Conflicting message - A note to BV creatives - Page 2

Originally posted by: Missesha

Personally I have been unhappy with Anandi for the way she is treating Shiv and his family.I always felt she is someone who puts others' happiness before hers, so why is she suddenly out of character, but I got a different answer to my own question.

I think Anandi is used to showing her Mahanta only to those people who she thinks are under pain or in trouble. Or she is used to 'pleasing' people, who tend to ignore her or humiliate her. In past that was for DS, J, Gauri, Meenu etc.

At present it is Saanchi .She is making all efforts to 'please' Saanchi, but she takes other Shekhars and Shiv for granted, because they are being nice to her i.e. they are not in pain according to her.So If Shekhars start demanding, she will automaticaly become an obidient bahu, if not she will find reasons to cry for others who she thinks are in pain.

What is annoying is that when she was less priviledged, she raised her voice for herself and for others, but now when she has everything she choses to remain a cry-baby, in self-pity mode or should I say attention-seeker.

What I don't like about Anandi, is all her decisions in life are taken out of helplessness or in order to please someone. And that was acceptable with respect to her past. Not anymore.

I would like to see Anandi who actually loves Shiv and not out of duty. Someone who has dreams for her life and not borrowed dreams. Someone who can spread happiness around, instead of just crying for others. If CVs can't show Anandi progressing in the given circumstances, than it is waste of effort for them to introduce a re-marriage track.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Personally I have been unhappy with Anandi for the way she is treating Shiv and his family.I always felt she is someone who puts others' happiness before hers, so why is she suddenly out of character, but I got a different answer to my own question.

I think Anandi is used to showing her Mahanta only to those people who she thinks are under pain or in trouble. Or she is used to 'pleasing' people, who tend to ignore her or humiliate her. In past that was for DS, J, Gauri, Meenu etc.

At present it is Saanchi .She is making all efforts to 'please' Saanchi, but she takes other Shekhars and Shiv for granted, because they are being nice to her i.e. they are not in pain according to her.So If Shekhars start demanding, she will automaticaly become an obidient bahu, if not she will find reasons to cry for others who she thinks are in pain.

What is annoying is that when she was less priviledged, she raised her voice for herself and for others, but now when she has everything she choses to remain a cry-baby, in self-pity mode or should I say attention-seeker.

What I don't like about Anandi, is all her decisions in life are taken out of helplessness or in order to please someone. And that was acceptable with respect to her past. Not anymore.

I would like to see Anandi who actually loves Shiv and not out of duty. Someone who has dreams for her life and not borrowed dreams. Someone who can spread happiness around, instead of just crying for others. If CVs can't show Anandi progressing in the given circumstances, than it is waste of effort for them to introduce a re-marriage track.

Originally posted by: hooked

The average remarried woman does not throw tantrums like this and only FEEL for her own like this one does. Also, the average husband - of a a first of second timer, does not display SO much patience even at the cost of upsetting his own parents.

This is way OTT. Anandi suffered - Jagya got penalised, Anandi became free, Anandi was railroaded into a second rishta by all her own and adopted families and she accepted it.

Anandi ACCEPTED. This is one person who has a pretty long lecture to give to the entire village panchayat and sarpanch and Dadisa and everyone included when Madam wants to give her own 20 cents. So when she Accpeted - that means she told the other person that she meant to keep the her side of the pact - the marriage pact and all it entails.

Why did she not ?

Everyone says her attachment to Singhs is deeper and her attachment to Shekhar swill take time to build. Her love for Jagya is over but her fondness for Shiv is yet to mature. Oh really !! So why did she not choose to keep a loo.oo.ong engagement ?

The Shekhars are being the nice guys and she is taking them for a ride. Saanchi - is being weird - but someone needs to have a talk with Ms. Anandi and soon. I thought it would be DS who'd set her right. But maybe ChhotiMa will need to be the one to talk plainly. Am hoping it happens soon.

Anandi and her sobs and teary expression and Shiv's understanding are streching my credibility. Yes - I can change the channel - and I do mute it now when she talks - but I like the story and it has potential - wonder why the CV's r hellbent on destroying everything.

Originally posted by: hummingbird

On one hand the creatives of BV tried to show how progressive they are by introducing the remarriage track for Anandi..giving hope to so many women who are divorced/abandoned by their husbands! But now they are showing that a woman no matter how good her new husband is, will keep thinking about her first husband even if there was no love in marriage with him! Anandi's careless and indifferent attitude towards SHiv certainly sends out a very negative message and many guys who might have considered getting married to a divorcee will think ten times before taking the step..

BV CREATIVES ..YOU ARE DOING A BIG DISSERVICE TO ALL THE WOMEN WHO DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE..SO PLEASE DON'T MESS WITH ANANDI'S CHARACTER! SHE IS SETTING A VERY BAD EXAMPLE AT THE MOMENT!