Shiv believes in giving freedom to children to make their own decisions.He feels he and parvati should not force their wishes and desires on their children.He feels that if kartikeya doesn't want to return to kailash,he should not force him to come back.Same with Ganesha.If he too doesn't want to return to kailash without kartikeya,let him not.He believes in giving complete freedom to his children.This was not the first time he took such a decision.Earlier too he had taken the same decision and let kartikeya go to south and AS to do tapasya.
Parvati is totally different.She always wants her family to stay together.She feels that parents have the right to impose their decisions on their children specially when the decisions are right.She feels if children don't listen to their parents,parents should convince/force them to listen to them.She wants kartikeya and ganesh back so that her family will be a happy and complete family once again.But when mahadev didn't force his children to come back,she blamed him of being a bairaagi.So who is right,Shiv or Parvati?Btw friends,don't we face the same situations in our lives too?I am sure as children or parents,we too must have faced the same situations at some point in our lives.