i must differ here from few of you i have seen people in life all bitter word have been told tothemby people though once those people come and say sorry that person will forgive to them and doesnot keep any bitterness in thie thoughts also, my dad is like that for him and bitter word cannot break me it does not make any difference for him he is always ready to help though they insult them like saloni and than we get angree on him and ask them to stop helping such people but he always says we should not see thier bad behaviour we should concentrat on our good behaviour
but truely speaking for me very difficult to follow that,
and frankly speaking arrow from the bow and word from the mouth cannot take back, if your aim is very strong it will hurt .
and word can hurt more than bow , as once wound can be heal but the wound word give very difficult to heal
so always mut think hundrad time before speaking a single word.
and i have seen urvashi kind of manipulative people also in my life and bearing them still now, but have to be very carefull all the time