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hummingbird

@hummingbird

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Posted: 12 years ago

On one hand the creatives of BV tried to show how progressive they are by introducing the remarriage track for Anandi..giving hope to so many women who are divorced/abandoned by their husbands! But now they are showing that a woman no matter how good her new husband is, will keep thinking about her first husband even if there was no love in marriage with him! Anandi's careless and indifferent attitude towards SHiv certainly sends out a very negative message and many guys who might have considered getting married to a divorcee will think ten times before taking the step..

BV CREATIVES ..YOU ARE DOING A BIG DISSERVICE TO ALL THE WOMEN WHO DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE..SO PLEASE DON'T MESS WITH ANANDI'S CHARACTER! SHE IS SETTING A VERY BAD EXAMPLE AT THE MOMENT!

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree, well said.The track has become regressive.

It's weird that Anandi is only thankful/obliged to Singhs for giving her a second chance but not to Shiv. (She just says in words, but nothing in action)

She can over feel the pain of Singhs, but can conveniently ignore Shekhars (or say taken for granted).

In reality, women who have got such beautiful second chances also feel obliged to do something for their new in-laws. They just do not run back to their parents and start creating a melodrama over some non-concerned issues.

What CVs are showing is so much out of context, to reality and to Anandi's character. Hope it does not send a wrong message to society.

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saviani

@saviani

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you completely dear...

I was awaiting for this marriage right for the day Shiv entered the show, and the way they progressed... it was so beautiful... just their mere eyelock, nok jhok, phone call used to create magic before... but after marriage everything is changed... even if they show something... the very next episode is a complete let down...

Imagine guys, she as soon as entering the haveli looking for Jagya, and shiv immediately sensing this and asking for him... ufff... what is this girl expecting from her HUSBAND Shiv...

I totally understand memories cannot be forgotton... but she need to know how to ignore it and go forward... CV's are not showing any sign of it at all instead they are playing with Anandi's character a lot...

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chitra11

@chitra11

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you,well said.
I m not getting what r msg cv's giving with Anandi's remarriage.
1st anandi married to shiv bcause of her morher's last wish.she least bother about shiv and his family's feeling.
Just because shiv loves her so he has to be bear all her nonsense.
After seeing anandi's regressive behaviour ,sometimes i feel a divorcee like Anandi should never remarry and spend her life just doing samaj sewa.
I am frustated with anandi"s char now a days

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hooked

@hooked

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Posted: 12 years ago

The average remarried woman does not throw tantrums like this and only FEEL for her own like this one does. Also, the average husband - of a a first of second timer, does not display SO much patience even at the cost of upsetting his own parents.

This is way OTT. Anandi suffered - Jagya got penalised, Anandi became free, Anandi was railroaded into a second rishta by all her own and adopted families and she accepted it.

Anandi ACCEPTED. This is one person who has a pretty long lecture to give to the entire village panchayat and sarpanch and Dadisa and everyone included when Madam wants to give her own 20 cents. So when she Accpeted - that means she told the other person that she meant to keep the her side of the pact - the marriage pact and all it entails.

Why did she not ?

Everyone says her attachment to Singhs is deeper and her attachment to Shekhar swill take time to build. Her love for Jagya is over but her fondness for Shiv is yet to mature. Oh really !! So why did she not choose to keep a loo.oo.ong engagement ?

The Shekhars are being the nice guys and she is taking them for a ride. Saanchi - is being weird - but someone needs to have a talk with Ms. Anandi and soon. I thought it would be DS who'd set her right. But maybe ChhotiMa will need to be the one to talk plainly. Am hoping it happens soon.

Anandi and her sobs and teary expression and Shiv's understanding are streching my credibility. Yes - I can change the channel - and I do mute it now when she talks - but I like the story and it has potential - wonder why the CV's r hellbent on destroying everything.

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chumki

@chumki...

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Posted: 12 years ago

i just don't wanna say anything abt anandi... coz i have nothing to say...but yes me too agreed with u all...bv's cv's r certaily giving wrong msg.very wrong msg...😡

first of all " insaan apne pehle pyaar ko kabhi nahi bhulta"... absolutly baqwas concept... pyaar ek aisa ehshahs hai jo apni jagah bana hi leta hai...aur pehla pyaar ek yaad banke reh jati hai... coz that the rule of nature...

i know jagia was her friend and then she fall in love with him... but tell me guys how many people irespective male of female carry their wrost memory with them selves...aur sab se ahum jis ki wajah se aap ki past itni dadrnaq hai how can u still feel for him?... in real life out of question😕... i will not say love coz i really don;t thnk she loves jagia... but then i have to say one more thing in this case shiv should look up at syam? though shiv doesn;t need anyone's support right now but if in future,😉... i remember the way sugna usued to behave with syaam after their marriage...

look at megha(nbtnmkk) she was a widow with two kids, and staying with her in-laws and they r the one whogot her marraid to mohan! she usued to love her husbend a lot coz they had a love-marriage...but then she fall in love with mohan.and she agreed to her late husbend"aap ki yaad humesha ek mithi yaad banke rahegi"... so what is wrong with anandi then? jagia not only insult humiliate aur dumped anandi.he got marraid too...phir the whole nautanki ek baqwas nahi to aur hai kya?...cv's plz hum logo ko baqs dijie yaar,spl to those who got the second chance in their life and living happily😊

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saviani

@saviani

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Posted: 12 years ago

Chumki... I don't think shiv needs to learn anything from Shyam... Sugna was forced into the marriage and the way she behaved was normal... Here nobody forced Anandi... she went and asked Shiv to marry her and now the way she is behaving is completely wierd... and makes no sense...

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chumki

@chumki...

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: saviani
Chumki... I don't think shiv needs to learn anything from Shyam... Sugna was forced into the marriage and the way she behaved was normal... Here nobody forced Anandi... she went and asked Shiv to marry her and now the way she is behaving is completely wierd... and makes no sense...

i know that saviani😊😊.he doesn't need that...but in future..coz we naver know how long she will behave in such manner😕 and i really feel for shiv yaar,,,,,,,,but i have a question too... mahan aandi ki mahanta shiv ya phir shekher's family ke liye thora bahut kyon nahi dikhayee deti?😕

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saviani

@saviani

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chumki...
i know that saviani😊😊.he doesn't need that...but in future..coz we naver know how long she will behave in such manner😕 and i really feel for shiv yaar,,,,,,,,but i have a question too... mahan aandi ki mahanta shiv ya phir shekher's family ke liye thora bahut kyon nahi dikhayee deti?😕

Arre Chumki... no need to worry about it dear... he will always be in "I understand" mode...😆

And also add Madhubala's mom in your 2nd marriage list ...😛 For your question... that is want concern us... agar isse dikha dethe tho koi issue he nahi banta yaar...

Edited by saviani - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: hummingbird
On one hand the creatives of BV tried to show how progressive they are by introducing the remarriage track for Anandi..giving hope to so many women who are divorced/abandoned by their husbands! But now they are showing that a woman no matter how good her new husband is, will keep thinking about her first husband even if there was no love in marriage with him! Anandi's careless and indifferent attitude towards SHiv certainly sends out a very negative message and many guys who might have considered getting married to a divorcee will think ten times before taking the step..

BV CREATIVES ..YOU ARE DOING A BIG DISSERVICE TO ALL THE WOMEN WHO DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE..SO PLEASE DON'T MESS WITH ANANDI'S CHARACTER! SHE IS SETTING A VERY BAD EXAMPLE AT THE MOMENT!

I want to play the Devil's advocate here😆

I think CV's want to show us how badly child marriage effects an individual.It probably makes the girl dumb and over sensitive towards one group of people(here The Singhs and J ) and totally insensitive towards the other group of people(the Shekar's and Shiv).

Probably child marriages damage the whole personality of an individual . Anand is not like any other woman who needed a second chance. She was the child bride. So , i think the CV's want to show that "child brides personalities are deeply effected...so guys, play safe, don't try to give them a second chance. "

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