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bips54321

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Hope everything turns well at end...Even Sachi should understand by placing herself in anandi's shoes...Coz one day she will also get married and face same prob as anandi s facing...At dat time if she gets a nanad who will verbally torture her and insist her to break all her ties with shekhars unreasonably, she will get the taste of her own medicine...

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musicmaniac

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: sectoreight
I feel Ira is a reasonable woman... and she wouldnt mind if she were consulted BEFORE ansh committed to other plans, but here,

she says something, she is under the impression that all are okay with it because nobody disillusions her, and then suddenly she finds out from somewhere else that ansh have committed to be elsewhere-- meaning double booking!

Naturally, she keeps feeling like a fool all the time, and nobody would like it.

If I tell people that I am having a dinner party at my house, and ask them to keep the date open... then if they dont want to come, i prefer it that they tell me themselves and turn down my invitation.

Instead, if they give me the impression that they are coming, and then I learn from a third party that they have alternative plans and are not coming, then obviously I too will be irritated.

So ansh should be sensitive as to what is ira's understanding.

In the beginning, Ira said that anandi will stay in Udaipur and not go back for pag phera so quickly.

Now if ansh did not want to fall in line with that desire of hers, fair enough, but tell her directly that they have made this decision... instead she finds out from dadisa that ansh are leaving early.

same here -- in this sankranti situation.

It is just like Jagya unilaterally deciding that he wants out of the marriage and does not care about what anandi's understanding of their relationship is. If Jagya wants out, then should he not tell anandi before going and marrying gauri... because she was still under the impression that they were married.

Exactly my points...

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708922

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

I agree with most posts on this page that Ira is not turning negative. She is a fairly reasonable woman who happens to want to spend time with her son and her new bahu after they just got married. And one can not forget that she feels as if she is being brushed off by her newly wedded son's wife's family. I also do agree that it is unfair to expect a girl to give up her relations with her maayka when she gets married. What kind of woman does that? A selfish one. I am sorry but I find that old age rule very selfish when such people have selflessly cared for you for most of your life, you can't just forget them when you are married and go to your sasural.

Obviously marriage brings changes in one's relations/obligations and having to adjust to that is not only something the groom and the bride do (although they have the bulk of the responsibility in dealing with these changes, esp the bride), it's something both families have to adjust to as well. It's like learning how to do something for the first time, at first it's uncomfortable and foreign but with practice, less mistakes are made and it no longer is difficult to do the thing that was once so foreign and strange. Same goes for AnSh. Some might may say Anandi has been married before but please let's not forget what Sumitra had said to Anandi or just plain old common sense. Anandi was a child bride, not only that, but being a child also means being malleable, easily disposed to changing oneself. Not only that, but for Anandi the Singhs have essentially become her maayka. They understand and love her more than I think even her blood parents could have. Anandi, at this stage is an adult, one who now being married off again, faces the same fears/insecurities of any other normal young woman being married into a new family. All over again, she has to adjust to new people, new traditions, new way of life.

It's honestly more of a case of miscommunication/misunderstanding. As are all the basis of anything drama/tracks in a daily soap LOL. It is just something that everyone will need to work on esp Anandi and Ira. Let's not forget the foreshadowing of some trouble with these two when they were doing the thaali rasam where Anandi had to pick up the thaalis without dropping them or making a noise. Anandi did succeed BUT she did almost drop them too. I think what will happen is things MIGHT become strained with Ira-Anandi, BUT Anandi, as always, will find a way to resolve such issues before it makes things permanently worse. After all this a daily soap, such tracks are expected, but I hope that since this is BV, it will be handled with a sensitive, sensible, and mature approach.

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cindian

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

when anadi married to jagya as a child bride i cnt even count how much times she went to her mom's house and when they came to haveli they r not treated properly by dadisa. And now when she became a girl in that house dadisa forgot all the customes🤢... I'm sure becoz of dadisa and anandi instead jagya shiv going to run frm jetsar to udaipur may be london or somewhere... poor shiv..😭😭 whatever if shiv do anandi s going to so i respect u but love comes in life only once...🤢

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

what dadisa did was out of formality n love...shiv n few of his family members were there so what's so bad to invite them...it looks sweet n kind...chotima should politely refuse since they already have made their planned...why create big scenes n drama for such a normal matter...but yes dadisa should not make a habit to call anandi n shiv for every small occassion becoz jagya-anandi-shiv togetherness can cause awakred situation n no one will enjoy

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857839

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

I think DS was not aware of Ira's plans - every time there is some mis understanding and Ira get fumed with DS. And DS does not think too deeply about Anandi shiv and jagya. She may be thinking that Anandi has chosen shiv over jagya so she has moved on. How will she know that Anandi is an useless idiot and still has her both the steps in past. If she would have known that she would have jumped with joy and asked Anandi - chori tu wapas a ja mera jagdish ke saath tera shadi kar dungi. Shiv se divorce karake. Stupis BV stupid drama.

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andv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

I don't think Ira is negative or possessive. She had made her plans much before the Singh's invitation. S-A and Meenu all knew about it. It is quite obvious that she will be upset with the sudden change in plan.

With the Shekhars in Jaitser, it is only right that the Singhs invite them over for the celebrations since they were totally unaware of Iras plans.

Meenu, Shiv or A (if they were also present with Meenu) should have made that clear to DS when she invited them in the first place. Its not such a big issue that is being made out of it. The Singhs would perfectly understand that. Now that Meenu could not refuse DS, A being the daughter of the house should tell the Singhs about Iras plans and excuse themselves. I am sure things will be sorted out.

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