Ira turning negetive or possesive... - Page 3

Originally posted by: sectoreight

I feel Ira is a reasonable woman... and she wouldnt mind if she were consulted BEFORE ansh committed to other plans, but here,

she says something, she is under the impression that all are okay with it because nobody disillusions her, and then suddenly she finds out from somewhere else that ansh have committed to be elsewhere-- meaning double booking!

Naturally, she keeps feeling like a fool all the time, and nobody would like it.

If I tell people that I am having a dinner party at my house, and ask them to keep the date open... then if they dont want to come, i prefer it that they tell me themselves and turn down my invitation.

Instead, if they give me the impression that they are coming, and then I learn from a third party that they have alternative plans and are not coming, then obviously I too will be irritated.

So ansh should be sensitive as to what is ira's understanding.

In the beginning, Ira said that anandi will stay in Udaipur and not go back for pag phera so quickly.

Now if ansh did not want to fall in line with that desire of hers, fair enough, but tell her directly that they have made this decision... instead she finds out from dadisa that ansh are leaving early.

same here -- in this sankranti situation.

It is just like Jagya unilaterally deciding that he wants out of the marriage and does not care about what anandi's understanding of their relationship is. If Jagya wants out, then should he not tell anandi before going and marrying gauri... because she was still under the impression that they were married.