RELATION: Make or Break - Page 2

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

Some one from forum said me few words which I cant forget…."In a relation many problems can come but it should not effect the amt of love for each other. Unless trust is broken other things should not at all matter. Views may differ but it cannot be a reason for relation break up…"

Nice Quote wonder who the genuis was😛

well will say U are a special person who I trust😛 so U know me well enough so no need 4 me to give my views.

Also, I not want to tire readers with a essay, and a wise one told me that sweet and simple is the way so here are some poem s

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

will sure ...next topic coz you all have big confusions so have to clear all minds...😉

only one comment on ego right now is... as all aretelling mans ego ... will tell it is evoke by womans behaviour

oye matlap? 😉😆another saying on woman you guys cant live with them yet you cant live with out them either😉

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

what a topic😆

1) Can a friendship made in forum can last long?

I prefer real ones over making ones on the net . After all one never know who lies on the other side. However o answer the question posed I would say it depends.

2) I have seen many in forum they will count some one so closely so friendly, but again may be with some misconception they will not even take there name in friendship list, why??? Was it not a true friendship?

I guess not.

3) Quite recently in forum an argument occurred in particular section. They were good friends but in one case there views were not matching and they left the friendship.. why???? Is friendship so easy to break and move on???

No true friendships are not easy to break. Its not necessary that your views should match just my POV.

Relation of love

4) So, why a simple misunderstanding breaks a relation love? Can we feel ego comes in?

Many reasons, however, not much time to get into all of them. So will pick lack of understnding.

5) Relation of wife and husband, (I don't want to include the topic extra martial affair coz that is not the only thing a relation breaks) so excluding that thing why they get separate. when trust is there for so long time may be they are married for 4-5 years so the 5 year trust is simply broken in a minute and they first thing comes in mind is ok that's it we cant be together now,why?

Many things can happen over time to cause a rift. Okay thats all I got to say.

Some one from forum said me few words which I cant forget…."In a relation many problems can come but it should not effect the amt of love for each other. Unless trust is broken other things should not at all matter. Views may differ but it cannot be a reason for relation break up…" 👏

Need your views…

can treat text in purple as questions...

Cheers,

Ahmed

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

About friendship It can be in any form girl- girl,boy-boy.. why a small misunderstanding breaks a friendship.

Bhaijaan aapka topic ho aur hum kuch na kahae 😊 Well my own take on this... lack of trust. If the trust is there you will not brood but will simply ask for clarification or get it cleared out.

1) Can a friendship made in forum can last long?

Why not!!! What about you and me. Don't you think it's one of the best example. I have even forgotten when we got started.

2) I have seen many in forum they will count some one so closely so friendly, but again may be with some misconception they will not even take there name in friendship list, why??? Was it not a true friendship?

See such lists usually becomes so long that at times you are bound to miss out few names. But is putting the name on the list matters more than the feeling.

3) Quite recently in forum an argument occurred in particular section. They were good friends but in one case there views were not matching and they left the friendship.. why???? Is friendship so easy to break and move on???

It's unfortunate. And no it is not easy too to break and move on.

I don't know how others treat this forum but I personally feel if I have some problem and if I tell them they are ready to help me however they can. Even he/she is in Canada, USA, UK or even Norway… they are always there.

Same here and have got the help from many here. And they have become special part of my life.

Friendship not only in forum but an over all look..

Some one from forum said me few words which I cant forget…."In a relation many problems can come but it should not effect the amt of love for each other. Unless trust is broken other things should not at all matter. Views may differ but it cannot be a reason for relation break up…"

Need your views…

Exactly my views Bhaijaan. It is finally trust that is paramount in any relationship. If you don't have that the relationship is bound to break if not today then tomorrow. But when trust is there whatever happens, how so ever your views differ the relationship will remain.

can treat text in purple as questions...

Cheers,

Ahmed

1) Can a friendship made in forum can last long?

Inshallah!!! Let us hope the friendships made here last forever.Depends on the types of forums we log in,types of friends we get.See !!! If we log into a serial forum our friendship may fade as soon as the serials finishes,say we log into forums like Debate Mansion or any general forum here we get oppurtunity to know about the real interests,real views,real attitude of the people and so the friends made in such forums hopefully last long.We get friends of different ages here.I don't say friends made in serial forum don't maintain friendship for long time.

2) I have seen many in forum they will count some one so closely so friendly, but again may be with some misconception they will not even take there name in friendship list, why??? Was it not a true friendship?

I don't beleive people easily.So beleiving online friends really take sometime.But I'm fortunate enough to have good friends here.True friendhip and all are very unnecessary issues.One's ownself is one's true friend.

3) Quite recently in forum an argument occurred in particular section. They were good friends but in one case there views were not matching and they left the friendship.. why???? Is friendship so easy to break and move on???

I once again say this arguments between friends (if the friends are matured ) will have some quality if they argue on some reasonable,sensible topic.Definitely friendship breaks if we argue on the topics like why did the hot actor did such type of scene,who is hotter among A and B actors and all those dirty stuff.

I don't know how others treat this forum but I personally feel if I have some problem and if I tell them they are ready to help me however they can. Even he/she is in Canada, USA, UK or even Norway… they are always there.

I'm fortunate enough to have friends who care me,my health in this forum.

Cheers,

Mythili

Originally posted by: prietyny

oye matlap? 😉😆another saying on woman you guys cant live with them yet you cant live with out them either😉

agree need a person no do house work..😉..... after all every one has to get married coz in like happiness is notevery thing😊

Hi guys,

This topic is on relation. In simple words, what is a relation. When relation is been made then why it is break. Let me be clear I am not talking abt a relation of parents and there children, brother –sister, in short blood relation coz this we cannot say that it can be broken some problems may occur, u may be sperate but some where in heart you will be having soft corner for them. Ok let me come to the point…

I am talking abt a relation of friendship and love.(u can count married couples too)

About friendship It can be in any form girl- girl,boy-boy.. why a small misunderstanding breaks a friendship.

1) Can a friendship made in forum can last long? that depends but it can last long...

2) I have seen many in forum they will count some one so closely so friendly, but again may be with some misconception they will not even take there name in friendship list, why??? Was it not a true friendship? Ofcourse u shouldn't betray your friend in forum but much important is u should not get emotionally attached with them too all of a sudden i will say it is much much dangerous.
Ur real life frendz u know them from childhood you know very well abt their family their surroundings everything so there u can trust the person easily but how can we expect such things in forum..may be u can but u need time for that..Trust will come only slowly. when come to virtual frendz...

3) Quite recently in forum an argument occurred in particular section. They were good friends but in one case there views were not matching and they left the friendship.. why???? Is friendship so easy to break and move on??? This may be bcos they are friends but there is no foundation for that friendship.This is wat will happen to friendship created in fraction of seconds.

I don't know how others treat this forum but I personally feel if I have some problem and if I tell them they are ready to help me however they can. Even he/she is in Canada, USA, UK or even Norway… they are always there.

yes i too have such friends ..

Friendship not only in forum but an over all look..

Relation of love

4) So, why a simple misunderstanding breaks a relation love? Can we feel ego comes in? there may be many reasons ego,inferiority complex,anger,with much anger we may shout it could hurt the other one then it is very difficult to take those words back..

on top of all over expectations lead to most of mis understandings.

5) Relation of wife and husband, (I don't want to include the topic extra martial affair coz that is not the only thing a relation breaks) so excluding that thing why they get separate. when trust is there for so long time may be they are married for 4-5 years so the 5 year trust is simply broken in a minute and they first thing comes in mind is ok that's it we cant be together now,why?the same reason why love get separted..

Some one from forum said me few words which I cant forget…."In a relation many problems can come but it should not effect the amt of love for each other. Unless trust is broken other things should not at all matter. Views may differ but it cannot be a reason for relation break up…"

Need your views…

can treat text in purple as questions...

Cheers,

Ahmed