it mean that Singhs will not care for Anandi?

Why cannot Sumi be happy that her real son has returned? The one whom she raised, not some Dr. Jagat who was lost in glitters. So what's wrong with Singhs wanting to support their son.

They are very justified people. They stood by Anandi when she was wronged, and they gave her a second life by giving her Shiv. They didn't force her to re-marry Jagya.

Now Anandi is all happy, and it's time to look after their son who needs some direction. So they are doing that, Singhs are perfect parents any one could get.

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Vishakha_Sakhi

@Vishakha_Sakhi

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: VerboseG

Eggjhactly, and that is the point of this post. Realization came late, but it did...

What? You're only now realizing this G? This is something I learned early on in life...I grew up seeing and hearing the horrible way my grandmother treated my Mom. 🥺 Only now that's she's older she jataos love or tries to...but my mom can never get over those early days. It was very horrible for her.

I've also seen the other end of the spectrum...where DIL's treat their nice MILs like crap and instigate their sons again the mother.

This truly is the reality and can only change if we make a conscious effort to do so.

Btw, awesome post...I guess we're just expecting too much!

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Pragya

@Siya_

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Thank you for saying this, Gina ji. 😊

I hope it stays on the front pages so any snooping CV's can see it. The whole USP of BV is that it is not a saas-bahu serial. If we wanted to watch one of those, we'd watch Ekta Kapoor. If the CV's are trying to pull in the TRP's with the saas bahu/blood relations angle they're sadly mistaken - they'll probably lose more TRP's from the people who don't want to watch what they're tired of seeing everywhere else.

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VerboseG

@VerboseG

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Vedo

What? You're only now realizing this G? This is something I learned early on in life...I grew up seeing and hearing the horrible way my grandmother treated my Mom. 🥺 Only now that's she's older she jataos love or tries to...but my mom can never get over those early days. It was very horrible for her.
I've also seen the other end of the spectrum...where DIL's treat their nice MILs like crap and instigate their sons again the mother.
This truly is the reality and can only change if we make a conscious effort to do so.
Btw, awesome post...I guess we're just expecting too much!

Vedo, the realization is vis-a-vis the Singhs. I had fairy tale hopes from them.

Personally, I realized long ago the difference between birth and in-law.😊

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VerboseG

@VerboseG

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Shivandi
Thank you for saying this, Gina ji. 😊
I hope it stays on the front pages so any snooping CV's can see it. The whole USP of BV is that it is not a saas-bahu serial. If we wanted to watch one of those, we'd watch Ekta Kapoor. If the CV's are trying to pull in the TRP's with the saas bahu/blood relations angle they're sadly mistaken - they'll probably lose more TRP's from the people who don't want to watch what they're tired of seeing everywhere else.

I agree Shivandi. If that m-i-l crap starts, I will be one of the 1st to go, regardless of the 5 mins of Ansh they will toss our way.😊