The Big Picture: My thoughts on 2012/12/28 - Page 3

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Posted: 13 years ago
#21
so thoughtful...🤗
agree...😆
but its unexpected one...the problem is cvs have shown both...used to sit n talk in every occasion...this is the matter...we all r expecting to have a talk...which is missing completely.!!...but ok...lets c what cvs have in their paln😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree with u vedo...i m not sacred with the precap too...it was normal natural scenario...thts wat happens in real..all men will become despo in this situation but the real gentelmen will know wen to stop.I am sure once they hav their heart to heart talk everything will be fine
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Beautifully written Vedo...Concise and most correctly written...Agree with all u have said...When i came on line I too was thinking of making a post on similar lines but after reading ur post i don't think I need to make one...

I agree with all ur points, and more particularly with the one about Ansh having a heart to heart about consummation. But I think in this respect it is Anandi who should make the first move. She is now no longer a child and knew what the marriage would involve when she agreed to tie the knot. When Jagya tried his best to make Shiv break off the relationship...and Shiv practically did so...at that time it was Anandi who came forward and agreed to marry him...If she has done that only because of her mother and the Singhs then she has actually wronged Shiv...because she had not opened up and told him that that was the reason for her marrying him...She has made it look as though she is willing to marry him..and he poor soul has been led to believe that she cares for him (which she probably does) but is either unaware of the feelings or is unable to express them...Under these circumstances it is only natural for Shiv to want to get intimate with her ...In my opinion before Shiv misreads her denial she should open up and tell him frankly all the turmoil in her heart and mind regarding intimacy...Shiv has so far been portrayed as a real gentleman and an understanding person...He will surely not only understand her turmoil but will even help her sort out her dilemma...Just hope the CVs don't spoil his character by making him take this in the wrong way and thereby it affecting his behaviour towards Anandi...This is the one thought that is a bit scary...As we can never predict what our Cvs think of doing in the future...Keeping fingers crossed and hoping that this will go the right way too and not the way of the other daily soaps...(I am referring here to a third angle in a triangle)...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very nicely analysed ...Vedo..
Upon reading your thoughts that focus on Nurture Vs. Nature...I cannot but draw a similarity of Prakriti - Purush for AnSh...
I came across this beautiful explanation for its essence...pls do read...and U can u/stand., how it fits AnSh so well...
According to Sankhya philosophy.,
There is no creator god, no puppet master pulling any strings. Since purusha is pure consciousness, it follows that prakriti is unconscious. Prakriti is everything that is changing. Prakriti is not just the physical aspects of the universe that we can sense; it is our very senses themselves - our thoughts, memories, desires, and even our intelligence. Prakriti is everything that is that isn't conscious. Consciousness resides only in purusha, or more properly, as purusha.


Purusha, pure and distant, is beyond subject and object. One cannot understand purusha, for that would make it an object. Purusha cannot know or understand anything either, for that would make purusha a subject. Purusha simply just is. But, because of the presence of prakriti, purusha gets attracted to nature in the way a man is attracted when he watches a beautiful woman dancing. He cannot help but try to get closer.
Purusha is often likened to the sun, while Prakriti is a flower attracted to and following the sun's presence.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ananhita

Agree with you 100% and after seeing Anandi for 4 yrs now , she behaves the way exactly as I expect her to in the precap.
I am surprised people find the precap scary or disappointing.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adi2512

Very nicely analysed ...Vedo..

Upon reading your thoughts that focus on Nurture Vs. Nature...I cannot but draw a similarity of Prakriti - Purush for AnSh...
I came across this beautiful explanation for its essence...pls do read...and U can u/stand., how it fits AnSh so well...
According to Sankhya philosophy.,
There is no creator god, no puppet master pulling any strings. Since purusha is pure consciousness, it follows that prakriti is unconscious. Prakriti is everything that is changing. Prakriti is not just the physical aspects of the universe that we can sense; it is our very senses themselves - our thoughts, memories, desires, and even our intelligence. Prakriti is everything that is that isn't conscious. Consciousness resides only in purusha, or more properly, as purusha.


Purusha, pure and distant, is beyond subject and object. One cannot understand purusha, for that would make it an object. Purusha cannot know or understand anything either, for that would make purusha a subject. Purusha simply just is. But, because of the presence of prakriti, purusha gets attracted to nature in the way a man is attracted when he watches a beautiful woman dancing. He cannot help but try to get closer.
Purusha is often likened to the sun, while Prakriti is a flower attracted to and following the sun's presence.


Beautiful!!! Makes complete sense😊. This is natural Instinct 😳.
So true Purusha is just is and because of presence of prakriti gets attracted... that's what happend here also. He got attracted to Anandi...reasons followed later but he was plain attracted to her ( attraction at first sight😉) and then he sat on plane and made it to Ajee land phataphat thx to DS 😆. All his kharoosness was to keep love at bay 😉.

But i feel apart from this on a human level...Shiv feels that she has some sort of inferiority complex as an unsuccessful wife 😉. A man abandoned her for another woman ...maybe she was not able to satisfy J as a wife ...that's why he went to different zone. I think Shiv is trying to prove to her that she is the best wife a man can have...she has to just keep her dil & dimag khula😉. He wants her to open up by hook or by crook. Ghee seedhi ungli se nahi niklti hai tho ungli thedhe karne pdehti hai. He wants his lady love to speak up...good bad ugly whatever so all this tactics to make her feel something and break the wall of her heat and have a heart to heart 😳.I loved SHIV today he was awesome as HUBBY. RIGHT APPROACH!!!!👏 Otherwise Ajee would have taken him to Vatican 😉😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: 5cents


Beautiful!!! Makes complete sense😊. This is natural Instinct 😳.
So true Purusha is just is and because of presence of prakriti gets attracted... that's what happend here also. He got attracted to Anandi...reasons followed later but he was plain attracted to her ( attraction at first sight😉) and then he sat on plane and made it to Ajee land phataphat thx to DS 😆. All his kharoosness was to keep love at bay 😉.

But i feel apart from this on a human level...Shiv feels that she has some sort of inferiority complex as an unsuccessful wife 😉. A man abandoned her for another woman ...maybe she was not able to satisfy J as a wife ...that's why he went to different zone. I think Shiv is trying to prove to her that she is the best wife a man can have...she has to just keep her dil & dimag khula😉. He wants her to open up by hook or by crook. Ghee seedhi ungli se nahi niklti hai tho ungli thedhe karne pdehti hai. He wants his lady love to speak up...good bad ugly whatever so all this tactics to make her feel something and break the wall of her heat and have a heart to heart 😳.I loved SHIV today he was awesome as HUBBY. RIGHT APPROACH!!!!👏 Otherwise Ajee would have taken him to Vatican 😉😆

Tina...
The way you have analysed his more human approach is all the more enticing.
Till now., As a Friend., philosopher, Guide., he has given her all he could...never stepped back.
Now., with his new role as a husband., he does not want to step back ...in this sense too...
That's the very reason he STEPPED UP...and yes., its so predictable of him...
I have now u/stood him completely...
Thank You once again...
I'am loving Shiv all the more now...EmbarrassedEmbarrassed
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Posted: 13 years ago
#28
well said...relax guys things will surely work out for shiv-anandi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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WOW Vedo a very very nice and sensible post 👏
Yes you are absolutely right abt every character
From Sumi and DS's POV they all love Jagadish and Anandi is the ideal SIL and everyone always want a SIL like Anandi and it's very tough and hurting for anyone if you got the best person in your life first then for your bad luck you have to let him/her go.So from Sumi's POV she is not atall being selfish.😳
Now from Shiv's POV...here he is actually a bechara 😆 he is in madly love with his Anandijee and we all now how much obstacle he had to face before marriage.And his desire as a husband is very much reasonable as he is normal humanbeing and he does not have any 'KAMI' 😆 so it's really near impossible to control your emotion infront of your beloved when you know that he/she is now your's 😳
Last and most important POV is my Anandi's 😳 I really feel bad for her.She has been abused by that person whom he loved sooo much and he just deserted her after consume their marriage so the pain , hurt she felt was not only unbearable but also it's a insult of a woman's grace so she is in fear because her dark past and as we know that still now AnSh is not in that comfortzone where they can share this big step.When JaAn consumed there marriage they are totally in love with each other and they are so much comfortable but we cant expect same comfortaleness b/w AnSh right now and at this moment
So lastly I am 100% agreed with you that communication is the bestest key for these problems 😳 and our AnSh will overcome this obstacle also ⭐️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you everyone for your wonderful and insightful comments!



See his concern, his love for her...he could barely bring himself to touch her when she's sleeping...OF COURSE he's gonna back off and give her the space she needs when he realizes she is not ready.
Edited by Vedo - 13 years ago

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