RELATION: Make or Break - Page 3

Nice topic ahmed keep debating

Originally posted by: kavith_2305

Nice topic ahmed keep debating

hey kavita.......what a surprise......your views are appreicatable.and honest... but one point as u mentioned real friends are with us from childhood.... and virtual are virtual...but i feel some times with virtual we go beyond i mean mean in such a good friendly relation that it can be better then real... but some members purposely try to avoid friendship coz they feel they will get addicted😊.

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

thanks pari,

welcome😛 glad u appreciated my views

on this note some words:

A good pal is hard to find
I know because I've tried.
One who wears their heart upon their sleeve
but, I've never seen her/him cry.

When I'm in need she/he is right there
busy or not, she/he will find the time.
Her/his wings don't show, but I know
for me they always shine.


I'm proud to say that she/he is my pal
don't know what I'd do without her/him
so I just wrote this little poem

To a great pal with luv

My Special Pals

As I look around I see,
All my pals surrounding me.
Every color, shape and size,
Shining little button eyes!

They sit and listen every day,
About all the milestones that come my way.
And I can always count on them,
To keep my secrets deep within.

So sunny days or starry nights,
My pals will always make things right.
Although faded and tattered they may become,
I'll always luv them, every one!

Can a friendship made in forum can last long?

Forum friends may take longer to strike a cord with. Body language is amiss while conversing which is a clearer indication of the reaction. We can't see them or touch them. But once a bonding is stuck it's as good as any other friend, if not better.

After a long time in the virtual world, I can discuss any issue under the sun with them. The mutual needs are understood and respected.

I have seen many in forum they will count some one so closely so friendly, but again may be with some misconception they will not even take there name in friendship list, why??? Was it not a true friendship?

This characteristic is more of individuality rather than a generalisation. I have no statistics – but people who develop misconceptions and move out , will most likely do it with their other friends too – not just the forum friends.

Some people take long to develop trust and call each other friends and some people end up doing it so quickly.

But TRUE friendship can never end and definitely not with an argument.

Quite recently in forum an argument occurred in particular section. They were good friends but in one case there views were not matching and they left the friendship.. why???? Is friendship so easy to break and move on???

My View – Who ever says that friends need to have the same view point? People poles apart in their views are great friends too. A friend is one who can want the good of a friend irrespective of where they stand. It's nice to logically debate with friends as they can open a new arena and widen our thinking or they can confirm to our thoughts and make us stronger. Certain times, we may decide to walk on a separate path and understand each other perfectly J

So, why a simple misunderstanding breaks a relation love? Can we feel ego comes in?

Ego, is a big hazzle in any relationship. A simple misunderstanding does not break things, but sometimes situations do. How things are conveyed is as important as what is conveyed. Public humiliation, attention dragging should be avoided at all costs.

Relation of wife and husband, (I don't want to include the topic extra martial affair coz that is not the only thing a relation breaks) so excluding that thing why they get separate. when trust is there for so long time may be they are married for 4-5 years so the 5 year trust is simply broken in a minute and they first thing comes in mind is ok that's it we cant be together now, why?

Irrespective how long the couples have been together, some issues can't be compromised. Nobody is perfect and there are annoying habits/attitudes with all. Its best to keep emotions under control and not drop the "CANT" word often. But yes, just because have people stayed together for long, they don't have to put up with things that they strongly feel

TRUST GOD HAVE FAITH WHAT HAPPENS HE ALONE NOWS SO WHY WORRY DO GOOD BE GOOD HELP AS MUCH YOU CAN REST IN HIS HANDS

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

agree need a person no do house work..😉..... after all every one has to get married coz in like happiness is notevery thing😊

oye Ahmed what you mean??????????, well houseload work is equally shared😊 since marriage is between partners😉

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

thanks pari, gudia, ayesha... for your views and hope that views should be maintained.too ...

bhaskar bhai....yes we come long way... and i agree even we dont communicate much lekin we are there.. and hope every one understand friendships importance and maintain it. 😉

ur welcomeee...awesomee topic ahmed bhai 👏 👏